Christmas Tree Festival - Dromahair, Co. Leitrim
The Christmas tree festival was held over the weekend 6 to 8th December in Dromahair which is part of the Manorhamilton group. This festival commenced the fundraising to repair the Bell Tower and provide all the facilities a church needs in the 21st century. MU was very much part of all the displays, well done to the members
The Christmas tree festival was held over the weekend 6 to 8th December in Dromahair which is part of the Manorhamilton group. This festival commenced the fundraising to repair the Bell Tower and provide all the facilities a church needs in the 21st century. MU was very much part of all the displays, well done to the members
All Ireland Big Sing in St Patrick's Church, Ballymena
KEA members were present at the All Ireland Big Sing in St Patrick's Church, Ballymena on Saturday 16th November.
The highlight of the service was The Clare Chorale choir who led the singing and also performed a number of pieces.
The most Revd John McDowell, Archbishop of Armagh delivered the address. The Revd Canon Mark McConnell rector of the parish of Kilconriola, Ballymena and the Ven Dr Stephen McBride also officiated. The lesson was read by Mrs June Butler, All Ireland President. Mrs Iris Suitor, All Ireland zonal trustee spoke about the work of Mums and May. Prayers were led by the All Ireland Unit Co-ordinators, Mrs Clare Stewart, Mrs Kay Clarke, Mrs Kaye Nesbitt and Mrs Margaret Jacob. It was an amazing service with lots of singing familiar hymns together chosen by each dioceses. As our All Ireland President, Mrs June Butler term of office after six years is fast approaching it was her last big event. Refreshments were served next door to the church and we had time to meet folk from all around Ireland.
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The highlight of the service was The Clare Chorale choir who led the singing and also performed a number of pieces.
The most Revd John McDowell, Archbishop of Armagh delivered the address. The Revd Canon Mark McConnell rector of the parish of Kilconriola, Ballymena and the Ven Dr Stephen McBride also officiated. The lesson was read by Mrs June Butler, All Ireland President. Mrs Iris Suitor, All Ireland zonal trustee spoke about the work of Mums and May. Prayers were led by the All Ireland Unit Co-ordinators, Mrs Clare Stewart, Mrs Kay Clarke, Mrs Kaye Nesbitt and Mrs Margaret Jacob. It was an amazing service with lots of singing familiar hymns together chosen by each dioceses. As our All Ireland President, Mrs June Butler term of office after six years is fast approaching it was her last big event. Refreshments were served next door to the church and we had time to meet folk from all around Ireland.
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Nadine Davidson former KEA trustee catching up with KEA members.
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Suzanne Siberry, Manorhamilton branch getting to know our All Ireland Mothers Union secretary, Hannah Tate
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ALL IRELAND COUNCIL 0CTOBER 2024
KEA attended All Ireland council held in Christ Church cathedral 19th October. The day began with a Holy Communion service followed by the dedication of the new Mothers' union chapel by the most Revd Michael Jackson
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MOTHERS' UNION GETAWAY - ARMAGH OCTOBER 2024
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KEA attend the annual MU getaway which was held in Armagh City Hotel, 11th 12th October 2024.
The Friday evening got off to a marvellous start with a visit to the Palace Demesne, which was next door to the hotel. We were greeted by the Lord Mayor, Sarah Duffy and were served canapes and refreshments.
After dinner back in the hotel, our All Ireland Chaplain, Archdeacon Stephen McBride led our mini big hymn sing accompanied by Claire Smyth who is a brilliant musician. The hymn which topped our poll was "How Great Thou Art".
Friday evening closed with a short epilogue led by the Most Revd Bishop John McDowell.
Our guest speaker for the getaway was Ruth Garvey-Williams who gave a very inspiring message on "Gloriously Ordinary".
This included three sessions, Jars of Clay, this treasure, and time out for personal reflection. During the first session, we were given a small block of clay to make a jar to hold a tea light.
There was amazing treasurers of clay being made and Ruth reminded us of the light shining through the gaps of our treasure, something to hold onto, listen to our God as we are always in his capable hands. Ruth's final session gave us time to think and reflect on what we had heard earlier. We had opportunity to walk outside and enjoy the Armagh autumn colours around us, sit in a quiet place to reflect on the treasure that is the Lord Jesus and spend time thanking him. Talk to Jesus about where you feel afflicted, perplexed or struck down. Reflect on the hope that HE is with you. Ruth kindly gave everyone the opportunity if they wanted to talk to her privately and pray with them. The morning sessions were followed with Mid-day prayers led by Rev Alan Cross, Armagh Diocesan Chaplain.
After lunch, we had our final session entitled “GO Activity” with Carol Doey leading us. The session started in fine fashion with calypso dancing to “Jump In The Line” (Shake, shake, shake, Senora) which certainly woke us up after our delicious lunch. Carol then asked us to think of the title of our life story and the titles of the first 5 chapters of the book with the next chapter to be continued. Those who wanted could share with everyone what they had written all of which were very thought-provoking. Carol then facilitated a time of meditation which allowed everyone to relax, she then closed the GO Activity session with a rousing rendition of “This little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine”.
The Getaway was a wonderful opportunity for the members to enjoy a little “me time” in our busy lives. Armagh proved to be a wonderful venue, with great food and also a very relaxing atmosphere. Everyone commented on how much they enjoyed reconnecting with old friends and making new ones. There was a great sense of fun, faith and fellowship throughout our time away. At the end of the Getaway, it was great to see friendships being formed and the exchanging of contact details. MUe stall was available over the entire getaway. Big thanks to the Armagh DP and members who were a wonderful support and help which made the getaway running smoothly at all times. Also a word of thanks to KEA DP who was our photographer as she mingled around and took photos and videos when the opportunity arose. One of the Armagh members kitted a heart as a keepsake for everyone that attended, sending love and friendship from Armagh back to all the other dioceses, branch members and friends!
The Friday evening got off to a marvellous start with a visit to the Palace Demesne, which was next door to the hotel. We were greeted by the Lord Mayor, Sarah Duffy and were served canapes and refreshments.
After dinner back in the hotel, our All Ireland Chaplain, Archdeacon Stephen McBride led our mini big hymn sing accompanied by Claire Smyth who is a brilliant musician. The hymn which topped our poll was "How Great Thou Art".
Friday evening closed with a short epilogue led by the Most Revd Bishop John McDowell.
Our guest speaker for the getaway was Ruth Garvey-Williams who gave a very inspiring message on "Gloriously Ordinary".
This included three sessions, Jars of Clay, this treasure, and time out for personal reflection. During the first session, we were given a small block of clay to make a jar to hold a tea light.
There was amazing treasurers of clay being made and Ruth reminded us of the light shining through the gaps of our treasure, something to hold onto, listen to our God as we are always in his capable hands. Ruth's final session gave us time to think and reflect on what we had heard earlier. We had opportunity to walk outside and enjoy the Armagh autumn colours around us, sit in a quiet place to reflect on the treasure that is the Lord Jesus and spend time thanking him. Talk to Jesus about where you feel afflicted, perplexed or struck down. Reflect on the hope that HE is with you. Ruth kindly gave everyone the opportunity if they wanted to talk to her privately and pray with them. The morning sessions were followed with Mid-day prayers led by Rev Alan Cross, Armagh Diocesan Chaplain.
After lunch, we had our final session entitled “GO Activity” with Carol Doey leading us. The session started in fine fashion with calypso dancing to “Jump In The Line” (Shake, shake, shake, Senora) which certainly woke us up after our delicious lunch. Carol then asked us to think of the title of our life story and the titles of the first 5 chapters of the book with the next chapter to be continued. Those who wanted could share with everyone what they had written all of which were very thought-provoking. Carol then facilitated a time of meditation which allowed everyone to relax, she then closed the GO Activity session with a rousing rendition of “This little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine”.
The Getaway was a wonderful opportunity for the members to enjoy a little “me time” in our busy lives. Armagh proved to be a wonderful venue, with great food and also a very relaxing atmosphere. Everyone commented on how much they enjoyed reconnecting with old friends and making new ones. There was a great sense of fun, faith and fellowship throughout our time away. At the end of the Getaway, it was great to see friendships being formed and the exchanging of contact details. MUe stall was available over the entire getaway. Big thanks to the Armagh DP and members who were a wonderful support and help which made the getaway running smoothly at all times. Also a word of thanks to KEA DP who was our photographer as she mingled around and took photos and videos when the opportunity arose. One of the Armagh members kitted a heart as a keepsake for everyone that attended, sending love and friendship from Armagh back to all the other dioceses, branch members and friends!
TEAM HOPE SHOEBOXES 2024
Photo shows members from Swanlinbar/Kildallon with the shoeboxes they packed for Team Hope.
The Big Sing - St. Paul's Church, Collooney, 8.09.2024
The Big Sing was a wonderful event of praise and thanksgiving. We enjoyed the film clips of members introducing the hymns, taking us to various parishes in KEA. The whole service, including music, solo and hearty singing was most inspiring. The delicious supper served to the large congregation was much appreciated. Mothers' Union objectives were ably presented. Well done to all involved!
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Festival Service of Thanksgiving Riverstown Church 28.05.2024
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FESTIVAL SERVICE OF THANKSGIVING - CHRIST CHURCH KILDALLON 15.05.2024
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Mums in May Big Sing - Rosscarbery Cathedral
Wonderful Mums in May Big Hymn Sing in Rosscarbery Cathedral in the dioceses of Cork, Cloyne and Ross on Saturday 27th April 2024.
In attendance were Mrs June Butler, All Ireland President, preacher Revd Ivan Ruithers, MU chaplain Cork Dioceses,
Mrs Hilary Dring diocesan president. The Dean of the cathedral, Dean Cliff Jeffers and Mrs Liz Greer, All Ireland Southern young members representative who was delighted to be attending which was back to her grass routes and it was a privilege to carry the KEA banner.
A great variety of old and new hymns were sung throughout the service. Lovely spread of food afterwards in the church hall, including MU enterprise and friendships being renewed with members and friends in Cork.
In attendance were Mrs June Butler, All Ireland President, preacher Revd Ivan Ruithers, MU chaplain Cork Dioceses,
Mrs Hilary Dring diocesan president. The Dean of the cathedral, Dean Cliff Jeffers and Mrs Liz Greer, All Ireland Southern young members representative who was delighted to be attending which was back to her grass routes and it was a privilege to carry the KEA banner.
A great variety of old and new hymns were sung throughout the service. Lovely spread of food afterwards in the church hall, including MU enterprise and friendships being renewed with members and friends in Cork.
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Sharing Afternoon - Riverstown
An afternoon of fun, fellowship and brainstorming with Afternoon Tea was held in the Cooper Memorial Hall, Riverstown on Saturday 27th April. There was a full house with Guest speaker Mrs Jacqui Armstrong from the All-ireland Faith and Social policy of the mothers union. The branch leader Mrs Hilda Shaw and her team did a wonderful job, meeting, greeting and treating us to afternoon tea from china sets all supplied by the local ladies. Mr Damien Shorten the lay pastor from Riverstown opened the afternoon with a beautiful service and Mrs Leila Beattie closed it with some chair exercises and a reflection.
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ALL IRELAND HOLY COMMUNION SERVICE
On Thursday 11th April an All-~Ireland Service of Holy Communion was celebrated in St. John's Church Longford. The service was led by Canon Richard Waller, Diocesan Chaplain. Canon Christiaan Snell gave a warm welcome to all in attendance. The address was given by Bishop Ferran Glenfield and the organist was Mrs. Daphne Barden. The Hymns were 'Christ is Alive'; Knowing you, Jesus'; 'Blessed Assurance'; and 'Tell me the Old Old Story. The prayers were led by Mrs. Charlotte Browne, Mrs. Mary Jones and Mrs. Cynthia Poyntz. Following the service Mrs. Ann Howard thanked everyone for attending and all who took part in the service and also spoke about upcoming MU events. Everyone enjoyed the delicious refreshments which were served before and after the service.
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CHRISTMAS TREE FESTIVAL
Members from Swanlinbar/Kildallon MU sponsored a tree in St. John's Church Florencecourt for their Christmas Tree Festival held on Friday 1st - Sunday 3rd December. The Festival was named after the Carol 'Ding Dong Merrily on High'. Photo on the left shows some of the members who attended on Saturday and on the right is the decorated tree showcasing MU before it was placed in the church.
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SHOEBOXES FOR TEAM HOPE.
Photo shows members from Swanlinbar/Ballyconnell who packed 70+ shoeboxes in Tomregan Hall, Ballyconnell.
MU GETAWAY WEEKEND - OCTOBER 2023
Our MU Getaway this year was on the 6th and 7th of October in the Hotel Kilmore, Co Cavan. The event was organised by the All Ireland Reps Liz Greer and Wendy Halligan, under the watchful eye of All Ireland President, June Butler and Hazel Speares, VP Action and Outreach. Our bookings were up on the previous year, and we had a total of 167 attend either part or all of the Getaway. It was great seeing new faces and welcoming back our regulars. Our guest speaker was Melanie Douglas, a retired assistant lay pastor from Bangor, who spoke to us on “Living an Abundant Life”. Mel was a very inspirational speaker and we had lots of fun, fellowship, food and laughter, together with some armchair aerobics which was led by Leila Beatie.
On Friday evening, our All Ireland Chaplain, Archdeacon Stephen McBride and his wife Helen joined us and after dinner, we had a session on getting to know our All Ireland Chaplain better. The Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh Diocesan President, Ann Howard and Young Members Representative, Diane Stuart organised Pauline Howard to show us some dance moves. We were very quick learners and the dance floor was alive in no time. The Friday evening closed with an Epilogue led by our All Ireland chaplain and a short reflection by Mel.
The next morning after breakfast, June Butler, All Ireland President welcomed everyone to the Getaway. During Saturday Mel covered 3 sessions in the morning, What is this abundant life, How can we have this abundant life and then time out for personal reflection which included the use of the lovely gardens at Hotel Kilmore. The sun shone which made it more pleasant to walk, sit, and share stories, while at the same time enjoying the Cavan autumn colours around us.
Mel played her guitar and sang some of her own pieces as well as singing several praise songs which we all joined in with. The singing was amazing by all present. During the Getaway, Mel gave everyone the opportunity to talk to her privately and to pray with them if requested. Mel was an inspiring lady at our getaway. She glows with positivity and the Christan faith, it was such a joy to have Mel with as our guest speaker.
Mid-day prayers were led by Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh’s chaplain, Revd Richard Waller, who is always very supportive and attends our meetings and events during the year. It is wonderful to have Revd Richard as our link with the clergy in our diocese.
The Getaway was a wonderful opportunity for our members to enjoy a little “me time” in our busy lives. The Hotel Kilmore proved to be a wonderful venue, with great food and also a very relaxing atmosphere. Everyone commented on how much they enjoyed reconnecting with old friends and making new ones. There was a great sense of fun and fellowship throughout our time away. At the end of the Getaway, it was great to see new friendships being formed and the exchanging of phone numbers.
A huge thanks to June, Hazel, and Ann for their support, and valued expertise along the way to make this event happen. Thanks to Violet Magee, Leila Beatie and KEA helpers for providing the MUe stall which was available over the entire Getaway. Our young members representative, Diane made lovely keepsake bookmarks for everyone who attended, it was the host diocese's way of sending love and fellowship from KEA back to all the other dioceses in Ireland.
Save the date for our 2024 Getaway. Venue Armagh City Hotel, Armagh on the 11th and 12th of October 2024. See you all there!
Liz Greer & Wendy Halligan
On Friday evening, our All Ireland Chaplain, Archdeacon Stephen McBride and his wife Helen joined us and after dinner, we had a session on getting to know our All Ireland Chaplain better. The Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh Diocesan President, Ann Howard and Young Members Representative, Diane Stuart organised Pauline Howard to show us some dance moves. We were very quick learners and the dance floor was alive in no time. The Friday evening closed with an Epilogue led by our All Ireland chaplain and a short reflection by Mel.
The next morning after breakfast, June Butler, All Ireland President welcomed everyone to the Getaway. During Saturday Mel covered 3 sessions in the morning, What is this abundant life, How can we have this abundant life and then time out for personal reflection which included the use of the lovely gardens at Hotel Kilmore. The sun shone which made it more pleasant to walk, sit, and share stories, while at the same time enjoying the Cavan autumn colours around us.
Mel played her guitar and sang some of her own pieces as well as singing several praise songs which we all joined in with. The singing was amazing by all present. During the Getaway, Mel gave everyone the opportunity to talk to her privately and to pray with them if requested. Mel was an inspiring lady at our getaway. She glows with positivity and the Christan faith, it was such a joy to have Mel with as our guest speaker.
Mid-day prayers were led by Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh’s chaplain, Revd Richard Waller, who is always very supportive and attends our meetings and events during the year. It is wonderful to have Revd Richard as our link with the clergy in our diocese.
The Getaway was a wonderful opportunity for our members to enjoy a little “me time” in our busy lives. The Hotel Kilmore proved to be a wonderful venue, with great food and also a very relaxing atmosphere. Everyone commented on how much they enjoyed reconnecting with old friends and making new ones. There was a great sense of fun and fellowship throughout our time away. At the end of the Getaway, it was great to see new friendships being formed and the exchanging of phone numbers.
A huge thanks to June, Hazel, and Ann for their support, and valued expertise along the way to make this event happen. Thanks to Violet Magee, Leila Beatie and KEA helpers for providing the MUe stall which was available over the entire Getaway. Our young members representative, Diane made lovely keepsake bookmarks for everyone who attended, it was the host diocese's way of sending love and fellowship from KEA back to all the other dioceses in Ireland.
Save the date for our 2024 Getaway. Venue Armagh City Hotel, Armagh on the 11th and 12th of October 2024. See you all there!
Liz Greer & Wendy Halligan
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FESTIVAL SERVICES 2023
This May, Mothers’ Union Groups from across the Diocese gathered for two Festival Services of Thanksgiving. The first service took place on the 9th May in the Cathedral Church of St Mary, the Virgin and St John the Baptist, Sligo. The second service took place on the 23rd May in St Patrick’s Church Ballintemple. The theme of both services was ‘Transformation – Now!’ with the reminder that with God nothing is impossible. Dean Arfon Williams preached at the first service from 2 Corinthians 4:5-7 and 15 and Linda Abwa from CMS Ireland preached at the second service from Galatians vs 1-6 vs 1-10. The services of thanksgiving were a wonderful opportunity to gather together as a family to recommit ourselves to a vision of transformation in our own lives, in the MU and the world – transformation made possible by God’s mercy through our faith in the death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ.
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Photographs from Festival Service in St. John's Cathedral Sligo
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Clergy and Trustees who were in attendance.
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Mothers’ Union All Ireland Conference
8 members from Kilmore Elphin and Ardagh attended the Triennial conference in An Grianán, Termonfeckin Co. Louth at the end of March. It was a great weekend of prayer, fellowship and working with some inspirational speakers. The theme of the conference was Reimagining Mothers’ Union. We were welcomed to the Conference by June Butler, All Ireland President
Our newly appointed All-Ireland Chaplain, Archdeacon Stephen McBride, Archdeacon of Connor spoke to us on the Friday evening. Rev. Trevor Sargent led a Service of Thanksgiving.
On Saturday morning we watched a video from the Worldwide President, Sheran Harper. Sheran spoke to us on “Reimagining the church’s best kept secret”.
Stephanie Nunn from Mary Sumner House spoke about Reimagining Mothers’ Union and some of the ideas that had come out of the Reimagining conference in Liverpool.
Most Rev. John McDowell gave a reflection during Midday prayers and joined us for lunch.
Dr Maurice Elliott led the afternoon session wi.th an inspirational talk on “Equipping our Leaders”.
Following his presentation, we broke into buzz groups to discuss what we felt made effective leaders.
Sunday morning began with a Service of Holy Communion led by Canon Kathryn Poulton, Rector of Julianstown Union of Parishes. After breakfast, we heard from various speakers and attended Unit meetings.
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Trustees Dinner
The MU Trustee Body met for dinner in the Copperstill Restaurant, Dromod, Co. Leitrim on Saturday 21st January 2023. This was an opportunity to give thanks to the outgoing Trustees and to welcome the new Trustees.
Diocesan President Ann Howard gave a warm welcome to all. Mrs. Jean Glenfield led the opening prayers. Ann read words of encouragement from Phillippians 4: 4-9. Everyone enjoyed the delicious meal after which presentations were made to retiring Trustees.
Diocesan President Ann Howard gave a warm welcome to all. Mrs. Jean Glenfield led the opening prayers. Ann read words of encouragement from Phillippians 4: 4-9. Everyone enjoyed the delicious meal after which presentations were made to retiring Trustees.
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MU STAND AT DIOCESAN SYNOD
Pictured at the Kilmore Elphin Ardagh Diocesan Synod which was held in the Bush Hotel, Carrick-on-Shannon on 15th October, 2022.
Left to Right: Mrs. Ann Howard, Diocesan President; Rev. Richard Waller Diocesan Chaplain; Mrs. Mary Geelan, Faith & Policy Coordinator.
LADIES BREAKFAST
On Saturday October 8th, we had a very uplifting ladies’ breakfast at Cox's Restaurant in Dromod, Co. Leitrim. Diocesan President, Ann Howard welcomed 92 members and friends. Rev. Alaistair Graham from Mullingar Union of Parishes, our guest speaker, gave us a very inspirational and thought-provoking insights into the scriptures and life in general. Amongst many thoughts, he particularly highlighted the work that Mothers’ Union do in the combating domestic abuse and how we as Christians can influence change. We should be prepared to effect this change and have the confidence to offer support to people suffering as a result of domestic abuse. Miriam Jones Gunn ended our get-together with beautiful singing. She sang two pieces on her own and two more when everyone joined in. There was a great atmosphere with old friendships renewed and no one was in a hurry home.
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Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President ~ Summer 2022
Hello Members and Friends of Mothers’ Union
Since I last penned some words for our website, I have been travelling! It has seemed as if I have been condensing the last three summers into the past two months!
In May, I attended the wedding of a close family friend in Australia – Katie is really like a niece (I was certainly introduced to everyone there as her “aunt”) and it was wonderful to be able to celebrate their marriage with the happy couple and their close families. It was a very special occasion, particularly as the wedding had been postponed from last year and it was the first time the bride and groom had seen their parents and siblings for several years. I revelled in spending quality time with my friends and in visiting some beautiful areas on the east coast of that continent. The main “problem” however, was the weather …it was much colder and wetter than I had anticipated. As someone said to me, there is no such thing as “bad” weather – just poor wardrobe choices! I had certainly packed many inappropriate clothes but even the residents confirmed that it was one of the coldest and wettest autumns they ever remembered. Even since I have returned home there have been so many reports on the news about the extensive rainfall and dreadful flooding around Sydney so we actually seem to have missed the worst of this year’s weather. More consequences of climate change, I suspect.
I spent some time one wet morning in Sydney in the Anglican cathedral church of St Andrew which lies in the heart of the city beside the Town Hall. It is a beautiful building – a place of rest and peace close to the busy commercial and shopping centres. The Cathedral was founded in 1819 and consecrated in 1868, with major restoration work undertaken in 1999-2000 to bring the Cathedral up to its present state of good order. I especially loved finding out about the fabulous stained glass which is placed throughout the cathedral, depicting in glorious colour so many of our well known bible stories. My favourites were probably those showing the arrival of the Magi and also the last Supper.
On my way home from Australia I had arranged to stop over in England to attend the first “in person” meeting of the Mothers’ Union Britain and Ireland Committee since early 2020. That was a memorable event and we former, and the several new, members of the group were so glad to be able to meet, discuss and plan again together. While Zoom has been a great facility over recent years and meant we could continue business, there is nothing quite like sitting around a table with people, being better able to read their body language and interact in person. The All-Ireland Trustees have decided that, due to cost, time taken in travel and general efficiency, we will mostly continue to meet using Zoom, but that we will have at least one full day meeting each year to enable us to bond and therefore work more effectively in our responsibility of leading MU in Ireland.
Back to my travels……..In 2019 I had booked to go to the 2020 Passion Play at Oberammergau in Bavaria – I know many of you reading this will have attended that in earlier years but it has always been on my “bucket list” and 2020 was to be THE year. You may know that in 1633 the residents of the village of Oberammergau pledged to perform the suffering, death and resurrection of Christ as an act of thanksgiving for the village being spared from the ravages of the Black Plague – they have done so every 10 years (with very few, but necessary, exceptions) since 1634. Obviously when the pandemic arrived all the plans for 2020 were scuppered and I remember thinking when we were asked if we wished to rebook for 2022 that the organisers were being unduly pessimistic! They were obviously being completely realistic - only now can I really appreciate the extent of the planning which has to go into such a huge-scale event.
I went on a “package” tour from Dublin with my old friend from university days, Eleanor Patterson – a former Archdeacon’s wife, a staunch MU member and great company – and another 15 folk from his island. Besides the Passion Play the tour incorporated the cities of Innsbruck, Saltzberg and Konstanz, a journey by boat across the Bodensee and sorties into Germany, Austria and Switzerland….. with a great deal of coach travel! Passing on the detail of that – and also on the frequent scary thunder and lightning storms - I have to say the travel all went smoothly and the Passion Play was magnificent.
I knew beforehand that thankfully the play is held in a huge undercover auditorium which seats 4.500 – it used to be open to the elements and, in the light of what happened at our visit, it was just as well that improvement had been made! In glorious sunshine we spent the morning in the beautiful village of Oberammergau, which is a tourist attraction in its own right; we admired the fabulous painted buildings and sampled its fares, including shops with the most amazing array of Christmas decorations. At 1.30pm we began to queue through security and we reached our seats high up in the auditorium in good time for the start at 2.30pm. Photographs of the performance were strictly forbidden but some scenes will be etched in my brain forever – especially those when Jesus cleared the merchants from the Temple with about 500 actors, young and old, on stage - as well as sheep, goats and horses; the entry of Jesus into Jerusalem; and of course the crucifixion scene. No words can convey the enormity or reality of those scenes – it was really like being taken back 2000 years. While it was all performed in German we had the English translation of the script to hand and my only fear was that I might miss something happening on stage as I was trying to follow the words of the actors.
The rumbles of thunder could be heard in the distance from around 4.15pm, and the high transparent cover was hoisted in a timely manner over the stage just before the thunder and lightning – and torrential rain - arrived in full force. It certainly gave an authentic feel of pending doom to the production! I wondered how the actors managed to continue, seemingly unphased by their words being drowned out by the thunder, but they are probably used to it. The interval was from 5pm until 8pm to give everyone time for dinner in local restaurants – we got absolutely soaked walking to ours and I was glad I had taken note of the forecast and had brought a change of trousers and shoes – as well, of course, as a good waterproof. Dinner gave us a great opportunity to chat with colleagues about the play, before we resumed our seats for the second half which continued until 10.45pm. The time absolutely flew by as we were enthralled by the performances of the actors, the set changes and, of course the music. Besides the 50 strong choir, there were four fabulous soloists and a brilliant score underpinning the whole production. The visual spectacle was brilliant too – particularly as the play was conducted in monochrome - the actors all wearing beige, black, white and grey - with Christ’s blood towards the end as really the only vivid colour.
I won’t go on about it any longer but, for me, it was an absolutely wonderful and wondrous experience and I would encourage everyone if they can to try to go to the Passion Play in 2030 or 2040…….For me it really put Jesus’ final days in the context of time and place, made me think carefully about the men and women who were with Jesus at that time and also brought to the fore many of the less well known characters in his story.. When I read those parts of the bible in future I will have a different perspective on many of them.
Let me leave you with one short translation from the script of the play when Jesus is entering Jerusalem. It is still so important for every person to remember today, that Christ is with us in these times of uncertainty and distress in our world, be that at home or further afield:
“Come to me all who labour and are heavy burdened! Come all who are weakened by the burden of misfortune and sorrow………poverty and disease ravage you, and you hunger and thirst for justice. The Lord hears your cries. He sees your misery, your fear and your distress – I have come to comfort you, to heal your broken hearts”.
May the lord go with you, wherever you may be and whatever you may be doing over these summer months.
With every blessing and much love
June
Hello Members and Friends of Mothers’ Union
Since I last penned some words for our website, I have been travelling! It has seemed as if I have been condensing the last three summers into the past two months!
In May, I attended the wedding of a close family friend in Australia – Katie is really like a niece (I was certainly introduced to everyone there as her “aunt”) and it was wonderful to be able to celebrate their marriage with the happy couple and their close families. It was a very special occasion, particularly as the wedding had been postponed from last year and it was the first time the bride and groom had seen their parents and siblings for several years. I revelled in spending quality time with my friends and in visiting some beautiful areas on the east coast of that continent. The main “problem” however, was the weather …it was much colder and wetter than I had anticipated. As someone said to me, there is no such thing as “bad” weather – just poor wardrobe choices! I had certainly packed many inappropriate clothes but even the residents confirmed that it was one of the coldest and wettest autumns they ever remembered. Even since I have returned home there have been so many reports on the news about the extensive rainfall and dreadful flooding around Sydney so we actually seem to have missed the worst of this year’s weather. More consequences of climate change, I suspect.
I spent some time one wet morning in Sydney in the Anglican cathedral church of St Andrew which lies in the heart of the city beside the Town Hall. It is a beautiful building – a place of rest and peace close to the busy commercial and shopping centres. The Cathedral was founded in 1819 and consecrated in 1868, with major restoration work undertaken in 1999-2000 to bring the Cathedral up to its present state of good order. I especially loved finding out about the fabulous stained glass which is placed throughout the cathedral, depicting in glorious colour so many of our well known bible stories. My favourites were probably those showing the arrival of the Magi and also the last Supper.
On my way home from Australia I had arranged to stop over in England to attend the first “in person” meeting of the Mothers’ Union Britain and Ireland Committee since early 2020. That was a memorable event and we former, and the several new, members of the group were so glad to be able to meet, discuss and plan again together. While Zoom has been a great facility over recent years and meant we could continue business, there is nothing quite like sitting around a table with people, being better able to read their body language and interact in person. The All-Ireland Trustees have decided that, due to cost, time taken in travel and general efficiency, we will mostly continue to meet using Zoom, but that we will have at least one full day meeting each year to enable us to bond and therefore work more effectively in our responsibility of leading MU in Ireland.
Back to my travels……..In 2019 I had booked to go to the 2020 Passion Play at Oberammergau in Bavaria – I know many of you reading this will have attended that in earlier years but it has always been on my “bucket list” and 2020 was to be THE year. You may know that in 1633 the residents of the village of Oberammergau pledged to perform the suffering, death and resurrection of Christ as an act of thanksgiving for the village being spared from the ravages of the Black Plague – they have done so every 10 years (with very few, but necessary, exceptions) since 1634. Obviously when the pandemic arrived all the plans for 2020 were scuppered and I remember thinking when we were asked if we wished to rebook for 2022 that the organisers were being unduly pessimistic! They were obviously being completely realistic - only now can I really appreciate the extent of the planning which has to go into such a huge-scale event.
I went on a “package” tour from Dublin with my old friend from university days, Eleanor Patterson – a former Archdeacon’s wife, a staunch MU member and great company – and another 15 folk from his island. Besides the Passion Play the tour incorporated the cities of Innsbruck, Saltzberg and Konstanz, a journey by boat across the Bodensee and sorties into Germany, Austria and Switzerland….. with a great deal of coach travel! Passing on the detail of that – and also on the frequent scary thunder and lightning storms - I have to say the travel all went smoothly and the Passion Play was magnificent.
I knew beforehand that thankfully the play is held in a huge undercover auditorium which seats 4.500 – it used to be open to the elements and, in the light of what happened at our visit, it was just as well that improvement had been made! In glorious sunshine we spent the morning in the beautiful village of Oberammergau, which is a tourist attraction in its own right; we admired the fabulous painted buildings and sampled its fares, including shops with the most amazing array of Christmas decorations. At 1.30pm we began to queue through security and we reached our seats high up in the auditorium in good time for the start at 2.30pm. Photographs of the performance were strictly forbidden but some scenes will be etched in my brain forever – especially those when Jesus cleared the merchants from the Temple with about 500 actors, young and old, on stage - as well as sheep, goats and horses; the entry of Jesus into Jerusalem; and of course the crucifixion scene. No words can convey the enormity or reality of those scenes – it was really like being taken back 2000 years. While it was all performed in German we had the English translation of the script to hand and my only fear was that I might miss something happening on stage as I was trying to follow the words of the actors.
The rumbles of thunder could be heard in the distance from around 4.15pm, and the high transparent cover was hoisted in a timely manner over the stage just before the thunder and lightning – and torrential rain - arrived in full force. It certainly gave an authentic feel of pending doom to the production! I wondered how the actors managed to continue, seemingly unphased by their words being drowned out by the thunder, but they are probably used to it. The interval was from 5pm until 8pm to give everyone time for dinner in local restaurants – we got absolutely soaked walking to ours and I was glad I had taken note of the forecast and had brought a change of trousers and shoes – as well, of course, as a good waterproof. Dinner gave us a great opportunity to chat with colleagues about the play, before we resumed our seats for the second half which continued until 10.45pm. The time absolutely flew by as we were enthralled by the performances of the actors, the set changes and, of course the music. Besides the 50 strong choir, there were four fabulous soloists and a brilliant score underpinning the whole production. The visual spectacle was brilliant too – particularly as the play was conducted in monochrome - the actors all wearing beige, black, white and grey - with Christ’s blood towards the end as really the only vivid colour.
I won’t go on about it any longer but, for me, it was an absolutely wonderful and wondrous experience and I would encourage everyone if they can to try to go to the Passion Play in 2030 or 2040…….For me it really put Jesus’ final days in the context of time and place, made me think carefully about the men and women who were with Jesus at that time and also brought to the fore many of the less well known characters in his story.. When I read those parts of the bible in future I will have a different perspective on many of them.
Let me leave you with one short translation from the script of the play when Jesus is entering Jerusalem. It is still so important for every person to remember today, that Christ is with us in these times of uncertainty and distress in our world, be that at home or further afield:
“Come to me all who labour and are heavy burdened! Come all who are weakened by the burden of misfortune and sorrow………poverty and disease ravage you, and you hunger and thirst for justice. The Lord hears your cries. He sees your misery, your fear and your distress – I have come to comfort you, to heal your broken hearts”.
May the lord go with you, wherever you may be and whatever you may be doing over these summer months.
With every blessing and much love
June
Thanksgiving Service - Drung Parish Church
A Service of Thanksgiving was held in Drung Parish Church on Tuesday 24th May, 2022. The service was led by Rev. Nick Jones, Bishop Ferran Glenfield gave the final blessing and clergy from across the diocese were also in attendance.. The theme of the service was 'Transformation - Now'. There was a procession of banners. The hymns were 'Praise to the Lord, the Almighty, the King of creation; Be still for the presence of the Lord; Give thanks with a grateful heart; Will you come and follow me and We shall go out with hope of resurrection. The bible readings were read by Mrs. Barbara Smith, Drung Branch Leader and Mrs. Hazel Speares Former Diocesan President. The address was given by Mrs. Irene Boyd, Diocesan President Clogher Diocese. Intercessions were led by Drung branch members. Diocesan President Mrs. Ann Howard addressed the congregation and thanked Irene for her challenging and inspiring address. She also thanked all who were involved in preparing the service and everyone for attending. Rev. Richard Waller said Grace before we all enjoyed a lovely supper.
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Service of Thanksgiving & Commissioning of new Diocesan President
A Service of Thanksgiving was held in St. John's Church Longford on Tuesday 10th May 2022. The service was conducted by Rev. Simon Scott. Mrs. Hazel Speares presented Mrs. Ann Howard to Bishop Ferran Glenfield for commissioning as Diocesan President. The Hymns were 'O for a thousand tongues to sing; Blessed assurance, Jesus is mine; Praise to the Lord, the Almighty, the King of creation; Great is thy faithfulness; and To Go be the glory!' The New Testament Reading from 2 Corinthians was read by Mrs. Diane Stewart, Longford branch Leader and the Gospel Reading Luke 19:1-10 was read by Mrs. Ann Howard DP. The address was given by Mrs. Jean Glenfield who spoke on the transformation of Zacchaeus. The intercessions were led by Longford branch members. An offering was taken for Overseas Fund. A beautiful supper was provided by the Longford members. Ann thanked everyone who was involved in organising and everyone who came to support her. A number of presentations were made.
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MAY LETTER - MRS. JUNE BUTLER
Dear Members and Friends of Mothers’ Union
As I am writing this on an early morning in late spring, the birds outside are giving their full throttle to the dawn chorus. Talking to friends, I am assured that it is not only I who this year feel that they are louder and begin earlier in the day than in other years. Certainly, there seems to be more variety of birdsong wakening me each day and I just like to lie for a while listening as they communicate - or try to out-sing each other - before I turn on the radio and the saga of overnight horrors from our world is communicated to me.
Over the last few weeks the message of caring for this world seems to have resonated loudly around me - the first time it was while participating virtually in UNCSW 66 in March where the priority theme was “achieving gender equality and the empowerment of all women and girls in the context of climate change, environmental and disaster risk reduction policies and programmes”. I certainly learned much from those sessions about how women across the globe are adversely affected by climate change; to give you one very stark example, when there are floods caused by excess rainfall due to climate change, many more women than men are drowned because in less developed countries women are not taught to swim as it is thought to be “immodest”.
In last month’s piece on this website I mentioned that in early April I attended the “Creation Care” conference organised by the Church of Ireland’s Church and Society Commission, which was an enlightening experience. Not only did we all learn so much about what we should and might do to preserve our planet, but it was set in the context of a biblical perspective with some inspiring speakers. I referred to Dr Ruth Valerio, Director of Global Advocacy and Influencing at Tearfund, who gave a workshop drawing on her wide experience and she observed that projects to care for creation can transform churches and communities in many good ways She gave examples such as a church in Brighton which uses some parish land for a vegetable garden; a church in Leeds held a Climate Sunday Service, which led to an Eco-Team being formed to improve building efficiency; a church in Portadown has planted one acre of parish land with a mixture of sunflowers, linseed and flax, to provide food and habitat for birds, as well as generating income from sales of cut sunflowers -the profits will be used to install solar panels on the south facing church roof, to reduce heating and lighting costs in the future. Those were only some of the examples from these islands - we were told of many others from across the world and some of those, to provide power and grow new crops, are so important and life-changing for the people in their communities.
One other thing which struck me from that conference was the passion of the younger generation towards the ill effects of climate change and the need to care for our world. There was a wonderful group of young people from All Saints’ Parish, Mullingar, and Wilson’s Hospital School, who told us all about their climate action project called, ‘Lighten our Darkness by Numbers’. Separately, they also run biodiversity enhancing projects across twelve churchyards in County Westmeath, called, ‘God’s Gardens of Hope’. They were so inspirational and we all should really follow their lead - they are our hope for the future.
Two other recent experiences will also stay with me. The first was planting 70 trees with the MU Trustees from the Diocese of Derry and Raphoe on the birthday of Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II. It was a glorious morning to be down on the banks of the River Faughan - it wasn’t early morning but there was still plenty of birdsong to be heard in that quiet place. The event, planting cherry and native oak saplings, was part of the Queen’s Green Canopy initiative aimed at increasing and protecting the native tree cover in the United Kingdom and is seen as a “special gift” for the Queen, in honour of her Platinum Jubilee. The second was a mission breakfast held on the second morning of General Synod when over 50 of us joined with Bishops’ Appeal, CMS and SAMS staff and volunteers to learn about the many eco projects in which those charities are involved worldwide and the impact on so many Christians and local communities. It was truly humbling to learn what work is being done across God’s world and in His name, while we here take so much of that world for granted.
Through these events I have also been introduced to the work of Eco-Congregation Ireland (ECI) which encourages churches of all denominations to take an eco approach to worship, lifestyle, property and finance management, community outreach and contact with the developing world. Their vision is to see churches of all denominations throughout Ireland celebrate the gift of God’s creation, recognise the inter-dependence of all creation and care for it in their life and mission, and through members’ personal lifestyles. They also ask us to reflect on the beauty of God’s world and to consider what practical steps can be taken to prevent further damage to the environment and to pray for our wounded planet, for people in the developing world already affected by climate change and for future generations.
As the birdsong outside diminishes, I will now sign off and ask you just to look at the ECI website www.ecocongregationireland.com as I know you will learn a great deal more about these important matters for the future of our world and what we might do to help preserve it. I think it would be good for us to remember the verses from Job 12:7-10 at this time:
“But ask the beasts, and they will teach you; the birds of the heavens, and they will tell you; or the bushes of the earth, and they will teach you; and the fish of the sea will declare to you. Who among all these does not know that the hand of the Lord has done this? In his hand is the life of every living thing and the breath of all mankind.”
My father’s favourite bible verse was from Psalm 24: “The earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof, the world and those who dwell therein” - I try to remember that every day.
O Lord, grant us the grace to grow deeper in our respect of and care for your Creation.
Help us to recognise the sacredness of all of your creatures as signs of your wondrous love.
Help us turn from the selfish consumption of resources meant for all and to see the impacts of our choices on the poor and vulnerable.
We pray for an end to the waste and desecration of God's creation and ask for access to the fruits of creation to be shared equally among all people, in order to bring freedom from poverty, famine, and oppression.
In Your name we pray. Amen
With love and prayers for you all as we enter this glorious season of summer.
June
As I am writing this on an early morning in late spring, the birds outside are giving their full throttle to the dawn chorus. Talking to friends, I am assured that it is not only I who this year feel that they are louder and begin earlier in the day than in other years. Certainly, there seems to be more variety of birdsong wakening me each day and I just like to lie for a while listening as they communicate - or try to out-sing each other - before I turn on the radio and the saga of overnight horrors from our world is communicated to me.
Over the last few weeks the message of caring for this world seems to have resonated loudly around me - the first time it was while participating virtually in UNCSW 66 in March where the priority theme was “achieving gender equality and the empowerment of all women and girls in the context of climate change, environmental and disaster risk reduction policies and programmes”. I certainly learned much from those sessions about how women across the globe are adversely affected by climate change; to give you one very stark example, when there are floods caused by excess rainfall due to climate change, many more women than men are drowned because in less developed countries women are not taught to swim as it is thought to be “immodest”.
In last month’s piece on this website I mentioned that in early April I attended the “Creation Care” conference organised by the Church of Ireland’s Church and Society Commission, which was an enlightening experience. Not only did we all learn so much about what we should and might do to preserve our planet, but it was set in the context of a biblical perspective with some inspiring speakers. I referred to Dr Ruth Valerio, Director of Global Advocacy and Influencing at Tearfund, who gave a workshop drawing on her wide experience and she observed that projects to care for creation can transform churches and communities in many good ways She gave examples such as a church in Brighton which uses some parish land for a vegetable garden; a church in Leeds held a Climate Sunday Service, which led to an Eco-Team being formed to improve building efficiency; a church in Portadown has planted one acre of parish land with a mixture of sunflowers, linseed and flax, to provide food and habitat for birds, as well as generating income from sales of cut sunflowers -the profits will be used to install solar panels on the south facing church roof, to reduce heating and lighting costs in the future. Those were only some of the examples from these islands - we were told of many others from across the world and some of those, to provide power and grow new crops, are so important and life-changing for the people in their communities.
One other thing which struck me from that conference was the passion of the younger generation towards the ill effects of climate change and the need to care for our world. There was a wonderful group of young people from All Saints’ Parish, Mullingar, and Wilson’s Hospital School, who told us all about their climate action project called, ‘Lighten our Darkness by Numbers’. Separately, they also run biodiversity enhancing projects across twelve churchyards in County Westmeath, called, ‘God’s Gardens of Hope’. They were so inspirational and we all should really follow their lead - they are our hope for the future.
Two other recent experiences will also stay with me. The first was planting 70 trees with the MU Trustees from the Diocese of Derry and Raphoe on the birthday of Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II. It was a glorious morning to be down on the banks of the River Faughan - it wasn’t early morning but there was still plenty of birdsong to be heard in that quiet place. The event, planting cherry and native oak saplings, was part of the Queen’s Green Canopy initiative aimed at increasing and protecting the native tree cover in the United Kingdom and is seen as a “special gift” for the Queen, in honour of her Platinum Jubilee. The second was a mission breakfast held on the second morning of General Synod when over 50 of us joined with Bishops’ Appeal, CMS and SAMS staff and volunteers to learn about the many eco projects in which those charities are involved worldwide and the impact on so many Christians and local communities. It was truly humbling to learn what work is being done across God’s world and in His name, while we here take so much of that world for granted.
Through these events I have also been introduced to the work of Eco-Congregation Ireland (ECI) which encourages churches of all denominations to take an eco approach to worship, lifestyle, property and finance management, community outreach and contact with the developing world. Their vision is to see churches of all denominations throughout Ireland celebrate the gift of God’s creation, recognise the inter-dependence of all creation and care for it in their life and mission, and through members’ personal lifestyles. They also ask us to reflect on the beauty of God’s world and to consider what practical steps can be taken to prevent further damage to the environment and to pray for our wounded planet, for people in the developing world already affected by climate change and for future generations.
As the birdsong outside diminishes, I will now sign off and ask you just to look at the ECI website www.ecocongregationireland.com as I know you will learn a great deal more about these important matters for the future of our world and what we might do to help preserve it. I think it would be good for us to remember the verses from Job 12:7-10 at this time:
“But ask the beasts, and they will teach you; the birds of the heavens, and they will tell you; or the bushes of the earth, and they will teach you; and the fish of the sea will declare to you. Who among all these does not know that the hand of the Lord has done this? In his hand is the life of every living thing and the breath of all mankind.”
My father’s favourite bible verse was from Psalm 24: “The earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof, the world and those who dwell therein” - I try to remember that every day.
O Lord, grant us the grace to grow deeper in our respect of and care for your Creation.
Help us to recognise the sacredness of all of your creatures as signs of your wondrous love.
Help us turn from the selfish consumption of resources meant for all and to see the impacts of our choices on the poor and vulnerable.
We pray for an end to the waste and desecration of God's creation and ask for access to the fruits of creation to be shared equally among all people, in order to bring freedom from poverty, famine, and oppression.
In Your name we pray. Amen
With love and prayers for you all as we enter this glorious season of summer.
June
100th Birthday Celebration
Mrs. Edna McIntyre, Killeshandra and Oakview Nursing Home Belturbet celebrated her 100th birthday on Wednesday 27th April surrounded by family, friends and MU members. Congratulations Edna! What a milestone!
From Left Leila Beattie, Killeshandra Branch Leader; Eva Gibson; Phyllis Cassidy; Valerie Livingstone and Charlotte Browne (representing Ann Howard DP)
Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President ~ Easter 2022
Dear Members and Friends of Mothers’ Union
As you will know, our Mother’s Union theme for 2022 is “Transformation Now!” and those words seem to have been echoing in my ears and permeating my thoughts for the past few weeks as I have been attending a variety of events, conferences and meetings. Perhaps it is a sign of the times as we all try to emerge from the strictures of the pandemic, but transformation seems to be the current “buzz” word.
I attended various virtual sessions of UN Commission on the Status of Women in mid-March and the overarching theme was achieving gender equality and the empowerment of all women and girls in the context of climate change, and the need for environmental and disaster risk reduction policies and programmes. In other words, transformation of how we treat the world around us. However, throughout there was considerable focus on how women’s lives need to be transformed, in the developing countries with improvements in their quality of life, their knowledge of finance and agriculture, and of course in how they are treated by their menfolk. Closer to home, transformation was more focused on the empowerment of women, the need for our greater representation on public bodies and, tragically, on the scourge of human trafficking in our western world.
When I attended the recent AGM of the Irish Council of Churches, the words of the outgoing President, the Very Rev Dr Ivan Patterson, resonated with me when he focussed on the need for transformation - of ourselves, of our churches, of society and beyond. He referred to the verse from Micah C6 - one which is always close to my heart - “And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God” - and he suggested that the Lord required us to change the hearts and minds of others and to model a better way ahead. I felt immediately that this former Moderator of the Presbyterian Church needed to be enrolled as a member of Mothers’ Union! To use a common phrase, he was definitely on the “same page” as us as we try to fulfil our MU aims and objects.
Last week, as a representative of the Church of Ireland’s Church and Society Commission (CASC), I attended a workshop organised by the NI Executive to review and discuss the NI Community Relations Council’s “Together: Building a United Community Strategy”. I am certainly not going to give a summary of the lengthy and sometimes heated discussions, but I was impressed by the passion of those who work in this sector, striving to bring all sections of our Northern Irish communities together - even so many years after the “Troubles” are supposed to be behind us. Everyone there was intent on bringing about real change to our culture, especially now with the added dimension of refugees from various countries coming to live and work in our midst.
However, for me the concept of transformation reached a peak in my psyche last Friday when I attended the “Creation Care” Conference organised by CASC. There will be wide coverage of this brilliant event in various places, so I won’t attempt to summarise it here but I personally learned so much from the key speakers about how God’s glory is reflected all creation and whatever we do on earth to destroy any element of our world is diminishing His glory. That was the overarching premise for the key speakers but I also gleaned so much from attending the various workshops, listening to those who have already taken practical steps to prevent or advocate against climate change and, of course, simply talking to other delegates.
One session I feel I must mention now - the leader of the workshop was Ruth Valerio from Tearfund and it was entitled “Transforming Church and Community through Creation Care”. She gave us so many creative and practical examples of church initiatives in Britain and Ireland and wider afield, where churches are turning outwards within their communities to demonstrate their care for creation. She then challenged us, with a biblical mandate, to become the drivers of transformation on our earth and for its sustained future. The subsequent small group discussion was for me the best of the day. We in MU certainly need to consider carefully how we too can address these issues.
So, over the past weeks I have become really “hooked” on the matters of transformation - even at the online MU Provincial Presidents’ Gathering I attended recently this was the theme of the address given by our Central Chaplin, Bishop Emma Ineson.
Below is a reflection for Easter, kindly prepared for Mothers’ Union by the Primate, and in it he writes about the words in the scripture verse he has chosen as overflowing with possibilities and later the quotation refers to giving place to “some new creation”. Both of these thoughts also echo the theme of transformation and I pray that we too can all be transformed this Easter as we consider the sacrifice of our Lord and prayerfully allow the Holy Spirit to enter and change our lives.
With love and Easter blessings
June
Reflection prepared by the Primate, the Most Rev’d John F McDowell
“Early in the morning on the first day of the week…”. John 20:1
It is easy to take the literary qualities of the Gospel writers for granted. They understood their primary task as that of laying out the significance of the person and work of Jesus Christ: who he was in relation to the Father, and what he had done for us and for all the world. Although the Evangelists writing styles varied according to ability, circumstances and taste, they did not pretend to be artists in the literary sense.
Yet I would guess that any contemporary novelist or poet will recognise the depth of potential carried by those opening words of the resurrection story, which are used in one form or another by all of the gospel writers. The words overflow with possibilities, not least because of the harrowed gloom that immediately precedes them.
In John’s Gospel it is Mary Magdalene who comes to the tomb “…while it was still dark…”. In that Gospel Jesus body had been prepared for burial by Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus, two wealthy Jews, who had brought a large quantity of spices (seventy-five pounds in weight) for the purpose.
To this day in many societies, particularly in the Middle East, it would be inconceivable to contract out the preparing of the body of a family member or a close friend for burial to a professional embalmer. Washing and preparing the body was and is a final act of love and respect, an intimate element of the rituals of farewell and finality which are associated with death. During the night, before the sun rose, on the first day of the week, the man who had once come to him in darkness, and the conscripted stranger from Arimathea performed the conclusive act of Jesus death, and sealed the tomb.
Then, with those simple words “Early in the morning on the first day of the week…” the tone shifts and lightens. Finality gives way to possibility and possibility gives way, first to fear, then to bewilderment and finally to a dim realisation that nothing will ever be the same again.
It was not unusual for those close to Jesus to react with fearfulness to some of the unusual things he said or to the mighty works which he performed. His love had no selfishness at all in it, and because of that, it burned like fire. It shouldn’t surprise us that the mightiest work of all, the Resurrection, should result in fear at times.
It was not that Jesus had somehow or another stepped over the grave. He had lain cold in it. What happened early in the morning on the first day of the week was not a revival to mortal life. Jesus wasn’t like poor Lazarus who had his death to die all over again.
This is how one of Church of Ireland’s greatest and saintliest, and almost totally forgotten, scholars put it in a sermon preached one Easter Day in the 1840s. The prose style is a little crowded for our more prosaic tastes, but it is worth savouring:
“We shall then awake and know ourselves the immortals that we are. This world is but the womb of eternity…Sooner would the Father yield his heavenly throne, than hold it and forsake us; sooner would he be no longer God than that the children of God fail to be children of the resurrection…In the lapse of a million of ages hence, for all we can tell, it may be the purpose of God that all this outward, visible universe, shall gradually give place to some new creation: that other planets shall circles other suns…that in slow progression the immense cycle of our present system of nature shall at length expire- but even then no decay shall touch the universe of souls. Even if there were millions of such cycles they would not consume even the first minute of the everlasting day; it is for these things you were born and unto this heritage you are redeemed”.
+John Armagh.
Dear Members and Friends of Mothers’ Union
As you will know, our Mother’s Union theme for 2022 is “Transformation Now!” and those words seem to have been echoing in my ears and permeating my thoughts for the past few weeks as I have been attending a variety of events, conferences and meetings. Perhaps it is a sign of the times as we all try to emerge from the strictures of the pandemic, but transformation seems to be the current “buzz” word.
I attended various virtual sessions of UN Commission on the Status of Women in mid-March and the overarching theme was achieving gender equality and the empowerment of all women and girls in the context of climate change, and the need for environmental and disaster risk reduction policies and programmes. In other words, transformation of how we treat the world around us. However, throughout there was considerable focus on how women’s lives need to be transformed, in the developing countries with improvements in their quality of life, their knowledge of finance and agriculture, and of course in how they are treated by their menfolk. Closer to home, transformation was more focused on the empowerment of women, the need for our greater representation on public bodies and, tragically, on the scourge of human trafficking in our western world.
When I attended the recent AGM of the Irish Council of Churches, the words of the outgoing President, the Very Rev Dr Ivan Patterson, resonated with me when he focussed on the need for transformation - of ourselves, of our churches, of society and beyond. He referred to the verse from Micah C6 - one which is always close to my heart - “And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God” - and he suggested that the Lord required us to change the hearts and minds of others and to model a better way ahead. I felt immediately that this former Moderator of the Presbyterian Church needed to be enrolled as a member of Mothers’ Union! To use a common phrase, he was definitely on the “same page” as us as we try to fulfil our MU aims and objects.
Last week, as a representative of the Church of Ireland’s Church and Society Commission (CASC), I attended a workshop organised by the NI Executive to review and discuss the NI Community Relations Council’s “Together: Building a United Community Strategy”. I am certainly not going to give a summary of the lengthy and sometimes heated discussions, but I was impressed by the passion of those who work in this sector, striving to bring all sections of our Northern Irish communities together - even so many years after the “Troubles” are supposed to be behind us. Everyone there was intent on bringing about real change to our culture, especially now with the added dimension of refugees from various countries coming to live and work in our midst.
However, for me the concept of transformation reached a peak in my psyche last Friday when I attended the “Creation Care” Conference organised by CASC. There will be wide coverage of this brilliant event in various places, so I won’t attempt to summarise it here but I personally learned so much from the key speakers about how God’s glory is reflected all creation and whatever we do on earth to destroy any element of our world is diminishing His glory. That was the overarching premise for the key speakers but I also gleaned so much from attending the various workshops, listening to those who have already taken practical steps to prevent or advocate against climate change and, of course, simply talking to other delegates.
One session I feel I must mention now - the leader of the workshop was Ruth Valerio from Tearfund and it was entitled “Transforming Church and Community through Creation Care”. She gave us so many creative and practical examples of church initiatives in Britain and Ireland and wider afield, where churches are turning outwards within their communities to demonstrate their care for creation. She then challenged us, with a biblical mandate, to become the drivers of transformation on our earth and for its sustained future. The subsequent small group discussion was for me the best of the day. We in MU certainly need to consider carefully how we too can address these issues.
So, over the past weeks I have become really “hooked” on the matters of transformation - even at the online MU Provincial Presidents’ Gathering I attended recently this was the theme of the address given by our Central Chaplin, Bishop Emma Ineson.
Below is a reflection for Easter, kindly prepared for Mothers’ Union by the Primate, and in it he writes about the words in the scripture verse he has chosen as overflowing with possibilities and later the quotation refers to giving place to “some new creation”. Both of these thoughts also echo the theme of transformation and I pray that we too can all be transformed this Easter as we consider the sacrifice of our Lord and prayerfully allow the Holy Spirit to enter and change our lives.
With love and Easter blessings
June
Reflection prepared by the Primate, the Most Rev’d John F McDowell
“Early in the morning on the first day of the week…”. John 20:1
It is easy to take the literary qualities of the Gospel writers for granted. They understood their primary task as that of laying out the significance of the person and work of Jesus Christ: who he was in relation to the Father, and what he had done for us and for all the world. Although the Evangelists writing styles varied according to ability, circumstances and taste, they did not pretend to be artists in the literary sense.
Yet I would guess that any contemporary novelist or poet will recognise the depth of potential carried by those opening words of the resurrection story, which are used in one form or another by all of the gospel writers. The words overflow with possibilities, not least because of the harrowed gloom that immediately precedes them.
In John’s Gospel it is Mary Magdalene who comes to the tomb “…while it was still dark…”. In that Gospel Jesus body had been prepared for burial by Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus, two wealthy Jews, who had brought a large quantity of spices (seventy-five pounds in weight) for the purpose.
To this day in many societies, particularly in the Middle East, it would be inconceivable to contract out the preparing of the body of a family member or a close friend for burial to a professional embalmer. Washing and preparing the body was and is a final act of love and respect, an intimate element of the rituals of farewell and finality which are associated with death. During the night, before the sun rose, on the first day of the week, the man who had once come to him in darkness, and the conscripted stranger from Arimathea performed the conclusive act of Jesus death, and sealed the tomb.
Then, with those simple words “Early in the morning on the first day of the week…” the tone shifts and lightens. Finality gives way to possibility and possibility gives way, first to fear, then to bewilderment and finally to a dim realisation that nothing will ever be the same again.
It was not unusual for those close to Jesus to react with fearfulness to some of the unusual things he said or to the mighty works which he performed. His love had no selfishness at all in it, and because of that, it burned like fire. It shouldn’t surprise us that the mightiest work of all, the Resurrection, should result in fear at times.
It was not that Jesus had somehow or another stepped over the grave. He had lain cold in it. What happened early in the morning on the first day of the week was not a revival to mortal life. Jesus wasn’t like poor Lazarus who had his death to die all over again.
This is how one of Church of Ireland’s greatest and saintliest, and almost totally forgotten, scholars put it in a sermon preached one Easter Day in the 1840s. The prose style is a little crowded for our more prosaic tastes, but it is worth savouring:
“We shall then awake and know ourselves the immortals that we are. This world is but the womb of eternity…Sooner would the Father yield his heavenly throne, than hold it and forsake us; sooner would he be no longer God than that the children of God fail to be children of the resurrection…In the lapse of a million of ages hence, for all we can tell, it may be the purpose of God that all this outward, visible universe, shall gradually give place to some new creation: that other planets shall circles other suns…that in slow progression the immense cycle of our present system of nature shall at length expire- but even then no decay shall touch the universe of souls. Even if there were millions of such cycles they would not consume even the first minute of the everlasting day; it is for these things you were born and unto this heritage you are redeemed”.
+John Armagh.
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LETTER FROM JUNE BUTLER - MARCH 2022
Hello members and friends
Normally we expect the first two months of the year to drag, particularly as the weather may be inclement and our opportunities for going outdoor may be limited. However - other than a few truly exceptional storms (remember Dudley and Eunice to name but two which descended on us?) and the problems those brought to some parts of our island, both months have been quite pleasant. January was really dry and February seemed at times more like our traditional April. We may have had heavy rain for a few weeks but, thankfully for me anyway, no snow - well at least in Co Down. As I write this we are having the fourth consecutive day of glorious sunshine and the daffodils are waving in the morning breeze. Don’t worry I won’t begin quoting Wordsworth’s poetry……
They say we in Ireland are obsessed with the weather and reading over that first section, it would seem to confirm that fact. However, other than the ground being firm underfoot which has enabled me to wrap up and tackle some lovely long walks in locations I usually only contemplate in the summer months, I have had two rather unusual months. There has been a great deal of transition and change - I am no longer also the Zonal Trustee representing Ireland on the Worldwide Board, a mantle which Iris Suitor has most ably taken over. I knew that would reduce my MU workload but you know what they say happens when one door closes……for me a number of new doors/opportunities have opened, or in some cases reopened. Perhaps for me personally the MU theme for 2022 “Transformation - Now!” has indeed come to fruition.
I won’t bore you with all the details, but I have been asked on various fronts to do some new things and invited to different places - some of those you will learn about during the year. The most important thing for me has been getting back to meet members - we have had no gatherings since the Annabella Hayes celebrations last August and suddenly I managed three such events in the space of one week.
Last weekend I spoke at the breakfast event hosted by MU in the diocese of Dublin and Glendaloiugh - that was great occasion where members were able to catch up with their friends and I too was able to eat and chat with many old and new faces. On Sunday we had a wonderful service in Armagh Cathedral, with seven All Ireland Trustees commissioned - there is a link to a recording of the service on this website. There were about 150 members with some family present - and most adjourned afterwards for a welcome “cuppa” and catch up. The decibel level in that room matched the earlier wonderful organ playing in the Cathedral! Then on Thursday I spoke about MU in Ireland and worldwide at a branch meeting in my diocese; it was the first time they had met for two years and the 40 ladies there said how great it was to be together again face-to-face. Transformation of their recent lives.
Normally we expect the first two months of the year to drag, particularly as the weather may be inclement and our opportunities for going outdoor may be limited. However - other than a few truly exceptional storms (remember Dudley and Eunice to name but two which descended on us?) and the problems those brought to some parts of our island, both months have been quite pleasant. January was really dry and February seemed at times more like our traditional April. We may have had heavy rain for a few weeks but, thankfully for me anyway, no snow - well at least in Co Down. As I write this we are having the fourth consecutive day of glorious sunshine and the daffodils are waving in the morning breeze. Don’t worry I won’t begin quoting Wordsworth’s poetry……
They say we in Ireland are obsessed with the weather and reading over that first section, it would seem to confirm that fact. However, other than the ground being firm underfoot which has enabled me to wrap up and tackle some lovely long walks in locations I usually only contemplate in the summer months, I have had two rather unusual months. There has been a great deal of transition and change - I am no longer also the Zonal Trustee representing Ireland on the Worldwide Board, a mantle which Iris Suitor has most ably taken over. I knew that would reduce my MU workload but you know what they say happens when one door closes……for me a number of new doors/opportunities have opened, or in some cases reopened. Perhaps for me personally the MU theme for 2022 “Transformation - Now!” has indeed come to fruition.
I won’t bore you with all the details, but I have been asked on various fronts to do some new things and invited to different places - some of those you will learn about during the year. The most important thing for me has been getting back to meet members - we have had no gatherings since the Annabella Hayes celebrations last August and suddenly I managed three such events in the space of one week.
Last weekend I spoke at the breakfast event hosted by MU in the diocese of Dublin and Glendaloiugh - that was great occasion where members were able to catch up with their friends and I too was able to eat and chat with many old and new faces. On Sunday we had a wonderful service in Armagh Cathedral, with seven All Ireland Trustees commissioned - there is a link to a recording of the service on this website. There were about 150 members with some family present - and most adjourned afterwards for a welcome “cuppa” and catch up. The decibel level in that room matched the earlier wonderful organ playing in the Cathedral! Then on Thursday I spoke about MU in Ireland and worldwide at a branch meeting in my diocese; it was the first time they had met for two years and the 40 ladies there said how great it was to be together again face-to-face. Transformation of their recent lives.
I have also become involved in the preparation for what we hope will be two transformational events this year. The first is a conference to be held in Liverpool in July (having already been postponed twice due to Covid) at which we hope all the dioceses in Britain and Ireland will be represented - it is entitled “Reimaging MU”. The second is a really important for Ireland; after being abandoned in 2020 and 2021, the Annual Gathering will finally go ahead in Belfast in September 2022. We have formed a small planning committee and are working hard to put the foundations in place for a very special two days on 23 and 24 September. I hope that many members across Ireland will come to join us for this momentous occasion. Information about the services in St Annes’ Cathedral and the actual Gathering in the Waterfront Hall will be available in April.
So while I have been well occupied, everything in my life in the past few weeks - like that of everyone else - has been overshadowed by the events in Ukraine. We have all experienced feelings of horror, sadness, worry, disbelief….. With me it’s overwhelming helplessness - of only being able to be an observer at a great human tragedy but what can I do in practical terms other than donate material goods and money? But I, and we all, can pray.
At Saturday’s meeting of All Ireland Trustees we agreed that we would encourage all MU members across Ireland to stop whatever they are doing every evening at 7pm and pray for the situation in and the people of Ukraine - using whatever prayers they may have or simply pray straight from their hearts. Also we will hold a virtual Prayer Vigil on Wednesday evening 9 March at 9.30pm and the MU zoom link for that has been made available to all dioceses. No matter how and where we pray, God will hear our prayers.
Many prayers have been written and published about Ukraine in the past few weeks but I will end with a very simple prayer which we can all use, every day.
For those who are fleeing: sanctuary
For those who are staying: safety
For those who are fighting: peace
For those whose hearts are breaking: comfort
For those who see no future: hope. Amen
If life was “normal”, I would have had a few words about the three occasions in March which we in MU might/will/should be celebrating - International Women’s Day (9 March), St Patrick’s Day (17 March) and Mothering Sunday (27 March) but all I will say is, if you can and do celebrate them, enjoy with family and friends and thank God too that you can do so. We must never take such things for granted.
God bless and please keep praying that there will be transformation for the dreadful situation in Ukraine.
With love
June
So while I have been well occupied, everything in my life in the past few weeks - like that of everyone else - has been overshadowed by the events in Ukraine. We have all experienced feelings of horror, sadness, worry, disbelief….. With me it’s overwhelming helplessness - of only being able to be an observer at a great human tragedy but what can I do in practical terms other than donate material goods and money? But I, and we all, can pray.
At Saturday’s meeting of All Ireland Trustees we agreed that we would encourage all MU members across Ireland to stop whatever they are doing every evening at 7pm and pray for the situation in and the people of Ukraine - using whatever prayers they may have or simply pray straight from their hearts. Also we will hold a virtual Prayer Vigil on Wednesday evening 9 March at 9.30pm and the MU zoom link for that has been made available to all dioceses. No matter how and where we pray, God will hear our prayers.
Many prayers have been written and published about Ukraine in the past few weeks but I will end with a very simple prayer which we can all use, every day.
For those who are fleeing: sanctuary
For those who are staying: safety
For those who are fighting: peace
For those whose hearts are breaking: comfort
For those who see no future: hope. Amen
If life was “normal”, I would have had a few words about the three occasions in March which we in MU might/will/should be celebrating - International Women’s Day (9 March), St Patrick’s Day (17 March) and Mothering Sunday (27 March) but all I will say is, if you can and do celebrate them, enjoy with family and friends and thank God too that you can do so. We must never take such things for granted.
God bless and please keep praying that there will be transformation for the dreadful situation in Ukraine.
With love
June
LETTER FROM JUNE ALL IRELAND PRESIDENT JANUARY
Dear Members and Friends,
As I write this on New Year’s Day I find it hard to believe that we have finished with 2021- it was the strangest of years, in so many ways. I won’t even try to compile a list of the “idiosyncrasies” we encountered but foremost in my mind are those months of schools without children, churches without physical congregations, the Olympic Games in Tokyo without spectators, 18 year old Emma Raducanu winning the US Open Tennis Championship (like most people I had first heard of her a few weeks before at Wimbledon), the race into space by Elon Musk and Richard Branson and the passing of HRM The Duke of Edinburgh – who will ever forgot that vision of Her Majesty, such a small figure in black, sitting alone in St George’s Chapel, Windsor? On a personal front, what in the longer term I will remember from last year will be the cancelled holidays, the inability to plan realistically for anything and the new requirement to test oneself (in a very unpleasant way) before heading out to encounter other human beings.
As for Mothers’ Union, we simply continued as we had for the majority of 2020, with all our meetings held on the zoom platform. This does have advantages as it is now much easier to call a very quick meeting to discuss any important issue and our regular Council and Trustee meetings can be held without the hassle and expense of travel. Those members who used to have to get up at 5am to catch a train or bus to get to Dublin by 10am are delighted with this innovation! We all, however, agree that we have missed the personal contact, the chats over coffee in the break or at lunchtime and the networking with others with whom we need to discuss some matter- that is so much easier face to face.
It was possible to hold a few services when the pandemic situation improved over the summer months and I know those who were able to attend these services, whether local or diocesan, found them to be a real blessing. The highlight of my year was being able to travel across the length and breadth of Ireland to walk with members for my “21 in 21” challenge. I visited so many parts of Ireland and was able to meet, walk with, talk to and worship with members – it was a real blessing for me in so many ways. Above all, these walks kept me focussed during the periods when so many activities were restricted and it was great to be able to raise significant sponsorship for the Mums in May Fund. The totals will be available in the New Year – my personal sponsorship came to about £3,000 and we know already that the totals coming in from the dioceses has reached over £40,000.
Three sermons (actually reflections) stand out for me from those I heard in 2021. The first was given by Rev Meurig Williams at St Mary’s Parish Church in Doneraile, Co Cork speaking about Mary walking across difficult terrain to visit Elizabeth when both were pregnant; it struck such a chord with me as I was in the middle of my walking challenge. Then Kelley Bermingham spoke at the MU Holy Communion Service in Christ Church Cathedral, during our period of 16 Days of Activism, focussing on her work with those who are victims of domestic abuse and linking this to gospel readings. The third was given by the Bishop of Down and Dromore, the Rt Rev’d David McClay, at the Christmas Eve service in Down Cathedral when we were all feeling apprehensive, if not fearful, about what was going to happen and again what changes might become necessary in our lives due to the new variant of the coronavirus.
I would like to leave some of those thoughts with you today as we move into 2022. Yes, we had hoped by now that there would be a clear path out of the pandemic but Bishop David referred to the number of times in the Christmas story where those involved were told not to be afraid and he transferred that message into our current situation He reminded us that all the key characters faced fear and received the message: ‘Do not to be afraid’. Mary is greatly troubled when the angel appears because she wonders what all this will mean. The angel says ‘Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favour with God’. Similarly Joseph also has to face the reality of his wife-to-be going to have a baby by someone else. The angel visits him in a dream to say ‘Do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife’ because all of this has happened as part of God’s plan. The shepherds are the first to hear that a special child has been born. They are terrified when the angel appears but are told ‘Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.” They, often considered the lowliest in that society, were entrusted to convey the wonderful message.
Many of us may be fearful at this time of uncertainty, not only are we facing the coronavirus, climate change, issues with supply of goods and materials, increasing costs and the possibility of food and fuel poverty ahead, but there is political unrest, violence and also famine in parts of the world which are having such an impact on our fellow human beings. We must pray for all these situations and do whatever we in Mothers’ Union can in practical ways. But above all, we must not be afraid. We should take strength from Jesus who always is with us - remember the verse in John Chapter 6, verse 20, when He came to his disciples in the boat after walking on water - He said to them, “It is I; don’t be afraid.” So let us not be afraid of what we will meet in 2022- let us go forward with fortitude, strength and ingenuity knowing that the Lord is by our side. Let us all put our faith into action.
At all times we should remember this verse, taken also from St John’s Gospel, Ch14 V27:” Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”
I wish you all and your families God richest blessings, as well as peace of mind, good health and happiness, throughout 2022.
With love
June
As I write this on New Year’s Day I find it hard to believe that we have finished with 2021- it was the strangest of years, in so many ways. I won’t even try to compile a list of the “idiosyncrasies” we encountered but foremost in my mind are those months of schools without children, churches without physical congregations, the Olympic Games in Tokyo without spectators, 18 year old Emma Raducanu winning the US Open Tennis Championship (like most people I had first heard of her a few weeks before at Wimbledon), the race into space by Elon Musk and Richard Branson and the passing of HRM The Duke of Edinburgh – who will ever forgot that vision of Her Majesty, such a small figure in black, sitting alone in St George’s Chapel, Windsor? On a personal front, what in the longer term I will remember from last year will be the cancelled holidays, the inability to plan realistically for anything and the new requirement to test oneself (in a very unpleasant way) before heading out to encounter other human beings.
As for Mothers’ Union, we simply continued as we had for the majority of 2020, with all our meetings held on the zoom platform. This does have advantages as it is now much easier to call a very quick meeting to discuss any important issue and our regular Council and Trustee meetings can be held without the hassle and expense of travel. Those members who used to have to get up at 5am to catch a train or bus to get to Dublin by 10am are delighted with this innovation! We all, however, agree that we have missed the personal contact, the chats over coffee in the break or at lunchtime and the networking with others with whom we need to discuss some matter- that is so much easier face to face.
It was possible to hold a few services when the pandemic situation improved over the summer months and I know those who were able to attend these services, whether local or diocesan, found them to be a real blessing. The highlight of my year was being able to travel across the length and breadth of Ireland to walk with members for my “21 in 21” challenge. I visited so many parts of Ireland and was able to meet, walk with, talk to and worship with members – it was a real blessing for me in so many ways. Above all, these walks kept me focussed during the periods when so many activities were restricted and it was great to be able to raise significant sponsorship for the Mums in May Fund. The totals will be available in the New Year – my personal sponsorship came to about £3,000 and we know already that the totals coming in from the dioceses has reached over £40,000.
Three sermons (actually reflections) stand out for me from those I heard in 2021. The first was given by Rev Meurig Williams at St Mary’s Parish Church in Doneraile, Co Cork speaking about Mary walking across difficult terrain to visit Elizabeth when both were pregnant; it struck such a chord with me as I was in the middle of my walking challenge. Then Kelley Bermingham spoke at the MU Holy Communion Service in Christ Church Cathedral, during our period of 16 Days of Activism, focussing on her work with those who are victims of domestic abuse and linking this to gospel readings. The third was given by the Bishop of Down and Dromore, the Rt Rev’d David McClay, at the Christmas Eve service in Down Cathedral when we were all feeling apprehensive, if not fearful, about what was going to happen and again what changes might become necessary in our lives due to the new variant of the coronavirus.
I would like to leave some of those thoughts with you today as we move into 2022. Yes, we had hoped by now that there would be a clear path out of the pandemic but Bishop David referred to the number of times in the Christmas story where those involved were told not to be afraid and he transferred that message into our current situation He reminded us that all the key characters faced fear and received the message: ‘Do not to be afraid’. Mary is greatly troubled when the angel appears because she wonders what all this will mean. The angel says ‘Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favour with God’. Similarly Joseph also has to face the reality of his wife-to-be going to have a baby by someone else. The angel visits him in a dream to say ‘Do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife’ because all of this has happened as part of God’s plan. The shepherds are the first to hear that a special child has been born. They are terrified when the angel appears but are told ‘Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.” They, often considered the lowliest in that society, were entrusted to convey the wonderful message.
Many of us may be fearful at this time of uncertainty, not only are we facing the coronavirus, climate change, issues with supply of goods and materials, increasing costs and the possibility of food and fuel poverty ahead, but there is political unrest, violence and also famine in parts of the world which are having such an impact on our fellow human beings. We must pray for all these situations and do whatever we in Mothers’ Union can in practical ways. But above all, we must not be afraid. We should take strength from Jesus who always is with us - remember the verse in John Chapter 6, verse 20, when He came to his disciples in the boat after walking on water - He said to them, “It is I; don’t be afraid.” So let us not be afraid of what we will meet in 2022- let us go forward with fortitude, strength and ingenuity knowing that the Lord is by our side. Let us all put our faith into action.
At all times we should remember this verse, taken also from St John’s Gospel, Ch14 V27:” Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”
I wish you all and your families God richest blessings, as well as peace of mind, good health and happiness, throughout 2022.
With love
June
Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President ~ December 2021
Hello MU members and friends, in Ireland and elsewhere
It has been such a mild November here in Ireland, I cannot believe that the Advent season is upon us. As “they” say, it will make the winter seem shorter and, after all, it is less than a month until the days are “on the turn.”
The autumn has certainly flown by and, thankfully, I was able to finish my sponsored walks across all the dioceses before the end of October. I set myself the challenge of walking 21 kms in each of the 12 dioceses in Ireland in 2021 in order to raise money for our “Mums in May” Fund. Even by my basic calculations that means I walked over 250kms in completing these 36 walks (3 routes of 7kms in each diocese) or about 160 miles. The editor of The Gazette has asked me to write about the walks for an edition early in 2022 so I will do proper calculations for that based on the journal which I maintained throughout my travels. However, one lasting memory from the last walks in Meath and Kildare and Dublin and Glendalough was the fabulous autumn russets and yellows of the trees viewed across and reflected in stretches of water as I walked beside the River Boyne and on the shores of the Blessington Lakes.
Last week I attended five consecutive daily meetings of the Mothers’ Union Worldwide Trustee Board - my final session representing All Ireland. My term as our Zonal Trustee has ended - it has been a great privilege to work with senior MU members from across the world on this first triennium of the reconstituted Board, with the added bonus that I have made many new friends. From January, Iris Suitor will assume the role of our Zonal Trustee and we wish her God’s richest blessings as she moves into this responsible position of participating in the management and governance of MU worldwide. Iris will be a superb advocate for us in Ireland!
One part of our final week was a wonderful Service of Thanksgiving, which was led by the Archbishop of Canterbury and streamed from Lambeth Palace. As is the way in these Covid times, the majority of us joined the service by zoom from our homes across the globe. That did not diminish the atmosphere or importance of the service for all we participants. The readings were from Psalm 89 and Mathhew Chapter 28, focusing on walking in the light of God’s presence and being assured that He is always with us. Archbishop Justin spoke about the importance of women in our world, especially their role when there is discord and disagreement. He also touched on the dedication of the members of MU worldwide and their importance to the whole Anglican communion.
At the end of the service I was invited by the WW President Sheran to speak about our work in Britain and Ireland on gender-based violence - it was such a privilege to be able to do that before the Archbishop and I did stress how, with our practical work and advocacy, we in Ireland were leaders in this field. I also, of course, referred to the “16 Days of Activism” which, as I write this, is just beginning. We received grants to republish our Prayer Diary and copies have been given to every parish throughout Ireland. Hopefully our clergy will use the prayer pointers to emphasise the importance of everyone speaking out about this dreadful scourge in our midst. Also, I do hope you have all used the diary to help you focus your prayers to end violence against women. There is great information about our campaign on this website and many resources, both here and on the main Mothers’ Union website.
16 Days ... - All-Ireland Mothers' Union (mothersunion.ie)
It is also the beginning of Advent - that time of hope and light. Below Patsy Devoy, one of our All-Ireland Vice Presidents who frequently leads the MU Midday Prayers broadcast daily from Mary Sumner House, gives a short personal reflection about Advent and the light it brings to us all. I will also end on this theme. One of the prayers in the service of Thanksgiving with Archbishop Justin particularly resonated with me as it brought together three strands - my trait of optimism, my love of walking and the theme of light. Of course it also reflects our current MU theme - Rebuilding Hope and Confidence.
God of sure and steadfast hope
We look forward with confidence;
Trusting in your faithfulness,
As we walk in the light of your presence. Amen
My prayer is that, as we prepare to welcome the Christ Child, your advent season will be filled joy and hope - and light, as we prepare to receive the Christ Child afresh into our hearts and move from the recent darker times into the future with Him leading, and lighting, our way.
With love and Christmas blessings to you all and to those whom you love
June
Hello MU members and friends, in Ireland and elsewhere
It has been such a mild November here in Ireland, I cannot believe that the Advent season is upon us. As “they” say, it will make the winter seem shorter and, after all, it is less than a month until the days are “on the turn.”
The autumn has certainly flown by and, thankfully, I was able to finish my sponsored walks across all the dioceses before the end of October. I set myself the challenge of walking 21 kms in each of the 12 dioceses in Ireland in 2021 in order to raise money for our “Mums in May” Fund. Even by my basic calculations that means I walked over 250kms in completing these 36 walks (3 routes of 7kms in each diocese) or about 160 miles. The editor of The Gazette has asked me to write about the walks for an edition early in 2022 so I will do proper calculations for that based on the journal which I maintained throughout my travels. However, one lasting memory from the last walks in Meath and Kildare and Dublin and Glendalough was the fabulous autumn russets and yellows of the trees viewed across and reflected in stretches of water as I walked beside the River Boyne and on the shores of the Blessington Lakes.
Last week I attended five consecutive daily meetings of the Mothers’ Union Worldwide Trustee Board - my final session representing All Ireland. My term as our Zonal Trustee has ended - it has been a great privilege to work with senior MU members from across the world on this first triennium of the reconstituted Board, with the added bonus that I have made many new friends. From January, Iris Suitor will assume the role of our Zonal Trustee and we wish her God’s richest blessings as she moves into this responsible position of participating in the management and governance of MU worldwide. Iris will be a superb advocate for us in Ireland!
One part of our final week was a wonderful Service of Thanksgiving, which was led by the Archbishop of Canterbury and streamed from Lambeth Palace. As is the way in these Covid times, the majority of us joined the service by zoom from our homes across the globe. That did not diminish the atmosphere or importance of the service for all we participants. The readings were from Psalm 89 and Mathhew Chapter 28, focusing on walking in the light of God’s presence and being assured that He is always with us. Archbishop Justin spoke about the importance of women in our world, especially their role when there is discord and disagreement. He also touched on the dedication of the members of MU worldwide and their importance to the whole Anglican communion.
At the end of the service I was invited by the WW President Sheran to speak about our work in Britain and Ireland on gender-based violence - it was such a privilege to be able to do that before the Archbishop and I did stress how, with our practical work and advocacy, we in Ireland were leaders in this field. I also, of course, referred to the “16 Days of Activism” which, as I write this, is just beginning. We received grants to republish our Prayer Diary and copies have been given to every parish throughout Ireland. Hopefully our clergy will use the prayer pointers to emphasise the importance of everyone speaking out about this dreadful scourge in our midst. Also, I do hope you have all used the diary to help you focus your prayers to end violence against women. There is great information about our campaign on this website and many resources, both here and on the main Mothers’ Union website.
16 Days ... - All-Ireland Mothers' Union (mothersunion.ie)
It is also the beginning of Advent - that time of hope and light. Below Patsy Devoy, one of our All-Ireland Vice Presidents who frequently leads the MU Midday Prayers broadcast daily from Mary Sumner House, gives a short personal reflection about Advent and the light it brings to us all. I will also end on this theme. One of the prayers in the service of Thanksgiving with Archbishop Justin particularly resonated with me as it brought together three strands - my trait of optimism, my love of walking and the theme of light. Of course it also reflects our current MU theme - Rebuilding Hope and Confidence.
God of sure and steadfast hope
We look forward with confidence;
Trusting in your faithfulness,
As we walk in the light of your presence. Amen
My prayer is that, as we prepare to welcome the Christ Child, your advent season will be filled joy and hope - and light, as we prepare to receive the Christ Child afresh into our hearts and move from the recent darker times into the future with Him leading, and lighting, our way.
With love and Christmas blessings to you all and to those whom you love
June
Reflection by Patsy Devoy, All Ireland Vice-President.
Last night was one of those nights! I went to bed rather late and very tired…fell asleep at once but woke at 1 am – and that was that! You maybe know those nights! I’m now writing early in the morning…so excuse the informality.
In the deep darkness and quiet, I began to think a little about Advent – the coming of Christ as the Light into the world -and I thought about his coming into my own life…and those of people I know.
I remembered a talk given by Bishop Roy Warke (and I know I’ve mentioned this before in various places, so forgive repetition!) – when he said that there are two ways to welcome the morning light. Some people leave their curtains open, so the sunlight gradually filters into the room, and others have the curtains closed – opening them in the morning so the light floods in suddenly. He said it’s the same with letting the Light of Christ into our lives. Some of us have seen the Light gradually appearing throughout our lives – and others have a moment when the Light suddenly floods in. The end results are the same.
I’m definitely the gradual type – though I’ve always secretly envied people who had a dramatic experience!
In our parish we’ve just published Ordinary People 4 – the fourth edition of a book of faith stories of ‘ordinary’ people in our parish and community. The generosity and courage of the people sharing their stories is one thing that strikes me – and the other thing is how encouraged I am. It’s lovely to read of how the Light of Christ has dawned and is dawning in our world today.
So, in the middle of so much darkness and so many difficulties that people are facing – in our families and communities and right across the globe – we can continue to pray for the Light to dawn – and give thanks that it will.
Last night was one of those nights! I went to bed rather late and very tired…fell asleep at once but woke at 1 am – and that was that! You maybe know those nights! I’m now writing early in the morning…so excuse the informality.
In the deep darkness and quiet, I began to think a little about Advent – the coming of Christ as the Light into the world -and I thought about his coming into my own life…and those of people I know.
I remembered a talk given by Bishop Roy Warke (and I know I’ve mentioned this before in various places, so forgive repetition!) – when he said that there are two ways to welcome the morning light. Some people leave their curtains open, so the sunlight gradually filters into the room, and others have the curtains closed – opening them in the morning so the light floods in suddenly. He said it’s the same with letting the Light of Christ into our lives. Some of us have seen the Light gradually appearing throughout our lives – and others have a moment when the Light suddenly floods in. The end results are the same.
I’m definitely the gradual type – though I’ve always secretly envied people who had a dramatic experience!
In our parish we’ve just published Ordinary People 4 – the fourth edition of a book of faith stories of ‘ordinary’ people in our parish and community. The generosity and courage of the people sharing their stories is one thing that strikes me – and the other thing is how encouraged I am. It’s lovely to read of how the Light of Christ has dawned and is dawning in our world today.
So, in the middle of so much darkness and so many difficulties that people are facing – in our families and communities and right across the globe – we can continue to pray for the Light to dawn – and give thanks that it will.
Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President ~ October/November 2021
Hello MU Members and Friends, in Ireland and further afield
I have been told that my website “letter” is read worldwide so I bring greetings from all of us in Ireland to wherever you may be across God’s world.
Below our Mothers’ Union All Ireland Chaplain, Rev’d Canon Robert Deane, provides a short reflection which he has - by coincidence - based around one of my favourite poems by John Keats. I first encountered “To Autumn” when I was studying for my “A” level English literature at school - a very long time ago- but to me it epitomises autumn as it occurs in Ireland and I just love the language Keats uses to describe this time of year and the potential for bearing fruit. That is exactly what we in Mothers’ Union do each time we reach out to others.
As I have been walking in various areas of woodland in recent weeks, I have noticed our native deciduous trees just beginning to turn colour into the beautiful russets we expect here during October and November. This may be a strange concept to those of you who live in warmer climates but here the leaves gradually turn from their usual greens into resplendent shades of orange and gold - before the winter gales arrive to force them from the branches. The extent of the colour can be breath-taking. Last week I was fortunate to be walking on a glorious afternoon in Gosford Forest Park near Armagh and the beauty of the trees and the stillness, only broken by birdsong, reinforced to me how fortunate we in Ireland are to have access to such places of calm. I am reminded of the words in Psalm 46 “Be still and know that I am God”.
Being still and, on occasions, alone can help us focus on our priorities in life and I know that some of my most pertinent thoughts come when I am either walking or driving on my own. However, being alone is very different from being lonely and last month I mentioned here that a Mother’s Union working group, chaired by Lady Christine Eames, had been preparing a leaflet which would focus on loneliness among our members, and in our parishes and communities, and signpost ways in which we could address this problem. As we are all aware, the problem of loneliness in our communities has been exacerbated over the last 18 months by the pandemic. The All Ireland Trustees have now agreed that this leaflet should be printed as soon as possible and made widely available to MU members and also to all parishes in Ireland. I hope that when you receive a copy it will help you to think how you might support someone who is lonely or, if you yourself feel lonely from time to time, that it will help you thorough these difficult periods.
One other outcome from the pandemic has been an unprecedented rise in domestic abuse - in fact the United Nations termed this in 2020 as the “shadow pandemic”. At this year’s Church of Ireland General Synod Mothers’ Union were invited to speak about the work it had done to the highlight this acute problem in our society. I gave some introductory remarks and Jacqui Armstrong, who leads on this project for MU in Ireland, provided details about the level of abuse, what parishes might do to help and what MU has been and plans for the future to highlight these matters and also bring aid to those who have been abused. There is a report on the presentation on the Church of Ireland website. Click on the link below to read the report.
https://www.ireland.anglican.org/news/10963/debate-on-standing-committee-focuses
Click on the link below to watch the video which was presented at Synod
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_6zbhK4ru4
However, more importantly there is considerable information on this, our Mothers’ Union website, about the activities planned in November and December across our dioceses for the “16 Days of Activism against Gender Based Violence” and links to available resources including the 16 Days prayer diary. I would ask everyone please to read that information and participate in whatever way you can. http://www.mothersunion.ie/16-days-....html
Hello MU Members and Friends, in Ireland and further afield
I have been told that my website “letter” is read worldwide so I bring greetings from all of us in Ireland to wherever you may be across God’s world.
Below our Mothers’ Union All Ireland Chaplain, Rev’d Canon Robert Deane, provides a short reflection which he has - by coincidence - based around one of my favourite poems by John Keats. I first encountered “To Autumn” when I was studying for my “A” level English literature at school - a very long time ago- but to me it epitomises autumn as it occurs in Ireland and I just love the language Keats uses to describe this time of year and the potential for bearing fruit. That is exactly what we in Mothers’ Union do each time we reach out to others.
As I have been walking in various areas of woodland in recent weeks, I have noticed our native deciduous trees just beginning to turn colour into the beautiful russets we expect here during October and November. This may be a strange concept to those of you who live in warmer climates but here the leaves gradually turn from their usual greens into resplendent shades of orange and gold - before the winter gales arrive to force them from the branches. The extent of the colour can be breath-taking. Last week I was fortunate to be walking on a glorious afternoon in Gosford Forest Park near Armagh and the beauty of the trees and the stillness, only broken by birdsong, reinforced to me how fortunate we in Ireland are to have access to such places of calm. I am reminded of the words in Psalm 46 “Be still and know that I am God”.
Being still and, on occasions, alone can help us focus on our priorities in life and I know that some of my most pertinent thoughts come when I am either walking or driving on my own. However, being alone is very different from being lonely and last month I mentioned here that a Mother’s Union working group, chaired by Lady Christine Eames, had been preparing a leaflet which would focus on loneliness among our members, and in our parishes and communities, and signpost ways in which we could address this problem. As we are all aware, the problem of loneliness in our communities has been exacerbated over the last 18 months by the pandemic. The All Ireland Trustees have now agreed that this leaflet should be printed as soon as possible and made widely available to MU members and also to all parishes in Ireland. I hope that when you receive a copy it will help you to think how you might support someone who is lonely or, if you yourself feel lonely from time to time, that it will help you thorough these difficult periods.
One other outcome from the pandemic has been an unprecedented rise in domestic abuse - in fact the United Nations termed this in 2020 as the “shadow pandemic”. At this year’s Church of Ireland General Synod Mothers’ Union were invited to speak about the work it had done to the highlight this acute problem in our society. I gave some introductory remarks and Jacqui Armstrong, who leads on this project for MU in Ireland, provided details about the level of abuse, what parishes might do to help and what MU has been and plans for the future to highlight these matters and also bring aid to those who have been abused. There is a report on the presentation on the Church of Ireland website. Click on the link below to read the report.
https://www.ireland.anglican.org/news/10963/debate-on-standing-committee-focuses
Click on the link below to watch the video which was presented at Synod
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_6zbhK4ru4
However, more importantly there is considerable information on this, our Mothers’ Union website, about the activities planned in November and December across our dioceses for the “16 Days of Activism against Gender Based Violence” and links to available resources including the 16 Days prayer diary. I would ask everyone please to read that information and participate in whatever way you can. http://www.mothersunion.ie/16-days-....html
Prayer for our work in this field is also important and, of course, there is a need for prayer for those who are abused and for the perpetrators of these crimes. This autumn - and beyond - my prayer is that our work to highlight such dreadful abuse will bear real fruit.
With love and blessings
June
With love and blessings
June
Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President ~ September 2021
Dear MU members and friends
As those who have been following this website regularly over the past few months will know, I have been spending some time walking across the dioceses in Ireland – my “staycation” – not a word I particularly like but it does portray aptly the concept that many of us have had to adopt this year, as to travel beyond this island may not have been practical, comfortable or even feasible. I have really enjoyed the opportunity to visit areas of Ireland which I did not know, in order to tackle the locally-planned 7km walks, part of my personal “21 in 21” challenge to support the Mums in May Fund. These have covered some of the most beautiful and interesting areas of this island and I have also been privileged to spend time – either walking or socialising - with MU members on their “home turf”. It has been great to chat with members and find out, at the grass roots, what spurs them to continue to support our beloved organisation. The two factors, which have been constantly highlighted in this very unscientific survey, are their faith and their love of the fellowship MU brings with similarly-minded people.
Three other things I have been involved with over the summer months have also brought these aspects of MU into focus for me. The first was participating in a working group, ably chaired by Hilary Dring (DP of Cork Diocese), which produced a fourpage leaflet entitled “Reconnecting” which gives advice to branches about re-opening after the Covid-19 pandemic. This was endorsed by the All-Ireland Trustees and, in addition to practical advice, stresses the need to comply with government and church regulations and offers suggestions about how to re-engage members with Mothers’ Union at a local level.
The second area is on-going – it is a working group chaired by Lady Christine Eames, which is aiming to focus on loneliness among our members, and in our parishes and communities, and signpost ways in which we can address this problem. This is not a new phenomenon – loneliness was always an area of concern but it has been exacerbated over the last 18 months by the pandemic. We are planning to prepare and print a leaflet for wide distribution before the end of 2021 in the hope that this will highlight the issue and make everyone think about how they might ameliorate the associated problems.
My third focus over the summer was on the celebrations for the life and witness of our founder in Ireland – Annabella Hayes. Everyone can read about the central events, held on 14th and 21st August, elsewhere on this website and watch the videos recorded on both days. We had a coffee morning where those attending - by zoom, of course - learned so much about Annabella’s life and witness. On the following Saturday, her grave was rededicated by the Archbishop of Dublin and a memorial service held in All Saint’s Parish Church, Raheny where she founded the first MU branch in Ireland. These excellent events were all organised by a working group comprised of members from the Diocese of Dublin and Glendalough and other AI Trustees with specialist skills; they also have to be congratulated o successfully applying for a grant from the Heritage Council which allowed the very dilapidated grave of Annabella and her husband, Canon Francis, to be remodelled.
Dear MU members and friends
As those who have been following this website regularly over the past few months will know, I have been spending some time walking across the dioceses in Ireland – my “staycation” – not a word I particularly like but it does portray aptly the concept that many of us have had to adopt this year, as to travel beyond this island may not have been practical, comfortable or even feasible. I have really enjoyed the opportunity to visit areas of Ireland which I did not know, in order to tackle the locally-planned 7km walks, part of my personal “21 in 21” challenge to support the Mums in May Fund. These have covered some of the most beautiful and interesting areas of this island and I have also been privileged to spend time – either walking or socialising - with MU members on their “home turf”. It has been great to chat with members and find out, at the grass roots, what spurs them to continue to support our beloved organisation. The two factors, which have been constantly highlighted in this very unscientific survey, are their faith and their love of the fellowship MU brings with similarly-minded people.
Three other things I have been involved with over the summer months have also brought these aspects of MU into focus for me. The first was participating in a working group, ably chaired by Hilary Dring (DP of Cork Diocese), which produced a fourpage leaflet entitled “Reconnecting” which gives advice to branches about re-opening after the Covid-19 pandemic. This was endorsed by the All-Ireland Trustees and, in addition to practical advice, stresses the need to comply with government and church regulations and offers suggestions about how to re-engage members with Mothers’ Union at a local level.
The second area is on-going – it is a working group chaired by Lady Christine Eames, which is aiming to focus on loneliness among our members, and in our parishes and communities, and signpost ways in which we can address this problem. This is not a new phenomenon – loneliness was always an area of concern but it has been exacerbated over the last 18 months by the pandemic. We are planning to prepare and print a leaflet for wide distribution before the end of 2021 in the hope that this will highlight the issue and make everyone think about how they might ameliorate the associated problems.
My third focus over the summer was on the celebrations for the life and witness of our founder in Ireland – Annabella Hayes. Everyone can read about the central events, held on 14th and 21st August, elsewhere on this website and watch the videos recorded on both days. We had a coffee morning where those attending - by zoom, of course - learned so much about Annabella’s life and witness. On the following Saturday, her grave was rededicated by the Archbishop of Dublin and a memorial service held in All Saint’s Parish Church, Raheny where she founded the first MU branch in Ireland. These excellent events were all organised by a working group comprised of members from the Diocese of Dublin and Glendalough and other AI Trustees with specialist skills; they also have to be congratulated o successfully applying for a grant from the Heritage Council which allowed the very dilapidated grave of Annabella and her husband, Canon Francis, to be remodelled.
The refurbished grave of Annabella Hayes
21st August 2021
It has occurred to me that the common denominator of all three areas is kindness. This commodity has not always been to the fore in our communities in the recent past. I feel that there has been a growing tendency towards selfishness in our material world and while some – I hope myself included – have maintained their inherent trait to be kind towards others, this had slipped for many people. However, the Covid19 pandemic has demonstrated that the skills of neighbourliness and kindness have been rejuvenated – whether that has been people physically helping those who have had to isolate or simply phoning those who live alone or taking time to speak to neighbours to find out how they have been coping with our changed world. I have to say that MU members have been particularly kind in all these ways over the past 18 months.
In thinking about returning to MU meetings, reconnecting with our MU friends, considering how we might better help those who are lonely or just pondering on how Annabella Hayes learned from her friend Mary Sumner about founding a branch of Mothers’ Union in Raheny to encourage parishioners to reach out towards the young mothers and others there - the common denominator is kindness. How we can all help others, stretch out a hand when someone is in need - such a simple thing to do.
My grandmother used to say, in her rather stern Victorian voice slightly misquoting Matthew C7 V12: “Do on to others as you would have them do unto you” and I think that is still the kernel of kindness. When we practice kindness – either towards others or even just being kind to ourselves - we can experience positive mental or physical changes through lowering stress levels and increasing the body’s production of “feel good” hormones such as dopamine and serotonin.
There are many examples of kindness in the bible, especially in the life and miracles of Jesus, but one of my favourites is the story of Ruth. At the beginning of the Book of Ruth, we see that Naomi has gone through some hard times - she has suffered a famine, moved to another country, lost her husband and her sons. However, although she tells her friends this has made her bitter, it does not stop her from being kind to others. Naomi shows kindness to her daughters-in-law when she releases them from any obligation towards her and particularly towards Ruth by giving her advice to ensure she is safe and will be taken care of in the future. Ruth also shows kindness towards Naomi by staying with her, working in the fields and sharing food with her, rather than going to find a better life elsewhere.
In the Middle East in those times, widows were often abandoned and left desolate if they couldn’t look after themselves. This is not God’s way. He made provisions in his word for the care of the helpless, including widows and foreigners, such as Naomi and Ruth.
Later Boaz tells Ruth that he has heard about the kindness she has shown Naomi: “The Lord (will) repay you for what you have done, and a full reward be given you by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge!”. Ruth 2:11-12. Also Boaz showed his kind heart as he protected Ruth from harm and made sure all the necessary steps had been taken in order for him to ‘redeem’ her and marry her.
The great thing we see in the story of Ruth is that all the main characters focussed on the needs of the others. They were kind. During normal or difficult times, all of us can show kindness towards others and offer support and friendship to those who may be struggling.
I will end with a poem on kindness by W. Lomax Childress which I read recently:
Let us be kind;
The way is long and lonely,
And human hearts are asking for this blessing only--
That we be kind.
We cannot know the grief that men may borrow,
We cannot see the souls storm-swept by sorrow,
But love can shine upon the way to-day, to-morrow--
Let us be kind.
With love and blessings
June
In thinking about returning to MU meetings, reconnecting with our MU friends, considering how we might better help those who are lonely or just pondering on how Annabella Hayes learned from her friend Mary Sumner about founding a branch of Mothers’ Union in Raheny to encourage parishioners to reach out towards the young mothers and others there - the common denominator is kindness. How we can all help others, stretch out a hand when someone is in need - such a simple thing to do.
My grandmother used to say, in her rather stern Victorian voice slightly misquoting Matthew C7 V12: “Do on to others as you would have them do unto you” and I think that is still the kernel of kindness. When we practice kindness – either towards others or even just being kind to ourselves - we can experience positive mental or physical changes through lowering stress levels and increasing the body’s production of “feel good” hormones such as dopamine and serotonin.
There are many examples of kindness in the bible, especially in the life and miracles of Jesus, but one of my favourites is the story of Ruth. At the beginning of the Book of Ruth, we see that Naomi has gone through some hard times - she has suffered a famine, moved to another country, lost her husband and her sons. However, although she tells her friends this has made her bitter, it does not stop her from being kind to others. Naomi shows kindness to her daughters-in-law when she releases them from any obligation towards her and particularly towards Ruth by giving her advice to ensure she is safe and will be taken care of in the future. Ruth also shows kindness towards Naomi by staying with her, working in the fields and sharing food with her, rather than going to find a better life elsewhere.
In the Middle East in those times, widows were often abandoned and left desolate if they couldn’t look after themselves. This is not God’s way. He made provisions in his word for the care of the helpless, including widows and foreigners, such as Naomi and Ruth.
Later Boaz tells Ruth that he has heard about the kindness she has shown Naomi: “The Lord (will) repay you for what you have done, and a full reward be given you by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge!”. Ruth 2:11-12. Also Boaz showed his kind heart as he protected Ruth from harm and made sure all the necessary steps had been taken in order for him to ‘redeem’ her and marry her.
The great thing we see in the story of Ruth is that all the main characters focussed on the needs of the others. They were kind. During normal or difficult times, all of us can show kindness towards others and offer support and friendship to those who may be struggling.
I will end with a poem on kindness by W. Lomax Childress which I read recently:
Let us be kind;
The way is long and lonely,
And human hearts are asking for this blessing only--
That we be kind.
We cannot know the grief that men may borrow,
We cannot see the souls storm-swept by sorrow,
But love can shine upon the way to-day, to-morrow--
Let us be kind.
With love and blessings
June
MUMS IN MAY WALK IN SLIGO
All Ireland President June Butler’s twentieth Mums in May Walk took place in Sligo on Tuesday 10 August 2021
It began with a short act of worship in St Anne’s Church in Strandhill conducted by Revs. Michael and Ann Wooderson. All Ireland President, Social Policy Rep Marlet Hunter and Overseas Rep, Dolores Henderson led 17 members on a scenic route along the beach and back to the church for light refreshments. June spoke about her “21 in 21” challenge and the Mums in May Fund. Hazel Speares, Diocesan President thanked Marlet for organising the event
All Ireland President June Butler’s twentieth Mums in May Walk took place in Sligo on Tuesday 10 August 2021
It began with a short act of worship in St Anne’s Church in Strandhill conducted by Revs. Michael and Ann Wooderson. All Ireland President, Social Policy Rep Marlet Hunter and Overseas Rep, Dolores Henderson led 17 members on a scenic route along the beach and back to the church for light refreshments. June spoke about her “21 in 21” challenge and the Mums in May Fund. Hazel Speares, Diocesan President thanked Marlet for organising the event
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Mums in May Diocesan Walk - Mrs. June Butler
All Ireland President Mrs. June Butler led a 7km walk from Tomregan Parish Church, Ballyconnell on Monday 28th June. This was June's 11th walk, about forty members from KEA joined her, Bishop Ferran Glenfield; the Diocesan Chaplain, Rev. Capt., Richard Waller and the Rev. Simon Donohoe, Rector of Tomregan Parish for a short time of prayer. June also said a few words about her "21 in 21" challenge and about the MIM Fund.
June plans to walk 21kms in every diocese in Ireland this year as part of the “21 in 21” challenge.
June continues the diocesan walk on Tuesday 29th in Longford for a further 7 km and in Sligo at a future date.
Left to Right: Lorna Graham, Branch Leader Swanlinbar/Kildallon; Rev. Capt., Richard Waller; Bishop Ferran Glenfield; Hazel Speares. Diocesan President; Rev. Simon Donohoe, Tomregan Parish; June Butler, All Ireland President; Phyllis Cassidy who organized the walk.
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WALK IN LONGFORD
June's 12th walk on 29th June marked the completion of one third of the planned 36 walks. This walk began with a short act pf worship for the twenty or so MU members who had gathered at St. John's Parish Church in the centre of Longford. This was held in glorious sunshine and was led by Ann Howard, a Diocesan Trustee, and by the branch leader, Diane Stewart. There were prayers, and bible readings and even hymns amplified across the graveyard from Ann's phone. Fittingly one of these was "Walk, walk in the light"!! June was presented with a lovely bag of Longford "goodies" and she spoke for a few minutes about MIM and this year's efforts to rebuild the Fund all focused around "21 in 21".
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Mums in May Walk in Virginia
Congratulations to Vida McCauley, Branch Leader, Virginia on completing the Mums in May 21km walk/run in Deerpark Forest, Virginia.
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Result of Hymn Competition:
First:
Yvonne Woods (Milltown Mothers’ Union) ~ Armagh Diocese
Hymn: “Come unto me”
Tune: Martyrdom [ICH, Hymn 607 “As pants the hart for cooling streams”]
The Winning Hymn
Come unto me, I am the door
Our faithful Lord did say
We can go in, and pastures find –
He is the only way.
I am the way, the truth, the life
God calls us, let us hear –
So we might know of his great love;
To trust and not to fear.
His Peace is like a calming stream –
And faithfulness is sure,
His grace and love and mercy great;
As long as life endures
From darkness into glorious light
Whoever follows him,
His life he gave that we might live;
To rescue us from sin.
So let us now, all with one voice –
Sing praises to our King,
The hills and valleys shout for joy;
Our thanks to God we bring.
Tune: Martyrdom [ICH, Hymn 607 “As pants the hart for cooling streams”]
Highly Commended:
Joan Robinson (Dungiven and Boveagh Mothers’ Union) ~ Derry & Raphoe Diocese
Hymn: “Have you troubles, strife and sorrow”
Tune: St Nicholas (Redhead No. 143) [ICH, Hymn 584 “Jesus calls us! O’er the tumult”]
Margaret Rowlandson (Templemore Mothers’ Union) ~ Derry & Raphoe Diocese
Hymn: “Counting my blessings”
Tune: Bunessan [ICH, Hymn 58 “Morning has broken”]
Dean Tom Gordon (Leighlin Mothers’ Union) ~ Cashel, Ferns & Ossory Diocese
Hymn: “God who is Father of infinite goodness”
Tune: Faithfulness [ICH Hymn 80 “Great is thy faithfulness”]
Violet Lockhart (Ballisodare Union Mothers’ Union) ~ Tuam, Killala & Achonry Diocese
Hymn: “O Lord our God, we thank you now”
Tune: Amazing Grace [ICH Hymn 642 “Amazing grace (how sweet the sound!)”]
Result of Prayer Competition:
First:
Phyllis Grothier (Tullow Mothers’ Union) ~ Cashel, Ferns & Ossory Diocese
The Winning Prayer
Loving Lord, I bring my prayer to you through faith in your love and mercy.
Father forgive and help me to do better: for the times when I cause hurt either through my words or actions; when I do not recognise you in the face of my neighbour, when I see another human being as different or of less value. Teach me to show love and mercy.
Father forgive and help me to do better: for the times when I see need and do not respond, hear hurtful words and do not call them out, am deaf to the cries of the hungry, hurt and abused. Teach me to show love and mercy.
Father forgive and help me to do better; for the times when I treat your creation as a personal possession rather than a fragile resource to be nurtured and valued . Teach me to show love and mercy.
Teach me to remember always that, while faith, hope and love abide, the greatest of these is love. Inspire me with the confidence to live this truth in my daily life both in word and action, knowing that all I am or can be is based on the strong foundation of God’s saving love. In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen
Highly Commended:
Joyce Buttimer (Clonakilty Mothers’ Union) ~ Cork, Cloyne & Ross Diocese
Sylvia Wheatley (Newbridge Mothers’ Union) ~ Meath & Kildare Diocese
Gill Mc Cullough (Aghadowey Mothers’ Union) ~ Derry & Raphoe Diocese
Linda Hughes (Christ Church, Culmore, Muff and St Peter’s Mothers’ Union) ~ Derry & Raphoe Diocese
First:
Yvonne Woods (Milltown Mothers’ Union) ~ Armagh Diocese
Hymn: “Come unto me”
Tune: Martyrdom [ICH, Hymn 607 “As pants the hart for cooling streams”]
The Winning Hymn
Come unto me, I am the door
Our faithful Lord did say
We can go in, and pastures find –
He is the only way.
I am the way, the truth, the life
God calls us, let us hear –
So we might know of his great love;
To trust and not to fear.
His Peace is like a calming stream –
And faithfulness is sure,
His grace and love and mercy great;
As long as life endures
From darkness into glorious light
Whoever follows him,
His life he gave that we might live;
To rescue us from sin.
So let us now, all with one voice –
Sing praises to our King,
The hills and valleys shout for joy;
Our thanks to God we bring.
Tune: Martyrdom [ICH, Hymn 607 “As pants the hart for cooling streams”]
Highly Commended:
Joan Robinson (Dungiven and Boveagh Mothers’ Union) ~ Derry & Raphoe Diocese
Hymn: “Have you troubles, strife and sorrow”
Tune: St Nicholas (Redhead No. 143) [ICH, Hymn 584 “Jesus calls us! O’er the tumult”]
Margaret Rowlandson (Templemore Mothers’ Union) ~ Derry & Raphoe Diocese
Hymn: “Counting my blessings”
Tune: Bunessan [ICH, Hymn 58 “Morning has broken”]
Dean Tom Gordon (Leighlin Mothers’ Union) ~ Cashel, Ferns & Ossory Diocese
Hymn: “God who is Father of infinite goodness”
Tune: Faithfulness [ICH Hymn 80 “Great is thy faithfulness”]
Violet Lockhart (Ballisodare Union Mothers’ Union) ~ Tuam, Killala & Achonry Diocese
Hymn: “O Lord our God, we thank you now”
Tune: Amazing Grace [ICH Hymn 642 “Amazing grace (how sweet the sound!)”]
Result of Prayer Competition:
First:
Phyllis Grothier (Tullow Mothers’ Union) ~ Cashel, Ferns & Ossory Diocese
The Winning Prayer
Loving Lord, I bring my prayer to you through faith in your love and mercy.
Father forgive and help me to do better: for the times when I cause hurt either through my words or actions; when I do not recognise you in the face of my neighbour, when I see another human being as different or of less value. Teach me to show love and mercy.
Father forgive and help me to do better: for the times when I see need and do not respond, hear hurtful words and do not call them out, am deaf to the cries of the hungry, hurt and abused. Teach me to show love and mercy.
Father forgive and help me to do better; for the times when I treat your creation as a personal possession rather than a fragile resource to be nurtured and valued . Teach me to show love and mercy.
Teach me to remember always that, while faith, hope and love abide, the greatest of these is love. Inspire me with the confidence to live this truth in my daily life both in word and action, knowing that all I am or can be is based on the strong foundation of God’s saving love. In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen
Highly Commended:
Joyce Buttimer (Clonakilty Mothers’ Union) ~ Cork, Cloyne & Ross Diocese
Sylvia Wheatley (Newbridge Mothers’ Union) ~ Meath & Kildare Diocese
Gill Mc Cullough (Aghadowey Mothers’ Union) ~ Derry & Raphoe Diocese
Linda Hughes (Christ Church, Culmore, Muff and St Peter’s Mothers’ Union) ~ Derry & Raphoe Diocese
Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President ~ June 2021
Hello Members and Friends
After a long wait, it does seem that summer has eventually arrived. With it comes the conflict, for me at any rate, of needing to work in the garden to deal with all the weeds which have miraculously appeared at the behest of the recent moisture and now heat, and wanting to sit and relax - just to take in all the lovely colours, sounds and smells. As with everything there has to be compromise, so over the past days I have tried to do a little of both.
That of course is when I haven’t been walking as part of my personal challenge to help raise money to boost the Mums in May Fund. If you read this website regularly you will know that I plan to walk 21kms in every diocese in Ireland this year as my part of the “21 in 21” challenge. Other members are setting themselves targets of completing 21 of other things. Some living close to me did 21 laps of a local park last weekend and I know of other members who are swimming 21 lengths, knitting 21 baby cardigans and reading 21 books - all wonderful initiatives.
To date I have completed 10 of the 7km walks, two in each of the dioceses which lie in Northern Ireland but now that restrictions have started to lift, I am planning walks in the dioceses in the Republic of Ireland. This “interval” (or should I call it a rest?) is timely as one of my daughters (the one who lives closest to me) is expecting her first baby, with a due date of this week, so I obviously want to be around home for a few weeks to offer whatever help I can.
The walks to date have all been super - I have walked in such a variety of places and in all weathers - rain, hail, sun and wind - and with members, old and new friends, local historians, Diocesan Presidents and Trustees, Diocesan Chaplains and other clergy, and even one Bishop (Andrew of Derry and Raphoe). I understand other Bishops (at least five of them) are planning to join me on future walks so I am looking forward to spending time also with them and explaining about the work undertaken through the MIM Fund across Ireland.
Over the past few weeks, when I have been walking away from my local area, I have had the privilege of meeting up with two former All Ireland Presidents and spending time chatting to them. The first was Margaret Crawford who was with us on the first walk I did in Clogher Diocese. I see Margaret from time to time and she never seems to change - either personally or in her enthusiasm for Mothers’ Union. The second was Thelma Mehaffy whom I haven’t encountered for many years. When I was undertaking the walk in L’derry City, with the approval of Thelma’s daughter, DP Jacqui suggested I might call with Thelma before I headed home that evening. I was delighted to be able to do so, especially as it was Thelma’s 89th birthday the following day. As they say, the “craic” was mighty and Thelma recalled so many things I had forgotten in the realms of MU.
Thelma was, in many ways, responsible for me taking a leadership role in MU in the first instance. In those distant days of the 1990s I was a young member rep in Down and Dromore but as AI President she insisted on me taking a key role in a conference she was organising - I was petrified, but apparently survived the ordeal and the result was many other MU paths gradually opened up for me. These two ladies - and so many other All Ireland Presidents over the years - have given of their time, energy, skills and knowledge to lead our members, to identify and nurture future leaders and to make Mothers’ Union in Ireland what it is today.
Last Sunday was Trinity Sunday and I had the privilege of being invited to preach - virtually of course - at the Festival Service for Cashel, Ferns and Ossory Diocese. Besides the conventional concept of the Trinity, I focussed on the trinity of the current MU Theme - “Rebuilding Hope and Confidence” and on how the power of the Holy Spirit abiding in each one of us will help us rebuild MU and our communities with hope and confidence after the pandemic. The Holy Spirit obviously worked with such power through all those former AI Presidents, and through our founder in Ireland, Annabella Hayes, of whom you will hear a lot more in the coming weeks as we celebrate the centenary of her death.
However, I will end now with verses from Romans Ch5, V 3-5 This is one of the readings for Trinity Sunday which I believe could - or should - be the mantra for Mothers’ Union members worldwide. Indeed, the verses reflect how so many people have managed to cope, and have actually gained extra personal strength, during the past fifteen months
“……. endurance produces character, and character produces hope,
and hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured
into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us.”
My prayer is that the Holy Spirit will continue to work through us all - in Mothers’ Union, in our parishes and communities, now and in the years to come
I will leave you with a lovely prayer which brings together the Trinity and that special Mothers’ Union theme for 2021.
Our hope and confidence is in you,
our loving Father;
you have opened the door of heaven
through your plan of salvation.
Our hope and confidence is in you,
our saviour, Jesus Christ;
you have paved the way for us to know
joyous relationship with God.
Our hope and confidence is in you,
our counsellor, Holy Spirit;
you have shined a light for us to see
the love of the Father and Son.
Thanks be to God,
for our sure and steadfast confidence,
for the Holy Spirit within us giving us
the hope in which we glory. Amen
Hello Members and Friends
After a long wait, it does seem that summer has eventually arrived. With it comes the conflict, for me at any rate, of needing to work in the garden to deal with all the weeds which have miraculously appeared at the behest of the recent moisture and now heat, and wanting to sit and relax - just to take in all the lovely colours, sounds and smells. As with everything there has to be compromise, so over the past days I have tried to do a little of both.
That of course is when I haven’t been walking as part of my personal challenge to help raise money to boost the Mums in May Fund. If you read this website regularly you will know that I plan to walk 21kms in every diocese in Ireland this year as my part of the “21 in 21” challenge. Other members are setting themselves targets of completing 21 of other things. Some living close to me did 21 laps of a local park last weekend and I know of other members who are swimming 21 lengths, knitting 21 baby cardigans and reading 21 books - all wonderful initiatives.
To date I have completed 10 of the 7km walks, two in each of the dioceses which lie in Northern Ireland but now that restrictions have started to lift, I am planning walks in the dioceses in the Republic of Ireland. This “interval” (or should I call it a rest?) is timely as one of my daughters (the one who lives closest to me) is expecting her first baby, with a due date of this week, so I obviously want to be around home for a few weeks to offer whatever help I can.
The walks to date have all been super - I have walked in such a variety of places and in all weathers - rain, hail, sun and wind - and with members, old and new friends, local historians, Diocesan Presidents and Trustees, Diocesan Chaplains and other clergy, and even one Bishop (Andrew of Derry and Raphoe). I understand other Bishops (at least five of them) are planning to join me on future walks so I am looking forward to spending time also with them and explaining about the work undertaken through the MIM Fund across Ireland.
Over the past few weeks, when I have been walking away from my local area, I have had the privilege of meeting up with two former All Ireland Presidents and spending time chatting to them. The first was Margaret Crawford who was with us on the first walk I did in Clogher Diocese. I see Margaret from time to time and she never seems to change - either personally or in her enthusiasm for Mothers’ Union. The second was Thelma Mehaffy whom I haven’t encountered for many years. When I was undertaking the walk in L’derry City, with the approval of Thelma’s daughter, DP Jacqui suggested I might call with Thelma before I headed home that evening. I was delighted to be able to do so, especially as it was Thelma’s 89th birthday the following day. As they say, the “craic” was mighty and Thelma recalled so many things I had forgotten in the realms of MU.
Thelma was, in many ways, responsible for me taking a leadership role in MU in the first instance. In those distant days of the 1990s I was a young member rep in Down and Dromore but as AI President she insisted on me taking a key role in a conference she was organising - I was petrified, but apparently survived the ordeal and the result was many other MU paths gradually opened up for me. These two ladies - and so many other All Ireland Presidents over the years - have given of their time, energy, skills and knowledge to lead our members, to identify and nurture future leaders and to make Mothers’ Union in Ireland what it is today.
Last Sunday was Trinity Sunday and I had the privilege of being invited to preach - virtually of course - at the Festival Service for Cashel, Ferns and Ossory Diocese. Besides the conventional concept of the Trinity, I focussed on the trinity of the current MU Theme - “Rebuilding Hope and Confidence” and on how the power of the Holy Spirit abiding in each one of us will help us rebuild MU and our communities with hope and confidence after the pandemic. The Holy Spirit obviously worked with such power through all those former AI Presidents, and through our founder in Ireland, Annabella Hayes, of whom you will hear a lot more in the coming weeks as we celebrate the centenary of her death.
However, I will end now with verses from Romans Ch5, V 3-5 This is one of the readings for Trinity Sunday which I believe could - or should - be the mantra for Mothers’ Union members worldwide. Indeed, the verses reflect how so many people have managed to cope, and have actually gained extra personal strength, during the past fifteen months
“……. endurance produces character, and character produces hope,
and hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured
into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us.”
My prayer is that the Holy Spirit will continue to work through us all - in Mothers’ Union, in our parishes and communities, now and in the years to come
I will leave you with a lovely prayer which brings together the Trinity and that special Mothers’ Union theme for 2021.
Our hope and confidence is in you,
our loving Father;
you have opened the door of heaven
through your plan of salvation.
Our hope and confidence is in you,
our saviour, Jesus Christ;
you have paved the way for us to know
joyous relationship with God.
Our hope and confidence is in you,
our counsellor, Holy Spirit;
you have shined a light for us to see
the love of the Father and Son.
Thanks be to God,
for our sure and steadfast confidence,
for the Holy Spirit within us giving us
the hope in which we glory. Amen
MAUNDY MONEY RECIPIENT
Congratulations to Vi Breen, a member of Kinawley Parish Church, in the Diocese of Kilmore, who received the award of Maundy Money ahead of Maundy Thursday (April 1), following a nomination by the Bishop of Kilmore in recognition of her years of support for the church and community.
In normal circumstances, Vi, who is a loyal Mothers' Union member, would have travelled to Westminster for the service and would have met The Queen in person, but unfortunately due to Covid-19 restrictions this could not go ahead.
Vi received the gift via post, with an attached letter from Her Majesty.
In normal circumstances, Vi, who is a loyal Mothers' Union member, would have travelled to Westminster for the service and would have met The Queen in person, but unfortunately due to Covid-19 restrictions this could not go ahead.
Vi received the gift via post, with an attached letter from Her Majesty.
Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President ~ May 2021
Happy May Day members and friends!
I was thinking about the art of being positive when I was considering what I might write for the website this month and then, as it is the first day of May and we in Mothers’ Union are counting our blessings every day during this month, the calendar of blessings was sitting beside my computer and the verse for the first day jumped off the page at me! It is taken from that lovely old hymn by Johnson Oatman Jr. Even from his name you can guess that he was from the USA - in fact he was a Methodist evangelist from New Jersey who wrote many hymns but probably “Count Your Blessings” is his most famous. I imagine that as you read it you are humming the tune - it was composed by Edwin O Excell (what a wonderful name!)
When upon life’s billows you are tempest tossed,
When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost,
Count your many blessings, name them one by one,
And it will surprise you what the Lord has done.
I was thinking about the art of being positive when I was considering what I might write for the website this month and then, as it is the first day of May and we in Mothers’ Union are counting our blessings every day during this month, the calendar of blessings was sitting beside my computer and the verse for the first day jumped off the page at me! It is taken from that lovely old hymn by Johnson Oatman Jr. Even from his name you can guess that he was from the USA - in fact he was a Methodist evangelist from New Jersey who wrote many hymns but probably “Count Your Blessings” is his most famous. I imagine that as you read it you are humming the tune - it was composed by Edwin O Excell (what a wonderful name!)
When upon life’s billows you are tempest tossed,
When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost,
Count your many blessings, name them one by one,
And it will surprise you what the Lord has done.
Mr Oatman looks quite a formidable gentleman but he was obviously an optimist if he was able to put such wonderful thoughts into words.
I have always considered myself as a “glass half full” person. In that respect I emulated my father, whereas if my mother saw even a fluffy white cloud in the sky she would predict imminent rain! In the past few weeks there have been a few difficult issues - both personal and MU related - in my life but I have endeavoured to be positive and I have tried to put these matters in perspective among the great blessings in my life.
Sheran Harper the Worldwide President attended our recent Mothers’ Union All Ireland Council and after opening her time with us with wonderful prayers, she gave a stimulating address to Council members. She spoke about some of the overseas projects undertaken by MU members and praised us in Ireland for all our ongoing work with members and communities, and for our excellent record of fundraising. She spoke about those who are struggling at this time, especially with the restrictions and poverty brought about by the Covid pandemic. However she left us with the very optimistic words “God has got us. This too will pass!”
If you would like to hear Sheran’s address it is available on the MU YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZmE_bKgzE4&t=184s
As I’ve been walking to meet my personal challenge in order to raise sponsorship for the “Mums in May” Fund, I have been privileged to be joined on these 7km walks with other MU members and to “catch up” (socially distanced of course) with old friends. Also I have been lifted in spirits by finding out what they are doing in their dioceses to support our members and there is such optimism that, when the pandemic ends, we will be able to meet again as the MU we know and love and to be able to resume much of our outreach work in our churches and communities. Among our members there is a great deal of the hope and trust in the Lord that Sally speaks of in her reflection below.
As I walk, I thank God for my personal blessings and for the fact that we live in such wonderful surroundings all created by Him. In the past month I have walked in woods and wonderfully landscaped parks, by rivers, streams and loughs, and last week completed my first walk by the sea, along the north coast of N. Ireland and was able to gaze across to Co Donegal. I trust it will not be long before the restrictions ease and I can begin my series of walks in the dioceses in the Republic of Ireland.
I hope that this month you will use our MU “Count Your Blessings” template to do just that and I pray that it will help you, as understanding my blessings helps me, to realise how fortunate you are and help you shed some of your own worries as you think about the problems faced by others. Please too remember Johnson Oatman’s hymn and keep singing, as he tells us in the final verse:
Are you ever burdened with a load of care?
Does the cross seem heavy you are called to bear?
Count your many blessings, every doubt will fly,
And you will keep singing as the days go by.
God Bless
With love
June
I have always considered myself as a “glass half full” person. In that respect I emulated my father, whereas if my mother saw even a fluffy white cloud in the sky she would predict imminent rain! In the past few weeks there have been a few difficult issues - both personal and MU related - in my life but I have endeavoured to be positive and I have tried to put these matters in perspective among the great blessings in my life.
Sheran Harper the Worldwide President attended our recent Mothers’ Union All Ireland Council and after opening her time with us with wonderful prayers, she gave a stimulating address to Council members. She spoke about some of the overseas projects undertaken by MU members and praised us in Ireland for all our ongoing work with members and communities, and for our excellent record of fundraising. She spoke about those who are struggling at this time, especially with the restrictions and poverty brought about by the Covid pandemic. However she left us with the very optimistic words “God has got us. This too will pass!”
If you would like to hear Sheran’s address it is available on the MU YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZmE_bKgzE4&t=184s
As I’ve been walking to meet my personal challenge in order to raise sponsorship for the “Mums in May” Fund, I have been privileged to be joined on these 7km walks with other MU members and to “catch up” (socially distanced of course) with old friends. Also I have been lifted in spirits by finding out what they are doing in their dioceses to support our members and there is such optimism that, when the pandemic ends, we will be able to meet again as the MU we know and love and to be able to resume much of our outreach work in our churches and communities. Among our members there is a great deal of the hope and trust in the Lord that Sally speaks of in her reflection below.
As I walk, I thank God for my personal blessings and for the fact that we live in such wonderful surroundings all created by Him. In the past month I have walked in woods and wonderfully landscaped parks, by rivers, streams and loughs, and last week completed my first walk by the sea, along the north coast of N. Ireland and was able to gaze across to Co Donegal. I trust it will not be long before the restrictions ease and I can begin my series of walks in the dioceses in the Republic of Ireland.
I hope that this month you will use our MU “Count Your Blessings” template to do just that and I pray that it will help you, as understanding my blessings helps me, to realise how fortunate you are and help you shed some of your own worries as you think about the problems faced by others. Please too remember Johnson Oatman’s hymn and keep singing, as he tells us in the final verse:
Are you ever burdened with a load of care?
Does the cross seem heavy you are called to bear?
Count your many blessings, every doubt will fly,
And you will keep singing as the days go by.
God Bless
With love
June
THE MUMS IN MAY MASCOT - 'Archie'
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Reflection was prepared by Sally Cotter, Diocesan President of Connor.
Moving On
As sisters we walk hand in hand,
To spread the news throughout our land.
God loves you all and better still,
He’s promised that he always will.
Chorus: Moving on, moving on,
With hope in our hearts, we’ll go on.
From the old to the new,
As we put our trust in you
From north and south and east and west,
Each one united with the rest.
To bring God’s message loud and clear,
To trust in him and never fear.
As members of God’s family,
Our hope is that we all may see,
A future bright and free from pain,
And our whole land at peace again.
I wrote this hymn for the Mothers’ Union Millennium Journey in the year 2000. It’s hard to believe that this was 21 years ago! For those of you who don’t remember it, a core group of MU members travelled around Ireland, visiting each diocese. The journey began in Cork City on St Patrick’s Day where we took part in the parade. During the next two weeks, we visited every diocese in Ireland, attending many church services en route and taking part in a wide variety of events. Each day we were joined by lots of enthusiastic members and this hymn was sung at each location. The trip ended in Armagh Cathedral.
As I re-read the words of this little hymn I was struck by their relevance to our present situation. They remind us strongly of God’s continuing love for us in all aspects of our lives, in sorrow and in joy. In the midst of the pandemic, some of us may have wondered where God is, and why this has happened. But our God is a God of compassion who is always alongside in our suffering, using the talents of all those who are at the forefront of efforts to tackle the virus, watching over us and guiding the doctors and nurses, as well as medical researchers in all that they do. Their spirit and undaunted example remind us all to ‘Be strong and of good courage’.
The last verse speaks of hope – the hope that a vaccine has brought us, and yes the hope that we might see a future bright and free from pain. In the chorus we also have hope. Hope that we will be able to put these ‘old’ days behind us and rejoice in a new era where the pandemic will be forgotten. With the coming of summer, we trust that the ‘new’ times will be here. We will be able to meet with our friends and loved ones again, sharing the hugs which we all have missed.
The overall theme of the Millennium Journey was ‘hope’, just as in our MU Theme. Hope is more than a feeling, and it is more than just optimism. It is a feeling of expectation and desire, of trust. If we put our trust in God, we will be able to ‘move on’, safe in the knowledge of his unfailing love and protection.
As we read in Lamentations 3:22-24 “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. ‘The Lord is my portion,’ says my soul, ‘therefore I will hope in him.’
Moving On
As sisters we walk hand in hand,
To spread the news throughout our land.
God loves you all and better still,
He’s promised that he always will.
Chorus: Moving on, moving on,
With hope in our hearts, we’ll go on.
From the old to the new,
As we put our trust in you
From north and south and east and west,
Each one united with the rest.
To bring God’s message loud and clear,
To trust in him and never fear.
As members of God’s family,
Our hope is that we all may see,
A future bright and free from pain,
And our whole land at peace again.
I wrote this hymn for the Mothers’ Union Millennium Journey in the year 2000. It’s hard to believe that this was 21 years ago! For those of you who don’t remember it, a core group of MU members travelled around Ireland, visiting each diocese. The journey began in Cork City on St Patrick’s Day where we took part in the parade. During the next two weeks, we visited every diocese in Ireland, attending many church services en route and taking part in a wide variety of events. Each day we were joined by lots of enthusiastic members and this hymn was sung at each location. The trip ended in Armagh Cathedral.
As I re-read the words of this little hymn I was struck by their relevance to our present situation. They remind us strongly of God’s continuing love for us in all aspects of our lives, in sorrow and in joy. In the midst of the pandemic, some of us may have wondered where God is, and why this has happened. But our God is a God of compassion who is always alongside in our suffering, using the talents of all those who are at the forefront of efforts to tackle the virus, watching over us and guiding the doctors and nurses, as well as medical researchers in all that they do. Their spirit and undaunted example remind us all to ‘Be strong and of good courage’.
The last verse speaks of hope – the hope that a vaccine has brought us, and yes the hope that we might see a future bright and free from pain. In the chorus we also have hope. Hope that we will be able to put these ‘old’ days behind us and rejoice in a new era where the pandemic will be forgotten. With the coming of summer, we trust that the ‘new’ times will be here. We will be able to meet with our friends and loved ones again, sharing the hugs which we all have missed.
The overall theme of the Millennium Journey was ‘hope’, just as in our MU Theme. Hope is more than a feeling, and it is more than just optimism. It is a feeling of expectation and desire, of trust. If we put our trust in God, we will be able to ‘move on’, safe in the knowledge of his unfailing love and protection.
As we read in Lamentations 3:22-24 “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. ‘The Lord is my portion,’ says my soul, ‘therefore I will hope in him.’
Mothering Sunday Sunday 14th March 2021
The Mother's Union Mothering Sunday resources offer service ideas, crafts, sermons and prayers for your church or group. Resources are available suitable for all ages. Access all of these resources
The Mother's Union Mothering Sunday resources offer service ideas, crafts, sermons and prayers for your church or group. Resources are available suitable for all ages. Access all of these resources
RESULTS OF CHRISTMAS CARD COMPETITION
Congratulations and very well done to everyone who entered the Christmas Card Competition, the results of which you can see below.
Traditional Christmas Cards
Winner: Jackie Eastwood
Limerick & Killaloe
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Highly Commended: Mary Carter
Tuam, Killala & Achonry
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Highly Commended: Margaret Wilson
Armagh Diocese
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Religious Cards
Winner: Emily Kells
Clogher
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Highly Commended: Angela Kerr
Down & Dromore
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Highly Commended: Hazel Gumley
Kilmore, Elphin & Ardagh
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Christmas Card for a Child
Winner: Ethel Lonney
Cashel, Ferns, Ossory
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Highly Commended: Jackie Gardener
Limerick & Killaloe
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Highly Commended: Marjorie Bailey
Cashel, Ferns, Ossory
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FUNDRAISING FOR TEAM HOPE
Congratulations to Diocesan President Hazel Speares and Edna Smith who have completed their 1330km challenge to raise money for Team Hope’s Christmas Shoebox Appeal. An amazing €9,700 has been donated so far - this is going to give nearly 500 children a special gift this year probably the only Christmas present they will receive. Hazel and Edna have thanked everyone who contributed to the fundraising. What a fantastic achievement, well done!
OUTREACH PROJECT FOR CARE HOMES/HOSPITALS/HOMELESS/WOMEN'S REFUGE CENTRE
College View Nursing Home, Cavan were delighted to receive crochet blankets and fiddle muffs for use by the residents. The dementia residents got great enjoyment out of the fiddle muffs, keeping their hands active and busy which provide sensory stimulation and keeps the hands snug and warm at the same time. These gifts were very much appreciated.
Donation of tracksuit bottoms to Sleep Out Cavan for the homeless
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Mary Geelan distributing teddies for children being supported by Longford Women's Link Domestic Violence Support Service.
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Baby hats and socks for Cavan General Hospital from members in Virginia branch. Fiddle Muffs from Killeshandra Branch and Knee Rugs from Edgeworthstown Branch for Care Homes.
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Sophia Whyte, Swanlinbar/Kildallon branch presenting knee rugs, shoulder shawls and fiddle blankets to Oak View Nursing Home Belturbet as part of our Outreach Project.
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Mrs. Vida McCauley Virginia Branch leader is pictured delivering items to Sleepout Cavan for distribution to the homeless.
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Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President ~ December 2020
Dear Members and Friends of Mothers’ Union
We begin this Advent Season in a state of uncertainty and perhaps unease. That is the situation in which we have found ourselves since March 2020 and it is likely to continue for many months to come. However, in our own lives, and in the world of Mothers’ Union, we have learned new ways to cope in this Covid world……we have had to become more flexible, think about everyday matters in different ways, plan carefully rather than act instinctively, often adapt to new technology and, most importantly of all, we have learned to give more consideration to others and to count our many, many blessings. In every aspect of our lives we have faced upset and concern, but we have tried to provide comfort to others in loneliness, despair and loss - and sometimes we too have received such comfort and support from others.
However, as we move into Advent, we think about the hope which came to our world at Christmas with the birth of Jesus. This reflects the hope which has filtered to us all in recent weeks with the possibility of a vaccination to counter coronavirus. It also mirrors the theme for Mothers’ Union in 2021 - we will be rebuilding our hope and confidence in every aspect of our lives.
Within Mothers’ Union in Ireland in recent days we have been concentrating on our “16 days” campaign to highlight gender based violence and our special Prayer Diary, including bible readings and reflections, has been circulated among members and clergy and has been widely used at services and diocesan “on line” events. Our thanks to everyone seeking to highlight the many types of abuse which are perpetrated, to those who are actively supporting the victims of abuse and to all who have kindly donated money and goods to make their lives more tolerable. I also chair the central MU Advisory Committee on Policy and Advocacy and my hope for 2021 is to make significant progress - worldwide - towards campaigning against GBV on 365 days each year rather than our current focus on 16 days.
This Christmas season will be very different but we have to think positively: few of us may be able to attend services in church but we will be able to join many more services on line; some may not be able to be at their normal family celebrations but the love which permeates their family will not be diminished; some in our communities may feel lonely or distressed but we should all make an effort to think about who might be feeling this way and do something - however small - to bring some comfort into their lives.
This is the season of hope and God gave us all hope through the birth of His son, Jesus in whom we must put our trust for the future - not only for ourselves and our families, but for all communities and for Mothers’ Union to be able to survive and to thrive after such a turbulent year in 2020.
My prayer for everyone is that we may all be prepared for the future as well as for Christmas (this is the theme of the reflection kindly prepared for us by the Primate) that that we all may be filled with the wonder of Mary, the obedience of Joseph, the joy of the angels, the eagerness of the shepherds, the determination of the Kings, the peace of the Christ Child and the hope which he brought to this world.
With love and every good wish for a blessed Christmas and for health and happiness in 2021.
June
We begin this Advent Season in a state of uncertainty and perhaps unease. That is the situation in which we have found ourselves since March 2020 and it is likely to continue for many months to come. However, in our own lives, and in the world of Mothers’ Union, we have learned new ways to cope in this Covid world……we have had to become more flexible, think about everyday matters in different ways, plan carefully rather than act instinctively, often adapt to new technology and, most importantly of all, we have learned to give more consideration to others and to count our many, many blessings. In every aspect of our lives we have faced upset and concern, but we have tried to provide comfort to others in loneliness, despair and loss - and sometimes we too have received such comfort and support from others.
However, as we move into Advent, we think about the hope which came to our world at Christmas with the birth of Jesus. This reflects the hope which has filtered to us all in recent weeks with the possibility of a vaccination to counter coronavirus. It also mirrors the theme for Mothers’ Union in 2021 - we will be rebuilding our hope and confidence in every aspect of our lives.
Within Mothers’ Union in Ireland in recent days we have been concentrating on our “16 days” campaign to highlight gender based violence and our special Prayer Diary, including bible readings and reflections, has been circulated among members and clergy and has been widely used at services and diocesan “on line” events. Our thanks to everyone seeking to highlight the many types of abuse which are perpetrated, to those who are actively supporting the victims of abuse and to all who have kindly donated money and goods to make their lives more tolerable. I also chair the central MU Advisory Committee on Policy and Advocacy and my hope for 2021 is to make significant progress - worldwide - towards campaigning against GBV on 365 days each year rather than our current focus on 16 days.
This Christmas season will be very different but we have to think positively: few of us may be able to attend services in church but we will be able to join many more services on line; some may not be able to be at their normal family celebrations but the love which permeates their family will not be diminished; some in our communities may feel lonely or distressed but we should all make an effort to think about who might be feeling this way and do something - however small - to bring some comfort into their lives.
This is the season of hope and God gave us all hope through the birth of His son, Jesus in whom we must put our trust for the future - not only for ourselves and our families, but for all communities and for Mothers’ Union to be able to survive and to thrive after such a turbulent year in 2020.
My prayer for everyone is that we may all be prepared for the future as well as for Christmas (this is the theme of the reflection kindly prepared for us by the Primate) that that we all may be filled with the wonder of Mary, the obedience of Joseph, the joy of the angels, the eagerness of the shepherds, the determination of the Kings, the peace of the Christ Child and the hope which he brought to this world.
With love and every good wish for a blessed Christmas and for health and happiness in 2021.
June
REFLECTION BY HAZEL SPEARES - DIOCESAN PRESIDENT
Many of us turn to the Psalms in times of trouble, pain, sorrow and grief. I have really enjoyed listening to the many wonderful online reflections based on the Psalms from bishops and clergy during the past number of months. The best known one of course is Psalm 23. This psalm encourages us to praise God even when we feel down, to replace despair with hope and fear with faith. It reminds us that we have much to be thankful for. (Look around you at the beauty of nature and creation during this harvest season!). Even as we walk through the unfamiliar valley of this global pandemic, Psalm 23 assures us of God’s guidance, protection and great hope as He works His purposes out in our lives. A friend gave me the following reflection many years ago and I still love it! It says so much about our loving heavenly Father.
“The Lord is my Shepherd – That’s relationship!
I shall not want – That’s supply!
He maketh me lie down in green pasture – That’s rest!
He leadeth me beside still waters – That’s refreshment!
He restoreth my soul – That’s healing!
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness – That’s guidance!
For His name’s sake – That’s purpose!
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death – That’s testing!
I will fear no evil –That’s protection!
For Thou art with me – That’s faithfulness!
Thy rod and thy staff they comfort me - That’s discipline!
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies – That’s hope!
Thou anointest my head with oil – That’s consecration!
My cup runneth over – That’s abundance!
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life –That’s blessing!
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord! – That’s security!
Forever – That’s eternity!”
(Author unknown)
Friends, may you be blessed by trusting God’s Word and putting your faith in Him. Fill your hearts with thankfulness and know God’s love and protection each day.
Hazel
“The Lord is my Shepherd – That’s relationship!
I shall not want – That’s supply!
He maketh me lie down in green pasture – That’s rest!
He leadeth me beside still waters – That’s refreshment!
He restoreth my soul – That’s healing!
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness – That’s guidance!
For His name’s sake – That’s purpose!
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death – That’s testing!
I will fear no evil –That’s protection!
For Thou art with me – That’s faithfulness!
Thy rod and thy staff they comfort me - That’s discipline!
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies – That’s hope!
Thou anointest my head with oil – That’s consecration!
My cup runneth over – That’s abundance!
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life –That’s blessing!
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord! – That’s security!
Forever – That’s eternity!”
(Author unknown)
Friends, may you be blessed by trusting God’s Word and putting your faith in Him. Fill your hearts with thankfulness and know God’s love and protection each day.
Hazel
Rebuilding Hope and Confidence Living with Covid-19
Zoom Breakfast ~ Saturday 6th February 2021
The proposed "Women's Getaway" which was planned for 5th - 6th February 2021 in the Springfield Hotel in Leixlip has been cancelled due to ongoing concerns as to how it can be safely organised with the ongoing restrictions to try and stem the spread of Covid-19. The organising committee instead has planned a "Zoom Breakfast" for Saturday 6th February.
further information will follow as to how you can register for the event.
The planned schedule for the morning is as follows:
Zoom Breakfast ~ Saturday 6th February 2021
The proposed "Women's Getaway" which was planned for 5th - 6th February 2021 in the Springfield Hotel in Leixlip has been cancelled due to ongoing concerns as to how it can be safely organised with the ongoing restrictions to try and stem the spread of Covid-19. The organising committee instead has planned a "Zoom Breakfast" for Saturday 6th February.
further information will follow as to how you can register for the event.
The planned schedule for the morning is as follows:
- 10.00a.m. - 10.15a.m. ~ Welcome
- 10.15a.m. - 10.45a.m. ~ Speaker - Lydia Monds
- 10.45a.m. - 11.00a.m. ~ Activity
- 11.00a.m - 11.15a.m. ~ Comfort Break
- 11.15a.m. - 11.45a.m. ~ Speaker - Karen Grey
- 12.00p.m. - 12.30p.m. ~ Midday Prayers including Annabelle Hayes Celebration
Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President ~ November 2020
Hello members and friends of Mothers’ Union
I am writing this on All Saint’s Day and one of the collects for today resonates perfectly with what I had planned to tell you. Let me begin with this really meaningful prayer:
Almighty and eternal God,
you have kindled the flame of love in the hearts of the saints:
Grant to us the same faith and power of love,
that, as we rejoice in their triumphs,
we may be sustained by their example and fellowship;
through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen
Most recognised saints have shown a deep love for God by through their actions and lives while on earth and most of us will have been inspired at some point by at least one saint. As a child I loved the stories of St. Francis of Assisi who is the Patron Saint of animals. Nowadays I gather he is also thought of as the patron saint of the environment because of his love for all God’s creation and is being viewed as the original “Earth Day advocate”. I wonder how he would have approached the environmental issues we have to-day?
However, it is the same flame of love kindled by God, permeating the lives of the saints, which is also in all our lives and this was the theme of the Global Gathering of leaders of Mothers’ Union worldwide which took place - by zoom of course - last week. There were over 60 of us connected in wonderful worship and fellowship for nearly three hours - mostly those who had attended the Worldwide Council in Kigali last June with a few new provincial presidents and some of the former Worldwide Presidents, including our own Lady Eames. Iris Suitor and I again represented All Ireland.
There was an inspirational opening address by Sheran Harper, our WW President; a service of prayer, praise and thanksgiving led by Rev Canon Libbie Crossman, the Zonal Trustee from Australia, including her short reflection on the theme of God’s love, and a final short reflection and blessing given by the MU Central Chaplain, Bishop Emma Ineson; we watched a slide show which celebrated memories of our time in Kigali and the work and journey MU had undertaken during the Covid-19 pandemic (including quite a few slides showing our wonderful work in Ireland); through “breakout rooms”, we met, shared and continued to support each other in the family and zonal groups which had been formed in Kigali; and the morning ended with a final session focussing on looking to the future as MU tries to rebuild hope and confidence.
The underlying theme of the “conference” was God’s love for us all and a line from one of the prayers has stayed in my head ever since - “let us live each day in love to one another and to you”. In these very difficult times, as we come to terms with loss - the loss of regular contact with family and friends, of church services as we knew them, of the death of friends or family and not being able to grieve in the usual ways, of not holding our Mothers’ Union branch meetings and services, of not being able to do things in the “normal” way - let us not lose sight of the power of love - of God’s love for us, of the enduring love of family and friends and of our love for them.
May we be sustained by the example of the saints and their love, and I would remind you that saints are found in every walk of life. Mother Theresa, echoing the message of Jesus, stated that all of us are called to be saints.
I think that many of those currently working to alleviate the suffering of victims of gender-based violence are saints in our lifetime. We know from recent statistics that domestic abuse has increased to such an extent during the Covid-19 lockdown that it has become known as the “second pandemic”. Mothers’ Union members in Ireland are working with established refuges to provide essentials to the mothers and children who flee their homes to shelter there and then supply basic “starter packs” when they are allocated housing.
However, we are also trying to heighten awareness of the evils of domestic abuse - whether that is physical, psychological, or financial - and again this year are focussing on the “16 days of activism against gender violence”. Before I pass you over to Jacqui Armstrong (Diocesan President of Derry and Raphoe) who has written this month’s poignant reflection, on behalf of all the members in Ireland I would like to thank Jacqui for the time and effort she has put into preparing the 16 Days Prayer Diary. This excellent resource has been published by MU with financial support from the Church of Ireland Priorities Fund and the Council for Mission and our thanks also to them. A copy of the prayer diary will be sent to every MU member in Ireland and to all the clergy before the 16 days begin on 25 November. You can also download it from this website so please do read it each day, pray as suggested and act - and thus provide support and, of course, love for those who are, or have been, subjected to such violence.
With my love to you all
June
I Received Flowers
Today I received flowers!
It’s not my birthday or any other special day;
we had our first fight last night,
he said some cruel things to me that really offended me.
But I know he’s sorry and didn’t mean what he said,
because today he sent me flowers.
It’s not our anniversary or any other special day.
Yesterday he threw me against the wall and started suffocating me.
It was like a nightmare, but we wake up from
nightmares and discover that they are not real.
Today I woke up full of pain and with bruises all over my body.
But I know he’s sorry
because today he sent me flowers.
And it’s not Valentine’s Day or any other special day.
Last night he hit me and threatened to kill me.
Neither the make-up nor the long sleeves could hide
the cuts and bruises that I suffered this time.
I couldn’t go to work today,
because I didn’t want anyone to notice.
But I know he’s sorry
because today he sent me flowers.
And it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day.
Last night he hit me again, but this time it was much worse.
If I manage to leave him, what would I do?
How could I bring up my children on my own?
What will happen if the money runs out?
I’m so frightened of him!
But I depend on him so much that I am afraid to leave him.
But I know he’s sorry,
because today he sent me flowers.
Today is a very special day: it is the day of my funeral.
Yesterday he finally managed to kill me.
He hit me until I died.
If only I had had the courage and the strength to leave him…
If only I had asked for professional help…
I wouldn’t be receiving flowers today!
(Translation of ‘Hoje Recebi Flores’, author unknown, Brazil, Christian Aid: Loving One Another, p17)
Two days before our very first Vigil in November 2105 I received a phone call from BBC Radio Foyle. An elderly lady had read notices in windows regarding the 16 Days Prayer Vigil. She had rung Radio Foyle to urge them to advertise the event and encourage people to come along.
The lady herself had a remarkable story to tell and a reporter had been dispatched to her home to tape her story. Could I possibly come to the studio for 8am as they would like me to sit in on her recorded interview before speaking about the 16 Days Prayer Vigil in the lead up to the 8.30am news bulletin. Prime radio time – a nerve wracking opportunity not to be missed!
I sat aghast and fought back the tears as Bridie’s horrific story unfolded – she had sat at her daughter’s bedside for three full days, and watched her life ebb away. Her son-in-law had been arrested on suspicion of murder. The attack had been gruesome and the injuries horrendous. Months later, after the trial, shards of her skull were returned to the family for burial.
As her story finished the presenter invited me to respond to the story. To this day the rest of that interview is a blur, but I do know that, in the intervening years, when I have been tempted to take short cuts or become despondent in our quest to tackle the scourge of domestic violence and gender-based violence, Bridie’s words echo, tears well up and I have the renewed resolve and determination to carry on. It is a journey that no victim, no family should ever have to undertake.
Actions speak louder than words, and whilst each action we take may appear a drop in the ocean, the ocean gradually fills. As Christians there is no room for complacency. It is God’s desire for each one of us to flourish in His world, to spread His word and act in love.
Both women and men, can be victims of domestic abuse. Yet, statistics confirm that there is a disproportionate level of abuse against women with 1 in 3 women and girls worldwide expected to experience abuse in their lifetime. The most violent domestic abuse is against women.
God created human beings in his own image. Genesis 1:27
We are equal in his sight, and as a body of people with Christian values we can undertake to reverse the trends in domestic abuse. Together we can reflect, converse and act, in tackling the societal and cultural norms in our society, having conversations about mutual respect, cultural attitudes, revisiting and helping to rebuild lives through understanding and practical support.
We started our journey seven years ago responding in prayer and reflection. Each year our actions have increased, and we have established meaningful links within each diocese. We have a lot to be thankful for, and we hope and pray that our journey through the 16 Days with the 16 Days Prayer Diary at our side, will equip us with God’s good grace, inform us and empower us with each step to act justly, love mercy and to walk humbly with our God (Micah 6:8).
In 2020 there has been a huge increase in the incidence of reported domestic abuse across the island.
May the God of hope equip us with all we need to pursue justice through the power of Jesus Christ.
All glory to him forever and ever! Amen
Hello members and friends of Mothers’ Union
I am writing this on All Saint’s Day and one of the collects for today resonates perfectly with what I had planned to tell you. Let me begin with this really meaningful prayer:
Almighty and eternal God,
you have kindled the flame of love in the hearts of the saints:
Grant to us the same faith and power of love,
that, as we rejoice in their triumphs,
we may be sustained by their example and fellowship;
through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen
Most recognised saints have shown a deep love for God by through their actions and lives while on earth and most of us will have been inspired at some point by at least one saint. As a child I loved the stories of St. Francis of Assisi who is the Patron Saint of animals. Nowadays I gather he is also thought of as the patron saint of the environment because of his love for all God’s creation and is being viewed as the original “Earth Day advocate”. I wonder how he would have approached the environmental issues we have to-day?
However, it is the same flame of love kindled by God, permeating the lives of the saints, which is also in all our lives and this was the theme of the Global Gathering of leaders of Mothers’ Union worldwide which took place - by zoom of course - last week. There were over 60 of us connected in wonderful worship and fellowship for nearly three hours - mostly those who had attended the Worldwide Council in Kigali last June with a few new provincial presidents and some of the former Worldwide Presidents, including our own Lady Eames. Iris Suitor and I again represented All Ireland.
There was an inspirational opening address by Sheran Harper, our WW President; a service of prayer, praise and thanksgiving led by Rev Canon Libbie Crossman, the Zonal Trustee from Australia, including her short reflection on the theme of God’s love, and a final short reflection and blessing given by the MU Central Chaplain, Bishop Emma Ineson; we watched a slide show which celebrated memories of our time in Kigali and the work and journey MU had undertaken during the Covid-19 pandemic (including quite a few slides showing our wonderful work in Ireland); through “breakout rooms”, we met, shared and continued to support each other in the family and zonal groups which had been formed in Kigali; and the morning ended with a final session focussing on looking to the future as MU tries to rebuild hope and confidence.
The underlying theme of the “conference” was God’s love for us all and a line from one of the prayers has stayed in my head ever since - “let us live each day in love to one another and to you”. In these very difficult times, as we come to terms with loss - the loss of regular contact with family and friends, of church services as we knew them, of the death of friends or family and not being able to grieve in the usual ways, of not holding our Mothers’ Union branch meetings and services, of not being able to do things in the “normal” way - let us not lose sight of the power of love - of God’s love for us, of the enduring love of family and friends and of our love for them.
May we be sustained by the example of the saints and their love, and I would remind you that saints are found in every walk of life. Mother Theresa, echoing the message of Jesus, stated that all of us are called to be saints.
I think that many of those currently working to alleviate the suffering of victims of gender-based violence are saints in our lifetime. We know from recent statistics that domestic abuse has increased to such an extent during the Covid-19 lockdown that it has become known as the “second pandemic”. Mothers’ Union members in Ireland are working with established refuges to provide essentials to the mothers and children who flee their homes to shelter there and then supply basic “starter packs” when they are allocated housing.
However, we are also trying to heighten awareness of the evils of domestic abuse - whether that is physical, psychological, or financial - and again this year are focussing on the “16 days of activism against gender violence”. Before I pass you over to Jacqui Armstrong (Diocesan President of Derry and Raphoe) who has written this month’s poignant reflection, on behalf of all the members in Ireland I would like to thank Jacqui for the time and effort she has put into preparing the 16 Days Prayer Diary. This excellent resource has been published by MU with financial support from the Church of Ireland Priorities Fund and the Council for Mission and our thanks also to them. A copy of the prayer diary will be sent to every MU member in Ireland and to all the clergy before the 16 days begin on 25 November. You can also download it from this website so please do read it each day, pray as suggested and act - and thus provide support and, of course, love for those who are, or have been, subjected to such violence.
With my love to you all
June
I Received Flowers
Today I received flowers!
It’s not my birthday or any other special day;
we had our first fight last night,
he said some cruel things to me that really offended me.
But I know he’s sorry and didn’t mean what he said,
because today he sent me flowers.
It’s not our anniversary or any other special day.
Yesterday he threw me against the wall and started suffocating me.
It was like a nightmare, but we wake up from
nightmares and discover that they are not real.
Today I woke up full of pain and with bruises all over my body.
But I know he’s sorry
because today he sent me flowers.
And it’s not Valentine’s Day or any other special day.
Last night he hit me and threatened to kill me.
Neither the make-up nor the long sleeves could hide
the cuts and bruises that I suffered this time.
I couldn’t go to work today,
because I didn’t want anyone to notice.
But I know he’s sorry
because today he sent me flowers.
And it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day.
Last night he hit me again, but this time it was much worse.
If I manage to leave him, what would I do?
How could I bring up my children on my own?
What will happen if the money runs out?
I’m so frightened of him!
But I depend on him so much that I am afraid to leave him.
But I know he’s sorry,
because today he sent me flowers.
Today is a very special day: it is the day of my funeral.
Yesterday he finally managed to kill me.
He hit me until I died.
If only I had had the courage and the strength to leave him…
If only I had asked for professional help…
I wouldn’t be receiving flowers today!
(Translation of ‘Hoje Recebi Flores’, author unknown, Brazil, Christian Aid: Loving One Another, p17)
Two days before our very first Vigil in November 2105 I received a phone call from BBC Radio Foyle. An elderly lady had read notices in windows regarding the 16 Days Prayer Vigil. She had rung Radio Foyle to urge them to advertise the event and encourage people to come along.
The lady herself had a remarkable story to tell and a reporter had been dispatched to her home to tape her story. Could I possibly come to the studio for 8am as they would like me to sit in on her recorded interview before speaking about the 16 Days Prayer Vigil in the lead up to the 8.30am news bulletin. Prime radio time – a nerve wracking opportunity not to be missed!
I sat aghast and fought back the tears as Bridie’s horrific story unfolded – she had sat at her daughter’s bedside for three full days, and watched her life ebb away. Her son-in-law had been arrested on suspicion of murder. The attack had been gruesome and the injuries horrendous. Months later, after the trial, shards of her skull were returned to the family for burial.
As her story finished the presenter invited me to respond to the story. To this day the rest of that interview is a blur, but I do know that, in the intervening years, when I have been tempted to take short cuts or become despondent in our quest to tackle the scourge of domestic violence and gender-based violence, Bridie’s words echo, tears well up and I have the renewed resolve and determination to carry on. It is a journey that no victim, no family should ever have to undertake.
Actions speak louder than words, and whilst each action we take may appear a drop in the ocean, the ocean gradually fills. As Christians there is no room for complacency. It is God’s desire for each one of us to flourish in His world, to spread His word and act in love.
Both women and men, can be victims of domestic abuse. Yet, statistics confirm that there is a disproportionate level of abuse against women with 1 in 3 women and girls worldwide expected to experience abuse in their lifetime. The most violent domestic abuse is against women.
God created human beings in his own image. Genesis 1:27
We are equal in his sight, and as a body of people with Christian values we can undertake to reverse the trends in domestic abuse. Together we can reflect, converse and act, in tackling the societal and cultural norms in our society, having conversations about mutual respect, cultural attitudes, revisiting and helping to rebuild lives through understanding and practical support.
We started our journey seven years ago responding in prayer and reflection. Each year our actions have increased, and we have established meaningful links within each diocese. We have a lot to be thankful for, and we hope and pray that our journey through the 16 Days with the 16 Days Prayer Diary at our side, will equip us with God’s good grace, inform us and empower us with each step to act justly, love mercy and to walk humbly with our God (Micah 6:8).
In 2020 there has been a huge increase in the incidence of reported domestic abuse across the island.
May the God of hope equip us with all we need to pursue justice through the power of Jesus Christ.
All glory to him forever and ever! Amen
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Letter from June ~ All-Ireland President
Hello to all our members and friends,
This month we are resuming the lovely and meaningful reflections prepared by those on our Mothers’ Union All Ireland Trustee Board so I will keep my opening piece (relatively) short.
I love autumn with its rich colours and crisp mornings and have recently walked in the grounds of several National Trust properties, close to my home, where the leaves are beginning to turn colour. So beautiful - especially with the sun shining through the trees - and I find such walks calming and quite therapeutic. We are so fortunate in Ireland to have so many wonderful landscapes on our doorstep and although we often complain about our weather (yes, the rain this week was somewhat excessive!) we are blessed with balanced seasons which provide the rhythm to our lives.
So, as we move into autumn - and the image of last night’s glorious “harvest moon” will remain with me for a very long time - we must count our blessings. Some may say that this is difficult in these unprecedented times, especially as we seem to be moving unto another “spike” of Covid-19, but we will get through this - on a personal level, on a national level, even worldwide. What we thought was normal may never fully return, but we who have faith in Our Lord will hold strong to that faith and know that we will come through this pandemic. We will be stronger and will have taken a different perspective on our everyday lives. I know I certainly am appreciating more the kindness of others and the quality of any permitted, limited contact with friends and family.
My Mothers’ Union focus during the last month has been on money (nothing new there!), gender-based violence (working with the newly formed central Community of Interest progressing our work and advocacy in this area) and promoting ways to keep dioceses and branches engaged with members who cannot currently meet together. Each Diocesan President will be considering what connections they will be able to make in their own area and I do hope and pray that all our members will feel supported by their leaders. If there is any way that you, as a member, think we could improve the ways we maintain connections with you, please do email us at [email protected]
During September we said farewell to Jane Grindle who has been our Administrator based in the office in St Michan’s for many years. She decided that it was an appropriate time to progress her career beyond MU but we will all miss her and her calm, efficient way of dealing with everything which crossed her path. However, we are not losing her from Mothers’ Union as she will still be a diocesan member in the Diocese of Dublin and Glendalough I am certain that you will all join with me and the AI Trustees in wishing Jane and her family God’s richest blessings for the future.
Another person who is leaving our circle of work colleagues is Karen Bushby who, since joining the C of I Gazette, has been a great advocate for Mothers’ Union. She initiated the MU page in the magazine each month and it has been a great privilege for me to liaise with her as she too sought to promote a very positive image MU throughout Ireland. Thank you, Karen. Her successor, Emma Blain, is actually a Mothers’ union member and she has assured me that our monthly page in The Gazette will continue.
Finally, can I just congratulate the winners, Olive Thorpe and Valerie Reilly, and all those members whose poems were commended in our recent poetry competition. What talent we have hiding in our branches! All 19 poems will be placed on our website over the coming weeks so please do read and enjoy them - many different and moving thoughts about life in lockdown. There will be another competition announced shortly so please watch this space!
Below is the reflection prepared by Hazel Speares, Diocesan President of Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh. Psalm 23 has always been one of my favourites and Hazel’s words have certainly given me a different perspective on it. Please appreciate her words and be thankful that we are in our Father’s hands, this day and always.
With love and every blessing
June
This month we are resuming the lovely and meaningful reflections prepared by those on our Mothers’ Union All Ireland Trustee Board so I will keep my opening piece (relatively) short.
I love autumn with its rich colours and crisp mornings and have recently walked in the grounds of several National Trust properties, close to my home, where the leaves are beginning to turn colour. So beautiful - especially with the sun shining through the trees - and I find such walks calming and quite therapeutic. We are so fortunate in Ireland to have so many wonderful landscapes on our doorstep and although we often complain about our weather (yes, the rain this week was somewhat excessive!) we are blessed with balanced seasons which provide the rhythm to our lives.
So, as we move into autumn - and the image of last night’s glorious “harvest moon” will remain with me for a very long time - we must count our blessings. Some may say that this is difficult in these unprecedented times, especially as we seem to be moving unto another “spike” of Covid-19, but we will get through this - on a personal level, on a national level, even worldwide. What we thought was normal may never fully return, but we who have faith in Our Lord will hold strong to that faith and know that we will come through this pandemic. We will be stronger and will have taken a different perspective on our everyday lives. I know I certainly am appreciating more the kindness of others and the quality of any permitted, limited contact with friends and family.
My Mothers’ Union focus during the last month has been on money (nothing new there!), gender-based violence (working with the newly formed central Community of Interest progressing our work and advocacy in this area) and promoting ways to keep dioceses and branches engaged with members who cannot currently meet together. Each Diocesan President will be considering what connections they will be able to make in their own area and I do hope and pray that all our members will feel supported by their leaders. If there is any way that you, as a member, think we could improve the ways we maintain connections with you, please do email us at [email protected]
During September we said farewell to Jane Grindle who has been our Administrator based in the office in St Michan’s for many years. She decided that it was an appropriate time to progress her career beyond MU but we will all miss her and her calm, efficient way of dealing with everything which crossed her path. However, we are not losing her from Mothers’ Union as she will still be a diocesan member in the Diocese of Dublin and Glendalough I am certain that you will all join with me and the AI Trustees in wishing Jane and her family God’s richest blessings for the future.
Another person who is leaving our circle of work colleagues is Karen Bushby who, since joining the C of I Gazette, has been a great advocate for Mothers’ Union. She initiated the MU page in the magazine each month and it has been a great privilege for me to liaise with her as she too sought to promote a very positive image MU throughout Ireland. Thank you, Karen. Her successor, Emma Blain, is actually a Mothers’ union member and she has assured me that our monthly page in The Gazette will continue.
Finally, can I just congratulate the winners, Olive Thorpe and Valerie Reilly, and all those members whose poems were commended in our recent poetry competition. What talent we have hiding in our branches! All 19 poems will be placed on our website over the coming weeks so please do read and enjoy them - many different and moving thoughts about life in lockdown. There will be another competition announced shortly so please watch this space!
Below is the reflection prepared by Hazel Speares, Diocesan President of Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh. Psalm 23 has always been one of my favourites and Hazel’s words have certainly given me a different perspective on it. Please appreciate her words and be thankful that we are in our Father’s hands, this day and always.
With love and every blessing
June
All-Ireland Mothers’ Union Poetry Competition Results
WINNING POEMS (in alphabetical order)
Blue Hands
Olive Thorpe, New Ross /Fethard-on-Sea MU, Cashel, Ferns & Ossory
Dislocation
Valerie Reilly, Belfast Cathedral MU, Connor
Highly Commended Poems (in alphabetical order)
· A Mothers’ Union Poem for COVID - Irene Hewitt, Templemore MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Be Careful What You Wish For - Margaret Hanthorne, Derriaghy MU, Connor
· Blackbird - Margaret Rowlandson, Templemore MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Footprints - Betty McLaughlin, Holywood MU, Down and Dromore
· Moments in Time - Jean Stephens, Drumachose MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Swapping a Wedding for Weeding - Phyllis Young, Inver MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Zooming Through Covid - Moira Thom, Christ Church Lisburn MU, Connor
Commended Poems (in alphabetical order)
· A Penny Tale - Geraldine Crothers, Holywood MU, Down and Dromore
· Covid - Irene Hewitt, Templemore MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Covid Times – A Limerick - Joan Blake, Ballycanew/ Leskinfere/ Monamolin MU,
Cashel, Ferns & Ossory
· Covid Times - What a Shock 2020 - Georgina E. Byrne, Gorey/Hollyfort MU,
Cashel, Ferns & Ossory
· In Lockdown - Gladys O’Neill, St.Mark's MU , Dundela, Down & Dromore
· Lockdown! - Phyllis Young, Inver MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Lockdown Birthday! 2020 - Violet McIlvenna, Maghera and Upperlands MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Memories of Lockdown - Irene McGonigle, Donagheady MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Survivors of Lockdown - Vi Breen, Swanlinbar MU, Kilmore, Elphin & Ardagh
· The Ups and Downs of COVID 19 - Margaret Sides, Edgeworthstown MU, Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh
FOOTPRINTS
Covid times have been hard to bear, staying at home and not able to share.
But after Lockdown, out I go, taking it easy, taking it slow.
Mask at the ready, worried, unsure -
until I see footprints on the shop floor.
Why should these footprints on which I stand
make me feel safe and make me feel calm?
Then I recall a poem with the wonderful story,
telling of our Lord and His glory
of two sets of footprints on an outgoing tide
belonging to people walking on sand side by side.
One pair belongs to the Lord and the other to a person
who finds companionship that is for certain,
but when only one set of footprints is seen
where before there were two sets had originally been
it is said this is when the Lord carries you on his back
to help in times of trouble and get you right on track.
So remember dear friends in this time of uncertainty and danger
of the one long ago who was born in a manger.
So follow the one set of footprints in shop or were found
Knowing that you are being kept safe and sound
as the Lord carries your burdens and guides your way
In the knowledge you won’t stumble or stray.
Kept safe in His love and assurance for ever
As we keep those bonds which we will not sever.
Betty McLaughlin ~ Holywood MU, Down and Dromore ~ Highly Commended
What is this life if full of care
We have no time to stand and stare.
W.H. Davies 1871-1940
MOMENTS IN TIME
It came like a thief in the night
Silent and deadly to give us all a fright
‘Over Seventies’ stay indoors, keep a low face
Cocooned like a butterfly chrysalis, warm and safe.
TIME to watch the leaves unfurl and blossoming flowers to see.
TIME to observe an artistic spider spin its intricate web, just for me.
TIME to absorb the silence and stillness, to do so is so rare,
Until the blackbird’s sweet song penetrates the dewy air.
TIME to witness the beauty of a sunrise peeping over the hill
And see a glowing cat tiptoe the ‘high wire’ at its will.
TIME to think of days gone by
Some of the memories make me want to cry.
A broken, war worn Father returns from the cruel sea
With bright shining medals for us to see.
With ration books and hand me downs, recycling as they call it now!
My darling mother worked day and night to keep us well, I don’t know how.
TIME to remember as an eighteen year old
On a blind date my future husband to behold.
Married fifty four years, once poor as church mice
But love kept us going, we wouldn’t think twice.
TIME to think of our darling family living over the brine,
We have not embraced since last Christmas time.
TIME to pray daily for the heroes, the sad and the kind
For God is my strength and refuge, what ever I find.
Jean Stephens ~ Drumachose MU, Derry & Raphoe ~ Highly Commended
SWAPPING A WEDDING FOR WEEDING
It’s my last day at work and there’s the break bell
A quick call from New York – they’ve arrived safe and well
But ‘Breaking News’ now and they’re closing the school
The kids are delighted – ‘We’re off early, that’s cool!’
My heart sinks down deep – is this the start of it all?
The flights?! The Wedding?! Wait for the hammer to fall??
They’re stranded abroad – can’t get any flights home
New York’s streets near empty as they wander alone
Flights eventually found and to the airport they speed
‘Please keep them all well’ is the prayer that I plead
The Wedding’s forgotten – just get home safe and sound
It’s strange how quickly new priorities are found!
They’re in isolation now for two weeks – to be sure
And the country’s in ‘Lockdown’ without a quick cure
The numbers keep rising and the outlook is bleak
They say on the news reports week after week
But the weather is wonderful so my husband and I
Spend our days in the sunshine doing job we’ve ‘let lay’
So on the date of the ‘Wedding’ and those painstaking plans
We instead weed the garden on our knees and our hands
Phyllis Young, ~ Inver MU, Derry & Raphoe ~ Highly Commended
WINNING POEMS (in alphabetical order)
Blue Hands
Olive Thorpe, New Ross /Fethard-on-Sea MU, Cashel, Ferns & Ossory
Dislocation
Valerie Reilly, Belfast Cathedral MU, Connor
Highly Commended Poems (in alphabetical order)
· A Mothers’ Union Poem for COVID - Irene Hewitt, Templemore MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Be Careful What You Wish For - Margaret Hanthorne, Derriaghy MU, Connor
· Blackbird - Margaret Rowlandson, Templemore MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Footprints - Betty McLaughlin, Holywood MU, Down and Dromore
· Moments in Time - Jean Stephens, Drumachose MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Swapping a Wedding for Weeding - Phyllis Young, Inver MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Zooming Through Covid - Moira Thom, Christ Church Lisburn MU, Connor
Commended Poems (in alphabetical order)
· A Penny Tale - Geraldine Crothers, Holywood MU, Down and Dromore
· Covid - Irene Hewitt, Templemore MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Covid Times – A Limerick - Joan Blake, Ballycanew/ Leskinfere/ Monamolin MU,
Cashel, Ferns & Ossory
· Covid Times - What a Shock 2020 - Georgina E. Byrne, Gorey/Hollyfort MU,
Cashel, Ferns & Ossory
· In Lockdown - Gladys O’Neill, St.Mark's MU , Dundela, Down & Dromore
· Lockdown! - Phyllis Young, Inver MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Lockdown Birthday! 2020 - Violet McIlvenna, Maghera and Upperlands MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Memories of Lockdown - Irene McGonigle, Donagheady MU, Derry & Raphoe
· Survivors of Lockdown - Vi Breen, Swanlinbar MU, Kilmore, Elphin & Ardagh
· The Ups and Downs of COVID 19 - Margaret Sides, Edgeworthstown MU, Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh
FOOTPRINTS
Covid times have been hard to bear, staying at home and not able to share.
But after Lockdown, out I go, taking it easy, taking it slow.
Mask at the ready, worried, unsure -
until I see footprints on the shop floor.
Why should these footprints on which I stand
make me feel safe and make me feel calm?
Then I recall a poem with the wonderful story,
telling of our Lord and His glory
of two sets of footprints on an outgoing tide
belonging to people walking on sand side by side.
One pair belongs to the Lord and the other to a person
who finds companionship that is for certain,
but when only one set of footprints is seen
where before there were two sets had originally been
it is said this is when the Lord carries you on his back
to help in times of trouble and get you right on track.
So remember dear friends in this time of uncertainty and danger
of the one long ago who was born in a manger.
So follow the one set of footprints in shop or were found
Knowing that you are being kept safe and sound
as the Lord carries your burdens and guides your way
In the knowledge you won’t stumble or stray.
Kept safe in His love and assurance for ever
As we keep those bonds which we will not sever.
Betty McLaughlin ~ Holywood MU, Down and Dromore ~ Highly Commended
What is this life if full of care
We have no time to stand and stare.
W.H. Davies 1871-1940
MOMENTS IN TIME
It came like a thief in the night
Silent and deadly to give us all a fright
‘Over Seventies’ stay indoors, keep a low face
Cocooned like a butterfly chrysalis, warm and safe.
TIME to watch the leaves unfurl and blossoming flowers to see.
TIME to observe an artistic spider spin its intricate web, just for me.
TIME to absorb the silence and stillness, to do so is so rare,
Until the blackbird’s sweet song penetrates the dewy air.
TIME to witness the beauty of a sunrise peeping over the hill
And see a glowing cat tiptoe the ‘high wire’ at its will.
TIME to think of days gone by
Some of the memories make me want to cry.
A broken, war worn Father returns from the cruel sea
With bright shining medals for us to see.
With ration books and hand me downs, recycling as they call it now!
My darling mother worked day and night to keep us well, I don’t know how.
TIME to remember as an eighteen year old
On a blind date my future husband to behold.
Married fifty four years, once poor as church mice
But love kept us going, we wouldn’t think twice.
TIME to think of our darling family living over the brine,
We have not embraced since last Christmas time.
TIME to pray daily for the heroes, the sad and the kind
For God is my strength and refuge, what ever I find.
Jean Stephens ~ Drumachose MU, Derry & Raphoe ~ Highly Commended
SWAPPING A WEDDING FOR WEEDING
It’s my last day at work and there’s the break bell
A quick call from New York – they’ve arrived safe and well
But ‘Breaking News’ now and they’re closing the school
The kids are delighted – ‘We’re off early, that’s cool!’
My heart sinks down deep – is this the start of it all?
The flights?! The Wedding?! Wait for the hammer to fall??
They’re stranded abroad – can’t get any flights home
New York’s streets near empty as they wander alone
Flights eventually found and to the airport they speed
‘Please keep them all well’ is the prayer that I plead
The Wedding’s forgotten – just get home safe and sound
It’s strange how quickly new priorities are found!
They’re in isolation now for two weeks – to be sure
And the country’s in ‘Lockdown’ without a quick cure
The numbers keep rising and the outlook is bleak
They say on the news reports week after week
But the weather is wonderful so my husband and I
Spend our days in the sunshine doing job we’ve ‘let lay’
So on the date of the ‘Wedding’ and those painstaking plans
We instead weed the garden on our knees and our hands
Phyllis Young, ~ Inver MU, Derry & Raphoe ~ Highly Commended
Congratulations to the winners of our Photogaphic Competition
Family Time ~ Grandad & Child out for a walk ~ Carol Kinlan (Dublin & Glendalough)
Back to Nature ~ A Crane on the River ~ Jennifer McWhirter (Tuam, Killala & Achonry)
Two Swans & their Cygnets ~ Lorna Graham (Kilmore, Elphin & Ardagh)
Going the Extra Mile ~ Ready for Work ~ Susan Smith (Armagh)
Something the made me Smile ~ Helping Out ~ Inga Hutchinson (Cashel, Ferns, Ossory)
My Abiding Memory ~ In need of a Barber ~ Yvonne Woods (Armagh)
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NEW DIOCESAN CHAPLAIN
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Hello, my name is Rev Richard Waller. Originally from Pudsey near Leeds, Yorkshire, my wife Janette and I came to Belfast in 2010 where I worked as a Church Army evangelist on the outreach team at Willowfield Church. After pursuing a call to Ordained ministry in 2015, I spent my Deacon intern year in Killeshandra working alongside the Rev Canon Alison Calvin. In September 2017, I was appointed as Bishop’s Curate to the Kildallon group of parishes, where Janette and I now live along with our energetic dog Pepper. I was very pleased to be asked to be Diocesan Chaplain to the Mothers Union and look forward to supporting you as best I can.
The LORD is faithful to all his promises and loving toward all he has made. Psalm 145 v 13b |
PRESENTATIONS TO RETIRING TRUSTEES
Following a meal and meeting of Trustees in Glenview Restaurant Ballinamore on Thursday 6th February presentations were made to Canon Sandra Lindsay, Sophia Whyte and Kathleen Nairn who are retiring from the Trustee Body having served their term. Unfortunately Kathleen was unable to attend. Mary Geelan and Evelyn Morton presented flowers and thanked Canon Sandra and Sophia for their contribution to Mothers Union over the years. DP Hazel Speares also expressed her thanks and appreciation.
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CHRISTMAS OUTINGS
Killeshandra branch members had their Christmas dinner in the Lough Bawn Hotel in January when they made a presentation to Canon Alison Calvin.
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Photos below show members from Belturbet, Drung/Cootehill and Swanlinbar branches enjoying Christmas outings.
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16 DAYS OF ACTIVISM AGAINST GENDER-BASED VIOLENCE
This year our 16 Days of Activism against Gender-based violence was held in The Martin Memorial Hall in Killeshandra on Saturday 30th November from 3pm - 4:30pm,. The guest speaker this year was Garda Antoinette Prior who spoke on all issues relating to domestic violence. Minister Heather Humphreys was also in attendance and she also addressed the issues.
There was a service of worship to start conducted by Canon Alison Calvin. Bishop Ferran Glenfield gave the final blessing. Refreshments were served, thanks to the ladies in Killeshandra. Items were collected for distribution to Women's Link Longford, DVAS Sligo and Sleep Out Cavan.
There was a service of worship to start conducted by Canon Alison Calvin. Bishop Ferran Glenfield gave the final blessing. Refreshments were served, thanks to the ladies in Killeshandra. Items were collected for distribution to Women's Link Longford, DVAS Sligo and Sleep Out Cavan.
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SENIOR MEMBERS' TEA PARTY - KILMORE 2019
The Senior Members Tea Party was held in Kilmore Hall on Wednesday 5th June 2019. The Service of Holy Communion was celebrated by Dean Nigel Crossey. Mrs. Mavis Magee Senior Members’ Contact read the lesson. The organist was Mrs. Elizabeth Hislop. Members from various branches in the diocese enjoyed the fellowship and the delicious refreshments which followed the service. Mavis thanked everyone involved in the preparation of the service and those who provided the refreshments.
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FESTIVAL SERVICE - TAUNAGH CHURCH, RIVERSTOWN 2019
Mrs. The second of our Diocesan Festival Services was held on Tuesday 28th May 2019 in Taunagh Parish Church, Riverstown. The service was led by Mr. Damian Shorten Lay Pastor assisted by Canon Patrick Bamber and Bishop Ferran Glenfield. Damian welcomed everyone to Riverstown. The address was given by Mrs. June Butler All Ireland President who gave a thoughtful and challenging address on the three “f’s” i.e fire; fellowship and footsteps. The Hymns were ‘One more step along the world I go’; ‘When we walk with the Lord in the light o his word’; O Jesus I have promised’; ‘Be thou my vision’ and ‘Tell out my soul’ . The organist was Canon Edward Yendall. Lessons wee read by Mrs. Hilda Shaw Riverstown Branch Leader and Mrs. Hazel Speares Diocesan President. Prayers of Intercession were led by Riverstown branch members. Bishop Ferran gave the blessing and thanksgiving for food. DP Hazel thanked Bishop Ferran and all the clergy also everyone who was in involved in preparing for the service.
Following the service everyone enjoyed the lovely refreshments in the Cooper Hall where there was also a Bring & Buy Sale and Enterprise Sale. 50 year Certificates were presented to Mrs. Freda Robertson and Mrs. Gladys Barlow.
Following the service everyone enjoyed the lovely refreshments in the Cooper Hall where there was also a Bring & Buy Sale and Enterprise Sale. 50 year Certificates were presented to Mrs. Freda Robertson and Mrs. Gladys Barlow.
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FESTIVAL SERVICE - BALLINALEE 2019
A Diocesan Festival Service was held on Tuesday 14th May in St. John’s Church, Ballinalee, Co. Longford. Approximately one hundred members attended. The service was conducted by Rev. Christian Snell. Bishop Ferran was in attendance together with Dean Nigel Crossey; Canon David Catterall; Canon Mark Lidwill; Canon Sandra Lindsay; Canon Janet Catterall and Canon Edward Yendall. The organist was Ms Lesley Denniston.
The lessons were read by Mrs. Gillian Campbell, Edgeworthstown Branch Secretary and Mrs. Hazel Speares, Diocesan President. Prayers of Intercession were led by members of Edgeworthstown branch. The address was given by Mrs. Ruth Galbraith, Lay Pastor in the Ardagh Group of Parishes who spoke on the theme ‘Listen, Observe, Act – In step with God’. The offering was for the Overseas fund and branch representatives presented their overseas envelopes. Bishop Ferran gave the Final Blessing and thanksgiving for food.
Following the service Mrs. Hazel Speares, thanked everyone involved in leading and preparing the service and particularly Ruth for her inspiring and challenging address. Hazel thanked all the clergy and members for attending.
Refreshments followed in Currycahill Hall where there was a Bring & Buy Sale and also Enterprise Sale.
The lessons were read by Mrs. Gillian Campbell, Edgeworthstown Branch Secretary and Mrs. Hazel Speares, Diocesan President. Prayers of Intercession were led by members of Edgeworthstown branch. The address was given by Mrs. Ruth Galbraith, Lay Pastor in the Ardagh Group of Parishes who spoke on the theme ‘Listen, Observe, Act – In step with God’. The offering was for the Overseas fund and branch representatives presented their overseas envelopes. Bishop Ferran gave the Final Blessing and thanksgiving for food.
Following the service Mrs. Hazel Speares, thanked everyone involved in leading and preparing the service and particularly Ruth for her inspiring and challenging address. Hazel thanked all the clergy and members for attending.
Refreshments followed in Currycahill Hall where there was a Bring & Buy Sale and also Enterprise Sale.
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DIOCESAN BREAKFAST - 13th APRIL 2019
Approximately 100 members and friends gathered in the Pikers Lodge Loch Gowna on Saturday 13th April. We were warmly welcomed by Diocesan President Hazel Speares who gave a special welcome to Guest Speaker Ms Jacqui Armstrong DP Derry & Raphoe and also to Revd.Tanya Woods who led a music workshop.
Following a very hearty breakfast Hazel introduced Jacqui who gave an inspiring presentation on the MU theme. It was a morning exploring how best to Listen, Observe and Act with God.
To do that we explored how to look at life from God’s perspective. Our perspective on life is shaped by those who have formed and fashioned us – our mentors and our shepherds in life, particularly those who have led us and inspired us on our journey of faith.
Leila took to the stage as Jacqui tried to read her mind – and that proved pretty ineffective, as our outer selves often mask what is really going on inside in our inner selves. However, it did bring home to us that we have often been sustained by the wisdom and experience we have gleaned from our “shepherds” who have and, in many cases, continue to inspire us. These faith filled experiences have steadily scaffolded and contributed to building up within us, the strong faith and trust that we have as we walk in step with God today.
We carry inside us an Inner “kit bag” which sustains us on our journey – this contains sustenance for our journey. In our inner kitbags three types of food were placed to consider: food for thought, food for body and food for soul.
In John Chapter 4 the disciples are concerned for Jesus. When urged to eat some food they have brought him, he said the real food is to do God’s will – to do that we have to view life from His perspective. To do God’s Will was Jesus vision and what gave him greatest satisfaction in life. if we are to listen, observe and act in step with God we would do well to do likewise.
Wherever we are God goes before us, he stands beside us, he walks behind us, whatever the situation we have right now, we can be confident as God is with us. When we walk with God we always reach our destination. ….and that is where our shepherds came into play…..
It was a lovely trip down Memory Lane as we each recalled who our “shepherds” had been on our journey and on those qualities that most inspired and encouraged us on our journey in step with God. From there, we looked at the qualities of Jesus – our good shepherd (John 10:11) and finally on how we ourselves have become Shepherds for others on our journey.
Our MULOA prayers come from Paul’s letters to the Thessalonians and in these letters, Paul reminds us to constantly pray with thanksgiving, regularly and purposefully, so that God may enable us to be the best we can be whatever our resources and whatever our circumstances.
In life Jesus mirrored God’s perspective. How Jesus shepherded, is how we can shepherd others, how we can reach out to others in step with God and how we can act as we feel guided to, by his Holy Spirit in our communities.
Revd. Tanya led the singing of 'Our Father we have wandered'; 'O see the dawn'; 'See God's salvation plan' and 'In Christ alone'.
Diocesan President extended thanks to Jacqui and Revd. Tanya and to everyone who attended. Eva Gibson made presentations to both ladies.
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Riverstown New Year Lunch with neighbouring branches
Members from Boyle, Riverstown, St. John’s/ Calry, Manorhamilton, Collooney, Ballisodare and Ballymote all joined us for a New year lunch in Sligo Park Hotel Sligo. Riverstown was the host branch This is our second year for a few branches to get together. We were really delighted that Hazel Spears D.P. and Barbara Smyth D.S. were able to join us this year also with us on the day was Myrtle Nairn new D.P. Tuam, Killala and Arconey
The day began with prayer including the mother’s union prayer and grace, A wonderful meal was enjoyed by all, afterwards we had a question quiz and picture quiz, good fun ; Hazel give a short address on the Mother’s Union, then some entertainment, by Anne Fitzpatrick, Dolores Henderson and Alexina Warren then played some well known hymns and everyone sang along.
The evening finished with some chat between everyone, and all went home with a gift of a small bag of homemade cookies with the mother’s union prayer attached.
The day began with prayer including the mother’s union prayer and grace, A wonderful meal was enjoyed by all, afterwards we had a question quiz and picture quiz, good fun ; Hazel give a short address on the Mother’s Union, then some entertainment, by Anne Fitzpatrick, Dolores Henderson and Alexina Warren then played some well known hymns and everyone sang along.
The evening finished with some chat between everyone, and all went home with a gift of a small bag of homemade cookies with the mother’s union prayer attached.
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RIVERSTOWN - FLOWER FESTIVAL
Mother’s Union work at the flower festival at Taunagh Parish Church Riverstown when it was 200 years old last August
St. John’s members did flowers around door
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Riverstown MU
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Riverstown M. U. These dresses are almost 300 years old
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Ladies from Collooney M.U.
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Riverstown M.U. “Souls of Shoes “
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DINNER OUTING - DERRYLIN/SWANLINBAR/KILDALLON
Members and friends from Derryln/Swanlinbar/Kildallon Mothers Union enjoyed a delicious meal in Tully Mill Restaurant, Florencecourt on Thursday 24th January. Following the meal we enjoyed some fun quizzes and also Secret Santa.
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KILLESHANDRA CHRISTMAS DINNER 2018
Photo below of members who attended the Christmas Dinner in the Lough Bawn Hotel, Killeshandra on Tuesday 11th December 2018
16 DAYS OF ACTIVISM AGAINST GENDER BASED VIOLENCE PRAYER VIGIL
A Prayer Vigil was held in St. John's Church Longford on Saturday 24th November in support of all women and girls who have suffered from domestic violence. Canon David Catterall led the service of worship. which included the Hymns 'Be still, for the presence of the Lord, the Holy One, is here'; 'Let there be love shared among us' and 'Bind us together, Lord. Mrs. Hazel Speares, Diocesan President; Mrs. Marlett Hunter Social Policy Rep and Mrs. Mary GeelFaith & Policy coordinator did the readings. Mrs. Mairead McGuinness MEP was in attendance and expressed her solidarity in highlighting this very important issue. The guest speaker was Ms Mo Reynolds from Women's Link who gave a very interesting and powerful insight into her work with women who have suffered from domestic abuse. There was time for reflective prayer and an opportunity to look at the display of shoes from the 'Souls of our Shoes' exhibition. Delicious refreshments were served by members from Longford branch.
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DP Hazel Speares presents Margaret with her prize of a beautiful hamper.
Congratulations to Margaret Colvin, Drumcliffe on winning joint 1st Prize in the Mums in May Tea Cosy Competition. Read Margaret's story below.
VISION by Margaret Colvin
A group of ladies met one Tuesday evening in the church hall, in the tiny hamlet of Marchend. They were on a mission! Their Mothers’ Union branch was dying on its feet! They had originally commenced their group in 1979 and had a healthy number of members, totalling some forty ladies. Over the years, the membership roll had suffered, for all the usual reason. Tonight, as the ladies drew their chairs into a circle and handed round steaming cups of tea, each person present was aware that this was a ‘make or break’ night as far as the future of the branch was concerned.
The members loved their group and looked forward to their monthly meeting. However, when someone could not attend due to illness or other reason, the number present fell to below ten and they felt somewhat discouraged. Times had changed and nowadays the younger women in the parish were busy with home and family life or, after a busy day at the office, preferred yoga or a Pilate’s class.
A new approach was needed if the branch was to encourage new members. China cups tinkled, cake was consumed, family news shared and the lack of rain discussed in equal measure. Eventually, the ladies settled into the main topic of the night. Doris the Branch Leader called the meeting to order as this topic needed time for folk to air their views and for ideas to be generated.
Mary, the Secretary, officially opened the meeting with prayer and encouraged all to take part in bringing their views and ideas to the table. ‘As you are aware ladies, we have each prayed over this topic for the past month and I await your thoughts.’
Silence ensued for a few minutes. ‘I wonder is it time to close our branch?’ Felicity put forward. ‘None of us is getting any younger and we don’t have much chance to relate to the young mums in church as they are always so busy collecting their children from Sunday School after morning service.’
Silence ensued for a few minutes. Then Maisie spoke, ‘I know what we could do.’
All heads turned in her direction. ‘We have been talking tonight about the hamlet growing larger with all the new houses being built. Why don’t we look outside our church family and try to connect with those folk?’
‘In what way, Maisie?’ Felicity asked.
‘Knit’, said Maisie. ‘We do what we do already and we knit a welcome gift of a tea cosy from our branch for each new-build. I have some cosies already finished in a drawer at home, ready for the church sale but we could use them for this project instead.’
‘What a good idea,’ responded Tilly, the Rector’s wife. Until now, she had been sitting back waiting to see what might transpire as she did not want to influence the branch. Now, on hearing Maisie’s positive suggestion, she suggested that they could enclose a leaflet with each cosy, giving information about church activities.
A decision was made that evening that they would all work on knitting tea cosies for the next month and they would pray for this project as they knitted.
The local haberdashery shop was delighted with the welcome rise in business and kindly offered ‘buy two balls of wool and get one free’!
Soon the ladies had cosies of every shape and size ready for the next meeting. There were floral tributes, cottages, camper vans, sheep, Peter Rabbit, and even Elsa from Frozen appeared. There were dolls dressed with aprons and even a pineapple! The Rector, Revd Forsythe, was delighted to hear of the branch project and the enthusiasm it had generated. One member, Lily, said that she would be Prayer Coordinator and, as she was good on the computer, she would send out an email to other branches in the diocese, requesting prayer for the ladies soon to go out delivering their gifts.
Alongside that, some of the ladies made up a little subgroup to design an information leaflet highlighting the annual fete to be held in two weeks time.
So it came about , on an evening in early June, the slightly fearful ladies from Marchend MU went out in faith, two by two, with their brightly parcelled cosies and leaflet to gift to the new families in their midst.
Afterwards they returned to the church hall to debrief and share their experiences. Each couple recognised that God had given them this project and were heartened by the welcomes they received on each doorstep.
Move on two months…….
The ladies of Marchend Mothers’ Union began their new season having added two new members to their number. One lady who had moved with her son and family joined, and the other, also a grandmother, had moved with her husband to be near grandchildren. Each had been looking for a group to join and was so impressed by the welcome gift and invitation, that they had given their contact details so they could be informed of the September meeting.
In the meantime, they had come to the summer fete with their families. Mums and Tots saw six new mums and toddlers join with them on Monday mornings and already several families had visited Messy Church.
The church prayer group continue to pray for the seeds that had been sown, that they might see even more families come into their fellowship. All this came about through a small group of ladies who had prayerfully knit tea cosies and given them to their neighbours with love.
‘If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain “move from here to there” and it will move. Nothing shall be impossible for you.’ (Matthew 20 v 17)
FOOTNOTE: All places and names are purely fictional
VISION by Margaret Colvin
A group of ladies met one Tuesday evening in the church hall, in the tiny hamlet of Marchend. They were on a mission! Their Mothers’ Union branch was dying on its feet! They had originally commenced their group in 1979 and had a healthy number of members, totalling some forty ladies. Over the years, the membership roll had suffered, for all the usual reason. Tonight, as the ladies drew their chairs into a circle and handed round steaming cups of tea, each person present was aware that this was a ‘make or break’ night as far as the future of the branch was concerned.
The members loved their group and looked forward to their monthly meeting. However, when someone could not attend due to illness or other reason, the number present fell to below ten and they felt somewhat discouraged. Times had changed and nowadays the younger women in the parish were busy with home and family life or, after a busy day at the office, preferred yoga or a Pilate’s class.
A new approach was needed if the branch was to encourage new members. China cups tinkled, cake was consumed, family news shared and the lack of rain discussed in equal measure. Eventually, the ladies settled into the main topic of the night. Doris the Branch Leader called the meeting to order as this topic needed time for folk to air their views and for ideas to be generated.
Mary, the Secretary, officially opened the meeting with prayer and encouraged all to take part in bringing their views and ideas to the table. ‘As you are aware ladies, we have each prayed over this topic for the past month and I await your thoughts.’
Silence ensued for a few minutes. ‘I wonder is it time to close our branch?’ Felicity put forward. ‘None of us is getting any younger and we don’t have much chance to relate to the young mums in church as they are always so busy collecting their children from Sunday School after morning service.’
Silence ensued for a few minutes. Then Maisie spoke, ‘I know what we could do.’
All heads turned in her direction. ‘We have been talking tonight about the hamlet growing larger with all the new houses being built. Why don’t we look outside our church family and try to connect with those folk?’
‘In what way, Maisie?’ Felicity asked.
‘Knit’, said Maisie. ‘We do what we do already and we knit a welcome gift of a tea cosy from our branch for each new-build. I have some cosies already finished in a drawer at home, ready for the church sale but we could use them for this project instead.’
‘What a good idea,’ responded Tilly, the Rector’s wife. Until now, she had been sitting back waiting to see what might transpire as she did not want to influence the branch. Now, on hearing Maisie’s positive suggestion, she suggested that they could enclose a leaflet with each cosy, giving information about church activities.
A decision was made that evening that they would all work on knitting tea cosies for the next month and they would pray for this project as they knitted.
The local haberdashery shop was delighted with the welcome rise in business and kindly offered ‘buy two balls of wool and get one free’!
Soon the ladies had cosies of every shape and size ready for the next meeting. There were floral tributes, cottages, camper vans, sheep, Peter Rabbit, and even Elsa from Frozen appeared. There were dolls dressed with aprons and even a pineapple! The Rector, Revd Forsythe, was delighted to hear of the branch project and the enthusiasm it had generated. One member, Lily, said that she would be Prayer Coordinator and, as she was good on the computer, she would send out an email to other branches in the diocese, requesting prayer for the ladies soon to go out delivering their gifts.
Alongside that, some of the ladies made up a little subgroup to design an information leaflet highlighting the annual fete to be held in two weeks time.
So it came about , on an evening in early June, the slightly fearful ladies from Marchend MU went out in faith, two by two, with their brightly parcelled cosies and leaflet to gift to the new families in their midst.
Afterwards they returned to the church hall to debrief and share their experiences. Each couple recognised that God had given them this project and were heartened by the welcomes they received on each doorstep.
Move on two months…….
The ladies of Marchend Mothers’ Union began their new season having added two new members to their number. One lady who had moved with her son and family joined, and the other, also a grandmother, had moved with her husband to be near grandchildren. Each had been looking for a group to join and was so impressed by the welcome gift and invitation, that they had given their contact details so they could be informed of the September meeting.
In the meantime, they had come to the summer fete with their families. Mums and Tots saw six new mums and toddlers join with them on Monday mornings and already several families had visited Messy Church.
The church prayer group continue to pray for the seeds that had been sown, that they might see even more families come into their fellowship. All this came about through a small group of ladies who had prayerfully knit tea cosies and given them to their neighbours with love.
‘If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain “move from here to there” and it will move. Nothing shall be impossible for you.’ (Matthew 20 v 17)
FOOTNOTE: All places and names are purely fictional
MOTHERS’ UNION SERVICE OF THANKSGIVING FOR THE TRIENNIUM
Christ Church Cathedral Dublin Saturday 06 October 2018 Address by Archbishop Clarke.
When invited (as we are today) to look back over the past three years with thankfulness for the life of the Mothers’ Union here in Ireland, we can scarcely do this without thinking of the wider context of which we are all placed, Ireland as a whole and hence the Mothers’ Union itself. And the changes around us have indeed been momentous in these very few years. Lenin’s comment that “there are decades when nothing happens; and there are weeks when decades happen” seems highly appropriate. The people of the Republic of Ireland have resolved by majority that marriage is to be understood in a wider context than has been traditional, and also that the unborn are to be viewed in a very different way. In Northern Ireland, people on all sides have had to grasp in stark terms that a peace process will not simply run itself, and that changing the public narrative into one that is not simply an absence of violence but rather a positive promotion of communal harmony requires constant and generous effort. And then there is the dreaded “B word”! There is the certainty that whatever may be the final outcome of Brexit, countries have been placed at enmity with one another, as have politicians, as have the different generations. Healing will not happen quickly. Communities and even families are suffering serious tensions in relationship through differing perspectives on what is needed and wanted for the future of these islands. And if the Church as a whole does not learn to understand and engage with what is going on around us - what is really going on around us - then we can only sink into an oblivion of ridicule and irrelevance. And what is true for the Church as a whole must be the challenge to all of us gathered here today in thankfulness for the work of the Mothers Union over these three years.
So first the thankfulness, as the Epistle today reminds us is at the heart of Christian belonging “We must always give thanks to God for you, brothers and sisters, as is right..” Giving thanks to God for the companionship and the Christian witness that the Mothers’ Union provides in so many settings and communities throughout this land is not something we should ever neglect or treat lightly and, as were also reminded in this reading from 2 Thessalonians, this thankfulness is to be done in the context of prayer.
Just over 20 years ago, I took part in the wedding of my wife’s niece in a little village church in Herefordshire, near Worcester where my wife was from. I discovered quickly that this was the church - Colwall Parish Church (close to the Malvern hills) - in which Mary Sumner, the founder of the Mothers’ Union, had been married to her husband Revd George Sumner. I suppose my curiosity was aroused about the origins of the Mothers’ Union and I learnt that Colwall was the place where, almost certainly, Mary Heywood (as she then was, before her marriage) had the inspiration that was to lead to the forming of the Mothers’ Union some years later. Her mother had held prayer meetings for mothers in the parish of Colwall and this had certainly exercised a considerable influence over the young Mary. Prayer was, from the beginning, the hallmark of what the Mothers’ Union was about, and this is rightly the basis for our thanksgiving today.
It has been from the foundation of prayer that the Mothers’ Union has involved itself energetically in speaking and working against injustice and violence wherever it may encountered in the world. With the connections that the Mothers’ Union has internationally, with its track record of advocacy against the exploitation of women and of children in the developing world, the Mothers’ Union has surely a vital role in being also our conscience here, and in stirring our conscience in our local settings, reminding us that we cannot be complacent about deprivation and an injustice that is built into our way of being a society, right inside our structures – what is called systemic injustice. As I know also, the Mothers’ Union has reminded us constantly in recent times of gender-based violence, which is not simply something that happens in other places and in other social classes but which is clearly in our midst, even in the most supposedly respectable of places. Yes, globally, at least 1 in 3 women, or up to one billion women, have been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in their lifetimes. But in the Republic of Ireland, perhaps up to 20% of women in a relationship have been abused by a present or former partner. In Northern Ireland, the police service responds to some incident of domestic violence nearly 500 times every week. The Mothers’ Union has worked to make us more aware, more conscious, and more alert.. and for this we do indeed give thanks for your work over these past years.
But, as we moved into the Gospel reading today, we were also being faced with a challenge for the future. The version of the story of the multiplying of the loaves and fishes to feed a multitude in the sixth chapter of Mark’s Gospel doesn’t point to the contribution of a young boy, but it does point us to how Christ can make much of what we assume is something insignificant. The instinct of the disciples, on seeing a hungry mass of people, was to say, “send them away”. The disciples probably had sufficient, even if not much – a few loaves and a couple of fish – for their own needs (and it is suggested in this story that it was they provided the food) but they did not have sufficient for those for whom they felt they had no responsibility. So sending them away to look after their own needs seemed the only sensible solution. But yet what appeared to be something insignificant becomes a feast. However, the point of this story is that nothing is insignificant when it is touched by Jesus Christ.
You, the Mothers’ Union, have something to bring to the confused and confusing world in which we live. To you it may seem puny as we survey the chaos and folly around us, but it is not. Nothing is unimportant or trivial when it is touched by Christ. And what the Mothers’ Union is in its life and work has far more than the insignificant to bring to the multitude. You care about families and about justice for women and for children. Help us to care too.
Help us as we, as the Church, try explore some of the immensely difficult issues of ethics – when does life begin? Is it ever justifiable to allow the termination of the life of an individual who is suffering from an agonising terminal disease? What constitutes a family, and how can we be there for families that society has traditionally not seen as family. so that we do not simply “send them away”?
You – the Mothers’ Union - do have a perspective, an experience, a different perspective, that can enable the wider Church to take a more sensitive, thoughtful and compassionate and intelligent viewpoint on many things to do with life and with the nature of relationships of every kind, and you can give a further and far wiser dimension to such thinking.
The Mothers’ Union is about the totality of the family - the family that doesn’t fit the traditional pattern as much as the family that does. It is about the family in joy but equally the family in pain, the family in need, the family faced with the awfulness of letting go of a loved one. I have always truly admired the realism with which the Mothers’ Union faces things - without either sentimentality or cliché. So, be ready to help the rest of us, in making good judgements about complex issues of life and of death. And to learn also from the experience of old age – the fear, the trepidation that may so often surround old people, not sure of their future, and if they are truly safe in a hospital, in a nursing home or even in their own home. Or are we just to send them away.. and to where?
Your gift to the Church and to the world is, and will continue to be, blessed by Christ. But remember too that prayer was, as I have said, from its beginnings in Colwall, the hallmark of what the Mothers’ Union was about, and if we are as Christian disciples to contend for justice in this world and in our own setting, if we are to find a Christian way through the huge questions posed by medical advances, bio-medical ethics, and by the individualism that is now the trademark of our society, it can only be when all this is done in the framework of real prayer – otherwise it becomes mere self-righteousness, self-satisfaction and smugness on our part. And it is in this context that it is surely worth recalling, in conclusion, the lovely personal prayer composed by Mary Sumner of Colwall that will later sum up our intercessions in this Eucharist,
All this day, O Lord, let me touch as many lives as possible for thee; and every life I touch, do thou by thy spirit quicken, whether through the word I speak, the prayer I breathe, or the life I live. Amen.
Christ Church Cathedral Dublin Saturday 06 October 2018 Address by Archbishop Clarke.
When invited (as we are today) to look back over the past three years with thankfulness for the life of the Mothers’ Union here in Ireland, we can scarcely do this without thinking of the wider context of which we are all placed, Ireland as a whole and hence the Mothers’ Union itself. And the changes around us have indeed been momentous in these very few years. Lenin’s comment that “there are decades when nothing happens; and there are weeks when decades happen” seems highly appropriate. The people of the Republic of Ireland have resolved by majority that marriage is to be understood in a wider context than has been traditional, and also that the unborn are to be viewed in a very different way. In Northern Ireland, people on all sides have had to grasp in stark terms that a peace process will not simply run itself, and that changing the public narrative into one that is not simply an absence of violence but rather a positive promotion of communal harmony requires constant and generous effort. And then there is the dreaded “B word”! There is the certainty that whatever may be the final outcome of Brexit, countries have been placed at enmity with one another, as have politicians, as have the different generations. Healing will not happen quickly. Communities and even families are suffering serious tensions in relationship through differing perspectives on what is needed and wanted for the future of these islands. And if the Church as a whole does not learn to understand and engage with what is going on around us - what is really going on around us - then we can only sink into an oblivion of ridicule and irrelevance. And what is true for the Church as a whole must be the challenge to all of us gathered here today in thankfulness for the work of the Mothers Union over these three years.
So first the thankfulness, as the Epistle today reminds us is at the heart of Christian belonging “We must always give thanks to God for you, brothers and sisters, as is right..” Giving thanks to God for the companionship and the Christian witness that the Mothers’ Union provides in so many settings and communities throughout this land is not something we should ever neglect or treat lightly and, as were also reminded in this reading from 2 Thessalonians, this thankfulness is to be done in the context of prayer.
Just over 20 years ago, I took part in the wedding of my wife’s niece in a little village church in Herefordshire, near Worcester where my wife was from. I discovered quickly that this was the church - Colwall Parish Church (close to the Malvern hills) - in which Mary Sumner, the founder of the Mothers’ Union, had been married to her husband Revd George Sumner. I suppose my curiosity was aroused about the origins of the Mothers’ Union and I learnt that Colwall was the place where, almost certainly, Mary Heywood (as she then was, before her marriage) had the inspiration that was to lead to the forming of the Mothers’ Union some years later. Her mother had held prayer meetings for mothers in the parish of Colwall and this had certainly exercised a considerable influence over the young Mary. Prayer was, from the beginning, the hallmark of what the Mothers’ Union was about, and this is rightly the basis for our thanksgiving today.
It has been from the foundation of prayer that the Mothers’ Union has involved itself energetically in speaking and working against injustice and violence wherever it may encountered in the world. With the connections that the Mothers’ Union has internationally, with its track record of advocacy against the exploitation of women and of children in the developing world, the Mothers’ Union has surely a vital role in being also our conscience here, and in stirring our conscience in our local settings, reminding us that we cannot be complacent about deprivation and an injustice that is built into our way of being a society, right inside our structures – what is called systemic injustice. As I know also, the Mothers’ Union has reminded us constantly in recent times of gender-based violence, which is not simply something that happens in other places and in other social classes but which is clearly in our midst, even in the most supposedly respectable of places. Yes, globally, at least 1 in 3 women, or up to one billion women, have been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in their lifetimes. But in the Republic of Ireland, perhaps up to 20% of women in a relationship have been abused by a present or former partner. In Northern Ireland, the police service responds to some incident of domestic violence nearly 500 times every week. The Mothers’ Union has worked to make us more aware, more conscious, and more alert.. and for this we do indeed give thanks for your work over these past years.
But, as we moved into the Gospel reading today, we were also being faced with a challenge for the future. The version of the story of the multiplying of the loaves and fishes to feed a multitude in the sixth chapter of Mark’s Gospel doesn’t point to the contribution of a young boy, but it does point us to how Christ can make much of what we assume is something insignificant. The instinct of the disciples, on seeing a hungry mass of people, was to say, “send them away”. The disciples probably had sufficient, even if not much – a few loaves and a couple of fish – for their own needs (and it is suggested in this story that it was they provided the food) but they did not have sufficient for those for whom they felt they had no responsibility. So sending them away to look after their own needs seemed the only sensible solution. But yet what appeared to be something insignificant becomes a feast. However, the point of this story is that nothing is insignificant when it is touched by Jesus Christ.
You, the Mothers’ Union, have something to bring to the confused and confusing world in which we live. To you it may seem puny as we survey the chaos and folly around us, but it is not. Nothing is unimportant or trivial when it is touched by Christ. And what the Mothers’ Union is in its life and work has far more than the insignificant to bring to the multitude. You care about families and about justice for women and for children. Help us to care too.
Help us as we, as the Church, try explore some of the immensely difficult issues of ethics – when does life begin? Is it ever justifiable to allow the termination of the life of an individual who is suffering from an agonising terminal disease? What constitutes a family, and how can we be there for families that society has traditionally not seen as family. so that we do not simply “send them away”?
You – the Mothers’ Union - do have a perspective, an experience, a different perspective, that can enable the wider Church to take a more sensitive, thoughtful and compassionate and intelligent viewpoint on many things to do with life and with the nature of relationships of every kind, and you can give a further and far wiser dimension to such thinking.
The Mothers’ Union is about the totality of the family - the family that doesn’t fit the traditional pattern as much as the family that does. It is about the family in joy but equally the family in pain, the family in need, the family faced with the awfulness of letting go of a loved one. I have always truly admired the realism with which the Mothers’ Union faces things - without either sentimentality or cliché. So, be ready to help the rest of us, in making good judgements about complex issues of life and of death. And to learn also from the experience of old age – the fear, the trepidation that may so often surround old people, not sure of their future, and if they are truly safe in a hospital, in a nursing home or even in their own home. Or are we just to send them away.. and to where?
Your gift to the Church and to the world is, and will continue to be, blessed by Christ. But remember too that prayer was, as I have said, from its beginnings in Colwall, the hallmark of what the Mothers’ Union was about, and if we are as Christian disciples to contend for justice in this world and in our own setting, if we are to find a Christian way through the huge questions posed by medical advances, bio-medical ethics, and by the individualism that is now the trademark of our society, it can only be when all this is done in the framework of real prayer – otherwise it becomes mere self-righteousness, self-satisfaction and smugness on our part. And it is in this context that it is surely worth recalling, in conclusion, the lovely personal prayer composed by Mary Sumner of Colwall that will later sum up our intercessions in this Eucharist,
All this day, O Lord, let me touch as many lives as possible for thee; and every life I touch, do thou by thy spirit quicken, whether through the word I speak, the prayer I breathe, or the life I live. Amen.
WOMEN'S WEEKEND 2018
The Women's Getaway Weekend was held in the Cavan Crystal Hotel, Cavan on 12th/13th October 2018. The theme for the weekend was 'Stepping out in Faith' with Guest Speakers Archdeacon Andrew Forster and Mrs. Heather Forster. We were delighted to have our AI President Mrs. Phyllis Grothier and also President Elect June Butler in attendance. Following registration on Friday evening 88 delegates enjoyed a Gala dinner.
Some of the shoes from the "Souls of our Shoes" exhibition were on display.
Archdeacon Andrew and Heather gave very inspiring presentations on Saturday. We also had some time for line dancing with Mary Wray and also a presentation by Ruth Watson on looking after our feet. There were 120 delegates on Saturday. A most enjoyable weekend.
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Killeshandra MU Outing to Flower Festival
Photograph from our MU outing to Taney Flower Festival last Saturday, some of the ladies went to service in Christchurch and the rest went shopping in Dundrum.
ALL-IRELAND TRIENNIAL THANKSGIVING SERVICE
The All-Ireland Triennial Thanksgiving Service was held in Christ Church Cathedral on Saturday 6th October. The preacher was Archbishop Clarke and the celebrant Archbishop Jackson. All-Ireland Chaplain Dean Raymond Ferguson and the chaplain of Dublin and Glendalough Revd. Norman McCausland was also in attendance. Our Diocesan President Hazel Speares together with Leila, Charlotte and Violet formed part of the choir.
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SWANLINBAR-KILDALLON ANNUAL OUTING
We were joined by members from Derrylin and Belturbet branches for our annual outing on Sat 5th May to Belfast. Our first stop was St. Anne’s Cathedral where tea, coffee and scones were provided by the Cathedral MU with whom we joined in morning prayers. A tour of the Cathedral was then enjoyed by all. The day continued with a visit to St. George’s Market followed by free time during which members could have a city bus tour, a visit to the City Hall or some retail therapy. The day concluded with a meal in the Cohannon Inn near Dungannon.
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Mothers to host Souls of Our Shoes Exhibition’ Union
Mothers’ Union has organised a Souls of Our Shoes Exhibition to coincide with the World Meeting of Families. The exhibition will run in Christ Church Cathedral Dublin daily from Tuesday 22nd August to Sunday 26th of August with a guest speaker on the Wednesday, Thursday and Friday at 12.30pm.
The physical shoes in this exhibition are accompanied by comments from those that have walked away from abuse. Other comments come from those who journey with them. Their reflections represent a faith perspectiv
Speakng today, Phyllis Grothier, All-Ireland Mothers’ Union president said,
“We would like people to talk about domestic abuse and want the many in abusive situations to know that there are people of faith concerned for them and who will walk the journey alongside them. As a community we need to work together to raise the profile of this insidious issue and take practical action, where possible. Throughout Ireland Mothers’ Union is supporting local refuges and has a high profile each November during the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Based Violence.
Ultimately, we would like to rid our society of domestic abuse. In the meantime, we know that with timely help, many can escape from their abusive situation, rebuild their confidence, and live in safety.”
This thought provoking and evocative exhibition and is open to the public each day from 9.30am.
Mothers’ Union has organised a Souls of Our Shoes Exhibition to coincide with the World Meeting of Families. The exhibition will run in Christ Church Cathedral Dublin daily from Tuesday 22nd August to Sunday 26th of August with a guest speaker on the Wednesday, Thursday and Friday at 12.30pm.
The physical shoes in this exhibition are accompanied by comments from those that have walked away from abuse. Other comments come from those who journey with them. Their reflections represent a faith perspectiv
Speakng today, Phyllis Grothier, All-Ireland Mothers’ Union president said,
“We would like people to talk about domestic abuse and want the many in abusive situations to know that there are people of faith concerned for them and who will walk the journey alongside them. As a community we need to work together to raise the profile of this insidious issue and take practical action, where possible. Throughout Ireland Mothers’ Union is supporting local refuges and has a high profile each November during the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Based Violence.
Ultimately, we would like to rid our society of domestic abuse. In the meantime, we know that with timely help, many can escape from their abusive situation, rebuild their confidence, and live in safety.”
This thought provoking and evocative exhibition and is open to the public each day from 9.30am.
MUMS IN MAY EVENTS 2018
Killeshandra members and friends walked the circle through the forest, Castlehamilton and the town in aid of Mums in May.
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Members from Derrylin/Swaninbar/Kildallon on the Belturbet River Walk in aid of Mums in May
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FESTIVAL SERVICES 2018
Festival Services this year were held in Cavan Parish Church on Sunday 19th May and Lissadell Parish Church on Tuesday 29th May. The service in Cavan was conducted by Canon Mark Lidwill with Dean Raymond Ferguson as the Guest Speaker. In Lisadell the service was conducted by Ven. Capt. Isaac Hanna with Bishop Ken Clarke as the Guest Speaker.
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MULOA TRAINING
A meeting of Trustees took place on Wednesday 2nd May in the Bush Hotel Carrick on Shannon to discuss MULOA. MULOA stands for “Mothers’ Union Listening, Observing, Acting” and is the name for a process being used to explore what it is to be Mothers’ Union, and how we can uniquely contribute to making a real difference to people’s lives. The meeting was facilitated by Hazel Speares Diocesan President and Irene Boyd Clogher Diocesan President. Hazel welcomed everyone to the meeting. She asked the 3 visitors (Mildred Gilmore, Rose Carroll and Myrtle Nairn) from Tuam to introduce themselves. She also welcomed Irene Boyd (DP Clogher Diocese) who attended Swanwick along with her and who offered to help with the training.
Hazel started the meeting with a power point presentation about the aims of MULOA - Listening, Observing and Acting. In particular, we are to think about whose lives are we/ could we be touching, what difference are we/ could we make in the lives of others and how could we effectively make a difference.
Irene carried out a listening exercise to demonstrate the importance of really listening. She said it is very important to listen to members on the ground and learn to respond.
Barbara read a passage from Mark 10: 46 – 52. The Story of Blind Bartimaeus. Some of the ladies acted out this story after which there was group discussion based on guiding questions relating to it. Positives and challenges to MU were discussed at length and how they might be overcome.
Myrle Nairn thanked Hazel and Irene for a wonderful presentation and the hotel for the lovely food. Hazel thanked everyone for coming and Irene in particular. Eva gave Irene a token of appreciation. Mary closed the meeting with prayer.
Hazel started the meeting with a power point presentation about the aims of MULOA - Listening, Observing and Acting. In particular, we are to think about whose lives are we/ could we be touching, what difference are we/ could we make in the lives of others and how could we effectively make a difference.
Irene carried out a listening exercise to demonstrate the importance of really listening. She said it is very important to listen to members on the ground and learn to respond.
Barbara read a passage from Mark 10: 46 – 52. The Story of Blind Bartimaeus. Some of the ladies acted out this story after which there was group discussion based on guiding questions relating to it. Positives and challenges to MU were discussed at length and how they might be overcome.
Myrle Nairn thanked Hazel and Irene for a wonderful presentation and the hotel for the lovely food. Hazel thanked everyone for coming and Irene in particular. Eva gave Irene a token of appreciation. Mary closed the meeting with prayer.
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SWANLINBAR KILDALLON VISITORS EVENING
On Tuesday 13th February a visitors evening was held in Ballyconnell hall with members and friends from our own branch, members from Killeshandra and Belturbet also visitors from the Methodist Church were in attendance. Branch Leader Lorna Graham gave a warm welcome to everyone. Eva Gibson, Branch Leader, Killeshandra gave the bible reading and Lorna continued with prayers. Yvonne Swann assisted by her daughter gave a wonderful demonstration on food items for afternoon tea. The delicious treats were thoroughly enjoyed by all.
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KILLESHANDRA AND BELTURBET CHRISTMAS DINNER
Members from Killeshandra and Belturbet came together for Christmas Dinner on 11th December in the Seven Horse Shoes Hotel, Belturbet.
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Swanlinbar Kildallon Christmas Outing
Members and some friends from Swanlinbar Kildallon enjoyed a delicious meal in the Keepers Arms Bawnboy on Tuesday 12th December. Branch Leader Lorna Graham welcomed everyone with a special welcome to Abigail Donohoe (wife of Revd. Simon Donohoe) and opened with prayer. Following the meal we tested our knowledge on a Quiz.
120TH ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATIONS IN MOHILL
A special service was held in Farnaught Church on Sunday 19th Nov. to celebrate the 120th anniversary of the formation of the Mothers Union outside of Dublin in Lough Rynn in 1897 by Gertruth Clements.
Gertruths great grandson Hal Clements planted a tree in the Church grounds to mark the occasion and a plaque was also dedicated in the Church.
The service was lead by Rev. Linda Frost. Hazel Spears our diocesan president cut the celebration cake and a cup of tea was enjoyed by the large attendance.
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'O SUSANNA' - the Susanna Wesley story
On Friday 10th November, 2017 in the Hotel Kilmore, Cavan Eva Baxter from Ballinamallard, Co. Fermanagh focused our attention on Susanna Wesley, the mother of John and Charles Wesley. Susanna is regarded as ‘the mother of Methodism.
Hazel Speares, Diocesan President gave a warm welcome to all present. A quiz on Charles Wesley hymns created lots of discussion around the tables. Leila Beattie played the keyboard as we sang some of the hymns. Merylin Morton sang "Hark! the Hearld Angels sing" accompanied by Leila.
Eva, dressed in period costume to narrate the very moving story of a truly historic woman’s faith and courage. Eva captivated the audience with her presentation.
The Mothers' Union and Cavan Christian Bookshop had a range of books, cards and literature available to purchase.
Everyone enjoyed tea/coffee and scones.
Susanna Annesley was born on January 20, 1669 in Bishop’s Gate London. Susanna was one of 25 children. Her father, Dr. Samuel Annesley, was a dissenter of the established church of England. She married Samuel Wesley on November 12, 1689 when Anglican clergyman Samuel was 27 and Susanna was 20. The newly-weds faced harsh financial difficulties, family tragedy struck regularly thereafter. Susanna and Samuel Wesley had 19 children. Nine of her children died as infants. The frequent absences of her husband on church business left the management of the household in her hands. Through it all she remained a steadfast Christian who taught not only through the Scriptures, but through her own example of daily trust in God. Susanna died in 1742 aged 72.
Hazel Speares, Diocesan President gave a warm welcome to all present. A quiz on Charles Wesley hymns created lots of discussion around the tables. Leila Beattie played the keyboard as we sang some of the hymns. Merylin Morton sang "Hark! the Hearld Angels sing" accompanied by Leila.
Eva, dressed in period costume to narrate the very moving story of a truly historic woman’s faith and courage. Eva captivated the audience with her presentation.
The Mothers' Union and Cavan Christian Bookshop had a range of books, cards and literature available to purchase.
Everyone enjoyed tea/coffee and scones.
Susanna Annesley was born on January 20, 1669 in Bishop’s Gate London. Susanna was one of 25 children. Her father, Dr. Samuel Annesley, was a dissenter of the established church of England. She married Samuel Wesley on November 12, 1689 when Anglican clergyman Samuel was 27 and Susanna was 20. The newly-weds faced harsh financial difficulties, family tragedy struck regularly thereafter. Susanna and Samuel Wesley had 19 children. Nine of her children died as infants. The frequent absences of her husband on church business left the management of the household in her hands. Through it all she remained a steadfast Christian who taught not only through the Scriptures, but through her own example of daily trust in God. Susanna died in 1742 aged 72.
Eva Baxter in costume portrayal of Susannah Wesley
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Eva Baxter and Hazel Speares, Diocesan President
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Womens' Getaway in Sligo
The Womens’ Getaway in Sligo, was a very successful and enjoyable event which included Desert Island discs, Gospel Singing Workshop, Zumba, Craft making, prayer and reflection. The keynote speaker was Alice Leadbetter from Ely Diocese and the facilitator was Mary Good, Diocesan President of Derry and Raphoe.
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THE MU BIG SING AT THE NATIONAL CONCERT HALL 9.09.2017
"The MU Big Sing" at the National Concert Hall celebrating 130 years of Mothers' Union in Ireland. Phyllis Grothier All Ireland President welcomed everyone.
Peter Barley organist, Mark Armstrong conductor and director.
Harpist : Anne-Marie O'Farrell
The Mothers' Union All Ireland choir drawn from the twelve dioceses.
Compere for the afternoon was Bishop Ken Clarke.
Guest speaker : Lynne Tembey, Worldwide president who was accompanied by her husband, Revd David Tembey. Reflection and Blessing : Dean Raymond Ferguson (All-Ireland MU Chaplain).
The afternoon marked the culmination of a year of celebration of "13 Decades of Love and Service by Mothers' Union in Ireland". Phyllis quoted we have walked together, prayed together and looked back with love and gratitude on those who have gone before us, while also looking forward in faith to the future. Mothers' Union members ask no greater joy than to offer praise and thanksgiving to God through the words and music of our favourite hymns, as chosen by members in every diocese. 11 well know hymns were sung during the celebration. The most popular hymn chosen was "How great Thou art".
Peter Barley organist, Mark Armstrong conductor and director.
Harpist : Anne-Marie O'Farrell
The Mothers' Union All Ireland choir drawn from the twelve dioceses.
Compere for the afternoon was Bishop Ken Clarke.
Guest speaker : Lynne Tembey, Worldwide president who was accompanied by her husband, Revd David Tembey. Reflection and Blessing : Dean Raymond Ferguson (All-Ireland MU Chaplain).
The afternoon marked the culmination of a year of celebration of "13 Decades of Love and Service by Mothers' Union in Ireland". Phyllis quoted we have walked together, prayed together and looked back with love and gratitude on those who have gone before us, while also looking forward in faith to the future. Mothers' Union members ask no greater joy than to offer praise and thanksgiving to God through the words and music of our favourite hymns, as chosen by members in every diocese. 11 well know hymns were sung during the celebration. The most popular hymn chosen was "How great Thou art".
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SENIOR MEMBERS' TEA PARTY - KILMORE
Photos below were taken at the Senior Members' Tea Party which was held in Kilmore Hall on Wednesday 7th June.
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FESTIVAL SERVICES
The second Diocesan Festival Service was held on Tuesday 23rd May 2017 in St. Fethlimidh's Cathedral Kilmore. Before the service commenced a minute's silence was observed in memory of those killed in the Manchester Arena bomb. The injured and families of everyone affected by the tragedy were remembered in prayer. The service was conducted by Dean Nigel Crossey and the address was given by Bishop Ferran Glenfield. The Cathedral Choir led the singing of the very uplifting hymns 'God is working his purpose out as year succeeds to year'; 'Ye that know the Lord is gracious'; 'My heart is filled with thankfulness' and 'Father I place into your hands'. The bible readings were read by Cynthia Poyntsz and Mary Geelan. Diocesan President Hazel Speares outlined the upcoming events and thanked Bishop Ferran for his words of encouragement and everyone involved in the service. Following the service a Flowering Cherry tree was planted by Hazel in the grounds of the Cathedral to celebrate 130 years of Mothers' Union. Refreshments were enjoyed in the hall where members also had an opportunity to purchase items from the Enterprise Table and Bring & Buy Table.
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The first of the Festival Services was held in St. Mary's Church, Mohill on Tuesday 16th May, 2017. The service was conducted by Rev. Linda Frost. During the opening Hymn 'O Jesus I have promised'; there was a procession of banners. Other hymns were 'Help us to help each other Lord'; 'Speak O God as we come to You'; O Christ the same, through all our story's pages' and 'There is a spirit in the air'. The Old Testament reading Proverbs 24 v 3-14 was read by Mrs. Margaret Lawrence and the Gospel Reading St. Luke 8 v 1-15 was read by Rev. Linda Frost. Prayers of Intercession were led by Mohill branch members. The offering went to the Overseas Fund. The address was given by Ms Jacqui Armstrong -all Ireland Faith & Policy coordinator. Mrs. Hazel Speares Diocesan President addressed the congregation before everyone travelled to the hall for refreshments. The beautiful Celebration Cake was cut by DP Hazel Speares. Mothers' Union enterprises were on sale and there was also a Bring and Buy Sale.
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CELEBRATING 13 DECADES OF LOVE AND SERVICE
On Tuesday 9th May 2017 in glorious sunshine members travelled from across the diocese to Carrick on Shannon to celebrate 130 years of Mothers’ Union in Ireland. Phyllis Grothier All Ireland President was joined in Esquires Restaurant in Longford by Hazel Speares Diocesan President and other members who were welcomed by Ann Howard Longford Branch Leader. They then travelled to Carrick on Shannon for the service of celebration which was conducted by Rt. Rev. Ferran Glenfield. Also in attendance were Lady Christine Eames (Guest Speaker); Dean Raymond Ferguson, all Ireland Chaplain; Dean Arfon Williams; Dean Nigel Crossey and his wife Yvonne; Rev. Linda Frost; Canon Sandra Lindsay; Jacqui Armstrong All Ireland Faith & Policy coordinator and Peter Clampett, All Ireland Treasurer.
Candles were lit by Cynthia Poyntz (Kilmore) to symbolise God’s presence with us in the past; Liz Wray (Elphin) to symbolise God’s presence with us in the present; and Margaret Sides (Ardagh) to symbolise God’s presence with us in the future. The hymns sung were ‘One more step’; Be not afraid; To God be the glory’ accompanied by Leila Beattie on the keyboard. The scripture readings were read by Phyllis Grothier and Hazel Speares. Following a talk by Phyllis the intercessions were led by Mary Geelan; Charlotte Browne and Sophia Whyte. Bishop Ferran's address reminded us of our Faith and Thanksgiving as we celebrate our renewal together. Bishop Ferran remarked on the ongoing work of MU in Ireland and Worldwide. He encourages us to continue following in Mary Summner's footsteps as we move forward prayerfully in Faith and Action
Everyone had an opportunity to visit the Costello Memorial Chapel in Carrick on Shannon which is the smallest church in Ireland and also to view the marvellous display of memorabilia from branches.
A delicious lunch prepared and served by the staff in the Bush Hotel was enjoyed by all and the beautiful celebration cake which was made and iced by Leila Beattie and decorated by Christine Johnston was cut by Phyllis and Hazel. Everyone present received a souvenir key ring and celebration sweets.
We were very privileged to have Lady Eames as Guest Speaker who gave a very inspiring address. Lady Eames gave us a lot of food for thought as we celebrate, diocese by diocese, 130 years of MU in Ireland. She wished Phyllis Grothier the very best as she continues her journey around Ireland over the coming two weeks. Lady Eames reminded us of Annabelle Hayes who brought MU to Ireland which has now spread throughout each diocese. She spoke about how signposts have brought us to where we are and as we look to the future. The first signpost is VISION, meeting and praying together and planning ahead. The second signpost defines MU through prayer and projects. She emphasised the importance of friendships as a gift from God to be nurtured and never to be under-estimated. Presentations and votes of thanks were made to Lady Eames and Phyllis Grothier by Canon Sandra and Joy Little.
To conclude the celebration Hazel Speares thanked Bishop Ferran; Lady Eames; Phyllis Grothier and Jacqui Armstrong (who prepared the beautiful service )and everyone involved in organising the event and all those who took [art.
Candles were lit by Cynthia Poyntz (Kilmore) to symbolise God’s presence with us in the past; Liz Wray (Elphin) to symbolise God’s presence with us in the present; and Margaret Sides (Ardagh) to symbolise God’s presence with us in the future. The hymns sung were ‘One more step’; Be not afraid; To God be the glory’ accompanied by Leila Beattie on the keyboard. The scripture readings were read by Phyllis Grothier and Hazel Speares. Following a talk by Phyllis the intercessions were led by Mary Geelan; Charlotte Browne and Sophia Whyte. Bishop Ferran's address reminded us of our Faith and Thanksgiving as we celebrate our renewal together. Bishop Ferran remarked on the ongoing work of MU in Ireland and Worldwide. He encourages us to continue following in Mary Summner's footsteps as we move forward prayerfully in Faith and Action
Everyone had an opportunity to visit the Costello Memorial Chapel in Carrick on Shannon which is the smallest church in Ireland and also to view the marvellous display of memorabilia from branches.
A delicious lunch prepared and served by the staff in the Bush Hotel was enjoyed by all and the beautiful celebration cake which was made and iced by Leila Beattie and decorated by Christine Johnston was cut by Phyllis and Hazel. Everyone present received a souvenir key ring and celebration sweets.
We were very privileged to have Lady Eames as Guest Speaker who gave a very inspiring address. Lady Eames gave us a lot of food for thought as we celebrate, diocese by diocese, 130 years of MU in Ireland. She wished Phyllis Grothier the very best as she continues her journey around Ireland over the coming two weeks. Lady Eames reminded us of Annabelle Hayes who brought MU to Ireland which has now spread throughout each diocese. She spoke about how signposts have brought us to where we are and as we look to the future. The first signpost is VISION, meeting and praying together and planning ahead. The second signpost defines MU through prayer and projects. She emphasised the importance of friendships as a gift from God to be nurtured and never to be under-estimated. Presentations and votes of thanks were made to Lady Eames and Phyllis Grothier by Canon Sandra and Joy Little.
To conclude the celebration Hazel Speares thanked Bishop Ferran; Lady Eames; Phyllis Grothier and Jacqui Armstrong (who prepared the beautiful service )and everyone involved in organising the event and all those who took [art.
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SWANLINBAR/KILDALLON
The annual outing took place on Saturday 6th May 2017 to Malahide Castle and gardens, the Pavillion Shopping Centre and a meal in Lisgrey House, Virginia. Our branch were joined by members and friends from Derrylin, Belturbet and Kilmore.
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COMMISSIONING SERVICE
A Commissioning Service of Diocesan Trustees was held in St. Mary's Church, Mohill on 24th April, 2017. The Trustees were commissioned by Revd. Linda Frost who also gave a very inspiring address. Members of Diocesan Council were also in attendance. Diocesan President Hazel Speares read from James 2: 14-26 and the prayers were led by Mary Geelan; Liz Greer; Charlotte Browne and Evelyn Morton.
Following the service a meeting of Diocesan Council took place in the hall. The new promotional DVD was played and we were very proud of Liz Greer for the part she played in the video.
Following the service a meeting of Diocesan Council took place in the hall. The new promotional DVD was played and we were very proud of Liz Greer for the part she played in the video.
ST. JOHN'S & CALRY
Mrs Liz Wray was enrolled by Dean Arfon Williams at an enrolement service on Thursday 30th March in St Johns' Cathedral, Sligo. After the service we had bring/buy for overseas and we enjoyed 13 cupcakes as part of our refreshments. This was to mark 13 decades of love and service within MU in Ireland. Thanks to Esther McMahon for the beautiful cupcakes !
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ALL-IRELAND TRIENNIAL CONFERENCE
The All-Ireland Triennial Conference was held in An Grianan, Termonfeckin, Co. Louth on the weekend of 10th/12th March 2017. Seven members attended Hazel Speares, Diocesan President; Liz Greer; Barbara Smyth; Evelyn Morton; Ann Howard; Kathleen Nairn and Sophia Whyte. Special Guests were Lynne Tembey Worldwide President of the Mothers' Union; Bev Jullien Chief Executive and Nicola Lawrence Head of Overseas Development, Mary Sumner House. Mrs. Phyllis Grothier All Ireland President gave a warm welcome to all the delegates. On Friday evening each of the Unit Coordinators gave a presentation on their Vision for 2017. Bev Jullien CEO addressed the delegates and gave a wonderful presentation on the work of Mothers Union. The business concluded with an Evening Epilogue by Dean Raymond Ferguson - All Ireland Chaplain.
On Saturday morning Jacqui Armstrong All Ireland Faith & Policy Coordinator led a Prayer Walk/Meditation. Unit meetings commenced at 9.30 which took us through to Mid-day Prayers at 12.00 noon. Dean Raymond Ferguson gave a presentation on 'Working with the Clergy'. Following lunch presentations were given by Lynn; Bev and Nicola Lawrence sharing news of the programmes and developments that are enabling and empowering families right around the world.. The Indoor Members' Book of Prayers was launched by The Most Reverend Dr Richard Clarke. Among those in attendance were Lady Christine Eames; Bishop Michael Burrowes; clergy; former All Ireland presidents and All Ireland President of the G.F.S. This was followed by Evening Worship led by Dean Raymond. Delegates from Nigeria; Uganda and Ghana gave an insight into the work of Mothers' Union in those countries.
The evening concluded with some light entertainment from members in various Diocese. Kilmore Elphin & Ardagh delegates performed a classroom sketch assisted by Dean Raymond.
Sunday Morning Worship commenced at 8.00 am followed by breakfast. Lynne Temby and Phyllis spoke on 'Moving Forward - Encouraging Members, Enthusing Leaders, citing some personal stories. Eucharist at 11.00 was celebrated by Dean Raymond. This concluded the All Ireland Conference. The opening of the Worldwide Council followed in the afternoon.
On Saturday morning Jacqui Armstrong All Ireland Faith & Policy Coordinator led a Prayer Walk/Meditation. Unit meetings commenced at 9.30 which took us through to Mid-day Prayers at 12.00 noon. Dean Raymond Ferguson gave a presentation on 'Working with the Clergy'. Following lunch presentations were given by Lynn; Bev and Nicola Lawrence sharing news of the programmes and developments that are enabling and empowering families right around the world.. The Indoor Members' Book of Prayers was launched by The Most Reverend Dr Richard Clarke. Among those in attendance were Lady Christine Eames; Bishop Michael Burrowes; clergy; former All Ireland presidents and All Ireland President of the G.F.S. This was followed by Evening Worship led by Dean Raymond. Delegates from Nigeria; Uganda and Ghana gave an insight into the work of Mothers' Union in those countries.
The evening concluded with some light entertainment from members in various Diocese. Kilmore Elphin & Ardagh delegates performed a classroom sketch assisted by Dean Raymond.
Sunday Morning Worship commenced at 8.00 am followed by breakfast. Lynne Temby and Phyllis spoke on 'Moving Forward - Encouraging Members, Enthusing Leaders, citing some personal stories. Eucharist at 11.00 was celebrated by Dean Raymond. This concluded the All Ireland Conference. The opening of the Worldwide Council followed in the afternoon.
Delegates with Phyllis Grother All Ireland President. (Ann Howard missing from photo)
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Delegates from KEA with some of the Overseas delegates and Dean Raymond Ferguson, All Ireland Chaplain.
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Kathleen Nairn, Overseas Representative and Barbara Smyth Secretary display the MU Souviner Notebook '13 decades of love and service'
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Diocesan President Hazel Speares pictured with Bev Jullien CEO of Mothers Union
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Hazel receives the Worldwide Conference Pack from Bev Jullien Chief Executive of Mothers' Union
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Dean Raymond Ferguson All Ireland Chaplain and Jacqui Armstrong Unit Coordinator Faith & Policy
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The Most Reverend Dr Richard Clarke. and Margaret Crawford All Ireland Indoor Members Contact.
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Norma Bell and Lynne Tembey, Worldwide President
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The Most Reverend Dr Richard Clarke; Phyllis Grothier; Margaret Crawford; Jacqui Armstrong; Norma Bell; Lynne Tembey; Moira Thom.
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The Classroom Sketch
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Chilling out before bed!
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CELEBRATING 13 DECADES OF LOVE AND SERVICE
We would love to hear what you are doing in your branch to celebrate this important milestone - reports and photos please.
ST. JOHN'S & CALRY
Members enjoyed a wonderful evening with the Drumcliffe members. They were also joined by members from Manorhamilton and had lots of fellowship and fun together. To mark 13 decades of love and service within MU in Ireland they sang a verse or two of 13 hymns. The hymns were chosen by those present.
SWANLINBAR & KILDALLON
Swanlinbar Kildallon Mothers' Union held their meeting on Tuesday 14th February in Kinawley. Branch Leader Lorna Graham gave a warm welcome to all visitors and in particular to Guest Speaker Diocesan President Hazel Speares.
The meeting opened with a bible reading by Margaret Crawford and prayers were led by Lorna Graham.
Hazel gave a very informative presentation on her trip to Uganda with the Fields of Life.
Prior to the trip the team travelling to Uganda purchased washing soap, face soap, toothpaste, toothbrushes, sewing kits and sports equipment and these were distributed among the community and to the children and families at the schools visited by the team. Hundreds of washable homemade sanitary pads were made to distribute to young girls.
The team carried out Craft and Sport activities, bible based programmes for all the children and a hygiene programme for boys, girls and ladies in the community.
Funds were provided to bore wells, buy bunk beds and mattresses. The wells pump the water each day to meet the needs of the community. The children and their families were very appreciative of everything they received. To find out more about Fields of Life visit www.fieldsoflife.org
A delicious supper was provided by the ladies from Kinawley/Swanlinbar.
The meeting opened with a bible reading by Margaret Crawford and prayers were led by Lorna Graham.
Hazel gave a very informative presentation on her trip to Uganda with the Fields of Life.
Prior to the trip the team travelling to Uganda purchased washing soap, face soap, toothpaste, toothbrushes, sewing kits and sports equipment and these were distributed among the community and to the children and families at the schools visited by the team. Hundreds of washable homemade sanitary pads were made to distribute to young girls.
The team carried out Craft and Sport activities, bible based programmes for all the children and a hygiene programme for boys, girls and ladies in the community.
Funds were provided to bore wells, buy bunk beds and mattresses. The wells pump the water each day to meet the needs of the community. The children and their families were very appreciative of everything they received. To find out more about Fields of Life visit www.fieldsoflife.org
A delicious supper was provided by the ladies from Kinawley/Swanlinbar.
Hazel also spoke about her trip to Kosova with TEAM HOPE delivering Shoe-boxes to under-privileged children and the joy that these gifts made by so many organisations bring to these children. Thanks were extended to all who provided the shoe-boxes.
Hazel Speares Diocesan President with Lorna Graham Branch Leader
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TRUSTEE PRESENTATIONS
The first Trustee meeting of the new year was held on Thursday 9th February 2017. The meeting was preceded by a meal in the Glenview Restaurant in Ballinamore. Diocesan President Hazel Speares welcomed five new members of Trustees namely Barbara Smith - Secretary; Kathleen Nairn - Overseas Rep., Suzanne Siberry - Young Families; Ruth Dobson - Senior Members; Marlet Hunter - Social Policy. Flowers were presented to outgoing members Margaret Sides; Margaret Colvin and Ann Patterson who were thanked for all they had contributed to Mothers' Union in their various roles on the Trustee Body. (Trudi Williams and Joanne Quill were unable to attend)
Arrangements are being finalised for the "President's Pilgrime" visit to our diocese on the 9th May - more details later. See Diary for details of Festival Services.
Arrangements are being finalised for the "President's Pilgrime" visit to our diocese on the 9th May - more details later. See Diary for details of Festival Services.
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SWANLINBAR & KILDALLON
On Tuesday 13th December 2016 members enjoyed a delicious Christmas Dinner in the Keepers Arms in Bawnboy. Lorna Graham, Branch Leader gave a warm welcome to all present. Numbers were smaller than usual due to sickness. Following the meal we had fun with Quizzes organised by Lorna and Vi Breen and Margaret Crawford read some Christmas poems. Contributions were made to Overseas in lieu of 'Secret Santa'.
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DRUMCLIFFE - CHRISTMAS TREE FESTIVAL
Drumcliffe MU displayed a lovely tree decorated by members. It was part of a total of over sixty trees displayed at the weekend. Proceeds from the event were in aid of the Samaritans and Church funds.
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ST JOHN'S AND CALRY
Christmas party night in Austies Restaurant, Rosses Point
Mothers’ Union All-Ireland Prayer Vigil to END violence against women
The Mothers’ Union All-Ireland 16 Days of Activism Prayer Vigil was held in St. George's Church Carrick on Shannon - on Saturday 26th November.The Guest Speakers were from Invisible Traffik, Sligo and SAFE Link Domestic Advocacy Service in Boyle.
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MOHILL & BALLINAMORE
Mrs. Violet Notley celebrated her 90th birthday recently and was the recipient of a special birthday card from Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth. At the November meeting members had a cake to celebrate the special birthday. Photographed with Violet are Irene Argue and Margaret Lawrence Branch Leader.
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Second Mothers’ Union All-Ireland Prayer Vigil to END violence against women
“It is one of the most pervasive violations of human rights in the world, one of the least prosecuted crimes, and one of the greatest threats to lasting peace and development……I am talking about violence against women and children.” (Lakshmi Puri - Acting Head of UN Women)
In solidarity with women across the world, Mothers’ Union is supporting the 16 Days of Activism Campaign for the second year running with an All-Ireland Prayer Vigil. This initiative highlights and calls for an end to violence against women locally, nationally and internationally.
Mothers’ Union in Kilmore, Elphin & Ardagh will hold a vigil at St George’s Church, Carrick-on-Shannon on Saturday 26th November from 3 to 5pm. We will have speakers from SAFE Link Domestic Advocacy Service in Boyle and from Invisible Traffick in Sligo. We wish to spread the very important message that violence against women and children IS NOT OKAY!! We need to take action; we need to change attitudes. Mothers’ Union is one of over 130 local groups across Ireland that have taken part in the 16 Days of Action campaign.
Lakshmi Puri continues “It is time for action when up to 70 per cent of women in some countries face physical and/or sexual violence in their lifetime. When one in three girls in developing countries is likely to be married as a child bride; when some 140 million girls and women have suffered female genital mutilation; when millions of women and girls are trafficked in modern-day slavery; and when women’s bodies are a battleground and rape is used as a tactic of war – it is time for action.”
Please join us even for a short while and show your solidarity with these women and children. For further information contact Trudi Williams on 086 8181110.
Second Mothers’ Union All-Ireland Prayer Vigil to END violence against women
“It is one of the most pervasive violations of human rights in the world, one of the least prosecuted crimes, and one of the greatest threats to lasting peace and development……I am talking about violence against women and children.” (Lakshmi Puri - Acting Head of UN Women)
In solidarity with women across the world, Mothers’ Union is supporting the 16 Days of Activism Campaign for the second year running with an All-Ireland Prayer Vigil. This initiative highlights and calls for an end to violence against women locally, nationally and internationally.
Mothers’ Union in Kilmore, Elphin & Ardagh will hold a vigil at St George’s Church, Carrick-on-Shannon on Saturday 26th November from 3 to 5pm. We will have speakers from SAFE Link Domestic Advocacy Service in Boyle and from Invisible Traffick in Sligo. We wish to spread the very important message that violence against women and children IS NOT OKAY!! We need to take action; we need to change attitudes. Mothers’ Union is one of over 130 local groups across Ireland that have taken part in the 16 Days of Action campaign.
Lakshmi Puri continues “It is time for action when up to 70 per cent of women in some countries face physical and/or sexual violence in their lifetime. When one in three girls in developing countries is likely to be married as a child bride; when some 140 million girls and women have suffered female genital mutilation; when millions of women and girls are trafficked in modern-day slavery; and when women’s bodies are a battleground and rape is used as a tactic of war – it is time for action.”
Please join us even for a short while and show your solidarity with these women and children. For further information contact Trudi Williams on 086 8181110.
KINAWLEY & HOLY TRINITY
At the visitor's night on Wednesday 16th November Morag Armstrong demonstrated the art of book folding. Morag had a wonderful display of some of her creations. Everyone thoroughly enjoyed the demonstration and the delicious supper.
Gladys Thompson - Branch Leader & Morag Armstrong
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KILMORE & BALLINTEMPLE
A display of beautiful seasonal table arrangements made by members under the expert guidance of Leila Beattie.
FLOWER FESTIVAL IN MANORHAMILTON - THEME 'SEED TIME AND HARVEST'
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Display by Mothers' Union members - wonderful colour and craftmanship
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Women's Getaway Weekend
The annual Women's Getaway Weekend was held in the Raddison Hotel, Sligo on 7th/8th October. The theme of the conference which was very successful was 'Family Matters'. There was 40 for dinner on the Friday evening followed by fun and games. On the Saturday we had a conference of 80 +++, full house. The conference was well supported by KEA. Speakers on Saturday were, Bishop Richard Henderson and Joanne Reilly 'Inside the Suicidal Mind' followed by prayer walk led by Jacqui Armstrong and back to the hotel for lunch. All enjoyed the hotel, excellent food, location, fun and friendship.
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VISIT OF PHYLLIS GROTHIER - ALL IRELAND PRESIDENT TO THE DIOCESE
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All Ireland President Mrs. Phyllis Grothier visited the diocese and met with members and friends in three different venues - Riverstown; Billis and Belturbet. All the events were very well attended. Phyllis spoke enthusiastically about the work of Mothers' Union and gave a flavour of some of the events which are being planned for next year to celebrate 130 years of Mothers' Union in Ireland (13 decades of love and service). She thanked the members for their involvement in projects which help to make a difference to others. Phyllis was accompanied to all of the events by Diocesan President Hazel Speares. Hazel thanked Phyllis and also everyone involved in hosting the events. A lovely evening of fellowship, fun and delicious food was enjoyed by all. |
BELTURBET
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BILLIS
RIVERSTOWN
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KILMORE & BALLINTEMPLE
Having fun and games at the Teddy Bears' picnic at Danesfort Kilmore, in June
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SENIOR MEMBERS' TEA PARTY
Senior members together with some of their families from Elphin and Ardagh enjoyed a lovely afternoon in Galilee House overlooking the lakes and the beautiful surroundings on Saturday 11th June. Firstly we had a short service of Holy Communion conducted by Canon Ronnie Bourke. Refreshments followed and a chance to renew friendships which was a highlight for many of those present. MU enterprise was available for purchase, thanks to Margaret and Irene for helping on the stand. Our newly appointed Diocesan President, Mrs Hazel Speares was delighted to have opportunity to chat to the ladies. Margaret Colvin warmly welcomed everyone and gave them a potti purri pouch to bring home.
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FESTIVAL SERVICES
The first of our festival services was held in Drung Parish Church - home parish of our Diocesan President Hazel Speares. The service was conducted by Revd Nick Jones and Dean Nigel Crossey preached to us on our commitment to love and our commitment to holiness.
The second of our festival service was in Croghan parish church - home parish of outgoing Diocesan President Joy Little. The service was conducted by Canon Ronnie Bourke and Bishop Ferran Glenfield preached to us on the three “L's”. Loyalty to Jesus, Life coming into life and looking forward, Jesus is the author of life, lives in you and lives in me. Love, God is love, Jesus is our loving friend.
The lessons were read by Hazel Speares, Vida McCauley and Joy Little. Intercessions were led by members in the host branches. There was a procession of banners at both services and the overseas envelops were presented by the treasurers of the various branches. Diocesan President, Hazel Speares thanked all who had been involved in organizing the services and those who had made it so meaningful by their participation. Refreshments were served in Drung parish hall and in Croghan Community Centre. Members had an opportunity to purchase items from the enterprise table, thanks to Leila and her helpers for providing the stall on both evenings. Thanks to the host branches for organizing the bring / buy and preparing the venues and making us feel so welcome.
At our Festival Services Vida reminded us of our 140th Anniversary. A bookmark was presented to all present at the services. It is 140 years since Mary Sumner held the first meeting of Mothers’ Union in the Vicarage at Old Alresford. Mothers’ Union has grown from a single meeting to an organisation of over 4 million members in 83 countries.
The second of our festival service was in Croghan parish church - home parish of outgoing Diocesan President Joy Little. The service was conducted by Canon Ronnie Bourke and Bishop Ferran Glenfield preached to us on the three “L's”. Loyalty to Jesus, Life coming into life and looking forward, Jesus is the author of life, lives in you and lives in me. Love, God is love, Jesus is our loving friend.
The lessons were read by Hazel Speares, Vida McCauley and Joy Little. Intercessions were led by members in the host branches. There was a procession of banners at both services and the overseas envelops were presented by the treasurers of the various branches. Diocesan President, Hazel Speares thanked all who had been involved in organizing the services and those who had made it so meaningful by their participation. Refreshments were served in Drung parish hall and in Croghan Community Centre. Members had an opportunity to purchase items from the enterprise table, thanks to Leila and her helpers for providing the stall on both evenings. Thanks to the host branches for organizing the bring / buy and preparing the venues and making us feel so welcome.
At our Festival Services Vida reminded us of our 140th Anniversary. A bookmark was presented to all present at the services. It is 140 years since Mary Sumner held the first meeting of Mothers’ Union in the Vicarage at Old Alresford. Mothers’ Union has grown from a single meeting to an organisation of over 4 million members in 83 countries.
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MU display at St John's Cathedral Flower Festival
The theme for the flower festival was "All things bright and beautiful". For our MU display we used the same theme "Celebration of Faith" as the MU theme for 2016
VISIT OF ALL IRELAND PRESIDENT TO THE DIOCESE
Mrs. Phyllis Grothier - All Ireland President will visit the diocese in September where she will meet with members in three different venues across the diocese. Members are encouraged to attend whichever venue is most convenient. The meetings will be light with ice breakers, worship songs, PowerPoint and of course Phyllis' talk and tea. Everyone is welcome - bring a friend or two!
Riverstown on Tuesday 13th Sept at 8pm
Virginia on Wed 14th at 3.30pm
Belturbet on Wed 14th at 8.pm
Riverstown on Tuesday 13th Sept at 8pm
Virginia on Wed 14th at 3.30pm
Belturbet on Wed 14th at 8.pm
ST. JOHN'S & CALRY
Two new members - Mrs Joan Ferguson and Mrs Ann Wooderson were enrolled by Dean Arfon Williams at an enrolment service on Thursday evening 21st April in St Johns' Cathedral, Sligo.
Joan Ferguson; Dean Arfon; Ann Wooderson
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St Johns' & Calry branch including two new members (Ann and Joan) and Dean Arfon Williams
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COMMISSIONING OF DIOCESAN PRESIDENT
On Thursday 7th April 2016 Mrs. Hazel Speares was commissioned as Diocesan President by Rt. Rev. Ferran Glenfield in St. Mary's Church Mohill. The service was conducted by Rev. Linda Frost. The organist was Ms Hazel Tuthill. Hymns chosen by Hazel were "May the mind of Christ my Saviour" and "All my hope on God is founded". The service was attended by members from each branch in the diocese. Also in attendance were James Speares (Hazel's husband) and Mr. Peter Clampett (All Ireland Treasurer) and his wife Sylvia.
Following the Commissioning Service a meeting of Diocesan Council took place in the School Hall.
Following the Commissioning Service a meeting of Diocesan Council took place in the School Hall.
Rt. Revd. Ferran Glenfield; Hazel Speares (Diocesan President) James Speares; Rev. Linda Frost
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Hazel Speares Diocesan President
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Enrolment of new MU members in Kilmore/Ballintemple Branch
On Mothering Sunday 6th March two new members were enrolled in Kilmore Cathedral by Dean Crossey. The Dean paid tribute to the members of the MU for all their work, seen and unseen in the Parishes and Community.
Photo left to right: Yvonne Crossey; Cynthia Poyntz Branch Leader and Hilary Soden.
PRESENTATION TO JOY LITTLE
The Trustees met on Friday 12th February 2016 in Riversdale Guesthouse Ballinamore for a celebration meal to thank outgoing Diocesan President Joy Little. Following a delicious meal Diocesan President Hazel Speares welcomed everyone. Sophia Whyte on behalf of the Trustees presented Joy with a gold pendant and thanked her for leading Mothers' Union in the diocese over the past seven years. Joy carried out her role as DP with grace and humility, displaying remarkable energy despite the busyness of her life and never missed an opportunity to promote MU at all diocesan events. Mary Jones presented Joy with a Rose plant and Ann Howard presented teddies for her grandchildren. Joy thanked the Trustees and presented the MU Diocesan Brooch to the new Diocesan President Hazel Speares wishing her well in her role as DP. A meeting of the Trustee Body followed the presentation.
Hazel Speares Diocesan President receives the Diocesan Brooch from Joy Little
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Mary Geelan; Sophia Whyte; Joy Little
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RIVERSTOWN & BOYLE CHRISTMAS DINNER
Members from Riverstown & Sligo branches together with friends enjoyed Christmas dinner in The Coach House Ballymote.
SWANLINBAR KILDALLON CHRISTMAS DINNER
Branch leader Lorna Graham welcomed twenty four members and friends to the Sheelin Kitchen, Bellanaleck for the Christmas dinner where a delicious meal was enjoyed by all. Afterwards committee member Vi Breen entertained members with a few humerous poems. Presents were received from the Secret Santa and Margaret Crawford provided a Christmas epilogue.
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PRESENTATION TO JOY LITTLE DP AT AUTUMN COUNCIL
The Autumn Council Meeting was held in the Hunt Hall Mohill on Thursday 12th November. Diocesan President Joy Little gave an overview of some of the events which were held during her six year term of office. Canon Sandra Lindsay and Evelyn Morton presented Joy with a cheque and flowers on behalf of the members. Canon Sandra thanked Joy for the wonderful leadership and commitment which she has given to Mothers' Union during the six years. Joy said it was a privilege as President to represent Mothers' Union in the diocese and thanked the members for all their work and for the surprise presentation. Joy wished her successor Hazel Speares well as takes over the role of Diocesan President on 1st January 2016.
Joy Little presented a pottery jug to Margaret Lawrence Branch Leader Mohill - this jug had been presented to Mothers' Union in the diocese by our link diocese Cork and the Trustees decided that it should be presented to Mohill Branch for use in the church or hall as this is where all the Trustee and Diocesan meetings are held.
Trudi Williams and Vida McCauley gave an interesting presentation on the 16 Days of Activism against Gender Violence and outlined details of the Vigil being held in Carrick on Shannon on Saturday 28th November 3.00-6.00pm.
Joy Little presented a pottery jug to Margaret Lawrence Branch Leader Mohill - this jug had been presented to Mothers' Union in the diocese by our link diocese Cork and the Trustees decided that it should be presented to Mohill Branch for use in the church or hall as this is where all the Trustee and Diocesan meetings are held.
Trudi Williams and Vida McCauley gave an interesting presentation on the 16 Days of Activism against Gender Violence and outlined details of the Vigil being held in Carrick on Shannon on Saturday 28th November 3.00-6.00pm.
Canon Sandra Lindsay proposing a vote of thanks to Joy Little Diocesan President
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Evelyn Morton; Canon Sandra Lindsay and Joy Little DP
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Margaret Lawrence being presented with pottery jug by Joy Little Diocesan President
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Mothers’ Union All-Ireland
‘16 DAYS OF ACTIVISM AGAINST
GENDER-BASED VIOLENCE’ PRAYER VIGIL
Mothers’ Union Invites You to Join The Call to End Gender Based
Violence Throughout The World
What is 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence?
Beginning on 25th November, International Day for the Elimination of Violence
against Women and ending on 10thDecember, Human Rights Day, the
campaign is used by individuals and groups around the world to call for an end
to all forms of violence against women. Figures from the World Health
Organisation show that, globally, an estimated 23% - 37 % of women suffer violence from an
intimate partner; and that 38 % of all women murdered across the world are killed by their
partner. ‘16 Days’ provides the opportunity to raise awareness of this issue, demonstrate solidarity
against violence and put pressure on governments to take action.
What is happening in Ireland in 2015?
In a powerful gesture of solidarity with our sisters at home and across the
world who are suffering at the hand of gender based violence, Mothers’
Union All-Ireland is spreading the word and getting together in prayer and in
person on Saturday, November 28th in the form of an All-Ireland Prayer Vigil.
This simple action will also raise awareness among the general population
and contribute to pressurising governments to take action.
We invite you to join us at:
St George’s Church
Carrick-on-Shannon
Co Leitrim
Time: Anytime between 3pm and 6pm on 28th November 2015
For further information please contact Trudi Williams on 086 8181 110 (Mothers Union Southern
Ireland Social Policy Rep
Please spread the word and invite a friend.
(Yellow and purple are the colours associated with the 16 Days Campaign Against Gender Based
Violence. Not essential, but we encourage you to wear these colours on the day.)
Keep up to date at www.mothersunion.ie or www.mothersunion.org
‘16 DAYS OF ACTIVISM AGAINST
GENDER-BASED VIOLENCE’ PRAYER VIGIL
Mothers’ Union Invites You to Join The Call to End Gender Based
Violence Throughout The World
What is 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence?
Beginning on 25th November, International Day for the Elimination of Violence
against Women and ending on 10thDecember, Human Rights Day, the
campaign is used by individuals and groups around the world to call for an end
to all forms of violence against women. Figures from the World Health
Organisation show that, globally, an estimated 23% - 37 % of women suffer violence from an
intimate partner; and that 38 % of all women murdered across the world are killed by their
partner. ‘16 Days’ provides the opportunity to raise awareness of this issue, demonstrate solidarity
against violence and put pressure on governments to take action.
What is happening in Ireland in 2015?
In a powerful gesture of solidarity with our sisters at home and across the
world who are suffering at the hand of gender based violence, Mothers’
Union All-Ireland is spreading the word and getting together in prayer and in
person on Saturday, November 28th in the form of an All-Ireland Prayer Vigil.
This simple action will also raise awareness among the general population
and contribute to pressurising governments to take action.
We invite you to join us at:
St George’s Church
Carrick-on-Shannon
Co Leitrim
Time: Anytime between 3pm and 6pm on 28th November 2015
For further information please contact Trudi Williams on 086 8181 110 (Mothers Union Southern
Ireland Social Policy Rep
Please spread the word and invite a friend.
(Yellow and purple are the colours associated with the 16 Days Campaign Against Gender Based
Violence. Not essential, but we encourage you to wear these colours on the day.)
Keep up to date at www.mothersunion.ie or www.mothersunion.org
MU ENTERPRISES AT DIOCESAN SYNOD
MU Enterprises were available at the Diocesan Synod in Carrick on Shannon on Saturday 17th October with very positive feedback.
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SENIOR MEMBERS' TEA PARTY IN GALILEE
Senior members together with some of their families from Elphin and Ardagh enjoyed a lovely afternoon in Galilee House overlooking the lakes and the beautiful surroundings on Saturday 13th June. There was a short service of Holy Communion conducted by Bishop Glenfield. Diocesan President Joy Little, KEA MU indoor rep Mrs Margaret Colvin were present and members were also delighted to be joined by Revd Linda Frost and Revd Ronnie Bourke. Refreshments followed and a chance to renew friendships which was a highlight for many of those present. MU enterprise was available for purchase
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SENIOR MEMBERS' TEA PARTY IN KILMORE
Joy Little, Diocesan President; Mavis Magee, Senior Members' Contact; Bishop Ferran Glenfield; Vida McCauley, Unit Coordinator Faith & Policy.
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Over forty members travelled to Kilmore Parish Hall in beautiful sunshine for the Senior Members' Tea Party on Wednesday 10th June. The Holy Communion Service was conducted by Bishop Ferran Glenfield and assisted by Ms Mary Geelan. Mrs. Elizabeth Hislop played the keyboard and Mrs. Vida McCauley read a lesson. Diocesan President Mrs. Joy Little gave a warm welcome to all present and highlighted some of the events during her five and half years as DP. She also thanked Bishop Ferran and all involved in organising the Tea Party. Everyone enjoyed the lovely tea and treats and having the opportunity to chat with each other. Mrs. Violet Magee (in the absence of Leila Beattie) had the Enterprise Stall with a great selection of cards, books etc.,
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ROSE OF TRALEE FINALIST
Daphne Howard from Longford has qualified for the Rose of Tralee competition in Tralee which will be on TV on 17th and 18th August at 8pm each night. It’s a great achievement for her. She is a national school teacher in Tashinny National school this year but will be returning to her main school in Sandford Parish Dublin in September. Her parents are Richard and Ann and she has one brother Robert. (Her mother Ann is VP for A&O in the diocese). She is an active member of St Paul’s church Newtownforbes where she plays the organ for special occasions. For this she spends time practising and playing piano. She is a member of the Longford Mental Health Association where she helps out with poster making and fund raising as well as befriending those who are recovering from mental health difficulties. She loves cake icing and has often created master pieces for special birthdays including her Granmother Susan Howard’s 90th birthday recently. She likes to play football with the local ladies football team and has recently learned social dancing. She loves to travel and has visited many countries all over the world. Best of luck Daphne in Tralee.
Come away and sink yourself in Mothers' Union and leave feeling relaxed, rejuventated and reconnected! God intends us to FLOURISH in the midst of all of life: through joys and challenges, victories and struggles. We invite you to come away from your everyday routine for a weekend of refreshment.
The keynote speaker for the weekend is Susan Heaney who will inspire and challenge us. Susan has been living in Redcross, Co. Wicklow since 1990 and has worked closely with her husband Roland in building up the church. Susan oversees the Children's Ministry and is involved in leading services and participating in the prayer ministry. They have three children - Peter, Fiona and Joanna.
Team Building Session - Peak Discovery
"Satisfying Sweet Treats" demonstration
Activities kick off on Friday evening at 7.00pm (rooms will be available from approx. 5pm) and we usually finish around 3.00pm on Saturday. The cost €120.00 includes overnight accommodation on a B & B basis (2 people sharing) evening meal on Friday and lunch on Saturday.
Booking Form
HOW TO GET THERE: The City North Hotel, Julianstown is ideally located just off Junction 7 (from either direction) on the M1 between Dublin and Belfast.
The keynote speaker for the weekend is Susan Heaney who will inspire and challenge us. Susan has been living in Redcross, Co. Wicklow since 1990 and has worked closely with her husband Roland in building up the church. Susan oversees the Children's Ministry and is involved in leading services and participating in the prayer ministry. They have three children - Peter, Fiona and Joanna.
Team Building Session - Peak Discovery
"Satisfying Sweet Treats" demonstration
Activities kick off on Friday evening at 7.00pm (rooms will be available from approx. 5pm) and we usually finish around 3.00pm on Saturday. The cost €120.00 includes overnight accommodation on a B & B basis (2 people sharing) evening meal on Friday and lunch on Saturday.
Booking Form
HOW TO GET THERE: The City North Hotel, Julianstown is ideally located just off Junction 7 (from either direction) on the M1 between Dublin and Belfast.
FESTIVAL SERVICE & THANKSGIVING FOR 'MUMS IN MAY'
The Mothers' Union Festival Service and Thanksgiving for 'Mums in May' was held in St. John's Church, Longford on Wednesday 27th May 2015. The service was conducted by Canon David Catterall. Bishop Ferran Glenfield, clergy and readers were in attendance. The address was given by Mrs. Phyllis Grothier All-Ireland President. The lessons were read by Mrs. Iris Clendenning and Mrs. Phyllis Grothier. Diocesan President Mrs. Joy Little thanked all involved in preparing the service, Canon David and Bishop Ferran and everyone who attended. Joy also spoke about forthcoming Mothers' Union events in the diocese. She also asked for prayerful consideration for the election of a new Diocesan President. Following the service a delicious supper was served in the Parish Hall. Longford Branch also had a Cake Sale for 'Mums in May'
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DIOCESAN FESTIVAL SERVICE IN TOMREGAN CHURCH
The Diocesan Festival Service took place in Tomregan Parish Church Ballyconnell on Wednesday 20th May 2015 with a large attendance from branches across the diocese. The service was led by Rev. John Woods and Capt., Richard Beadle. Bishop Feran Glenfield who was unable to attend was represented by Archdeacon Craig McCauley. Clergy and Diocesan readers from the diocese were also in attendance. Following the Introduction and welcome there was the procession of banners. Rev. Linda Frost preached on the theme "United in Prayer". The lessons were read by Joy Little Diocesan President and Lorna Graham Swanlinbar/Kildallon Branch Leader. The Intercessions were led by members from Swanlinbar/Kildallon branch. The organist was Beatrice Crawford.
Joy Little Diocesan President thanked Rev. John and Capt. Richard for conducting the service, Vida McCauley & Lorna Graham for organising the service and all others who were involved, the Preacher Rev. Linda Frost, the clergy and readers in attendance, the organist, those who provided food and prepared the hall. Joy outlined some of the forthcoming events which can be seen on the Diary. Everyone enjoyed the refreshments in the Parish Hall and had an opportunity to buy from the Literature Table. A successful Bring and Buy Sale was also held.
Joy Little Diocesan President thanked Rev. John and Capt. Richard for conducting the service, Vida McCauley & Lorna Graham for organising the service and all others who were involved, the Preacher Rev. Linda Frost, the clergy and readers in attendance, the organist, those who provided food and prepared the hall. Joy outlined some of the forthcoming events which can be seen on the Diary. Everyone enjoyed the refreshments in the Parish Hall and had an opportunity to buy from the Literature Table. A successful Bring and Buy Sale was also held.
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KINAWLEY & HOLY TRINITY
For their 'Mums in May' event members held a very successful Coffee Morning and Craft Fayre in Derrylin Parish Hall.
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S. John's Longford
Members held a cake sale on Wednesday 27th May in the Parish Hall following the Festival Service and Thanksgiving for 'Mums in May'
Gillian McCord; Joy Moorehead; Madeline Bennett; Ann Howard - Branch Leader; Diane Stewart.
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Gillian & Diane at their sales table.
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Longford Branch Members: (l to R) Diane Stewart; Mrs. Clendenning; Mrs. Hagarty; Ann Howard; Gail McNeill; Joy Moorehead; Gillian McCord; Madeline Bennett; Mrs. Stewart.
ST. JOHN'S & CALRY 'MAD HATTERS' GARDEN PARTY
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St Johns' & Calry had a very successful "Mad Hatters Garden Party" on 17th May. As the weather conditions were a little bit unfavourable to sit outside, the Dean kindly let us use the Deanery for the party. There was all sorts of hats and feathers, and everyone thoroughly enjoyed the laughter and chat. All enjoyed the afernoon tea served by the ladies. |
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KILLESHANDRA 'MUMS IN MAY' WALK
TALK AND WALK AT KILMORE CATHEDRAL
Sycamore tree planted by Bishop Bedell in the 17th Century
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On Saturday 9th May we had a lovely afternoon at Kilmore Cathedal and environs for our 'Mums in May' Walk and Talk. Wendy Swan accompanied by Winston Heaslip gave an interesting account of the history and culture of the area. They talked about Bishops, Deans Stain Glass windows and architecture, including a description of the famous Romanesque doorway. We viewed the Motte and Bailey in the field opposite the Cathedral. The sun shone benevolently on the fifty or more enthusiasts of all ages. Canon Mark Lidwill welcomed everybody. Following the short walk and visiting Bedell's tomb and ancient sycamore tree, we crossed the stile, adjourned to the Hall and feasted on the delicious treats provided. |
Bishop Bedell's tomb is In the old graveyard beside the Cathedral
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Admiring the 17th Century copy of the Translation of the Old Testament into Irish, executed by Bishop Bedell with the help of friends.
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This is a brief outline from Mary Sumner House of the project in Ethiopia which has been chosen for the Overseas portion of the Mums in May 2015 fundraiser. We plan to have more detail to present at All-Ireland Council on 28th March but this outline may be useful as you begin to promote Mums in May in your dioceses. Thank you for all that you are doing to make Mums in May 2015 a great success which will benefit so many, both at home and overseas.
Ethiopia
£18,000 will be used to equip individuals with basic literacy and numeracy skills whilst discussing and planning action on issues and challenges they face on a daily basis. Family and community relationships in Ethiopia will be transformed as literate learners will be positively engaged in the local community, thus reducing poverty, gender barriers and ignorance, and improving living conditions in the home and in society as a whole. Part of this budget will also be used to introduce the idea of Awaken to the Church in Ethiopia.
Ethiopia
£18,000 will be used to equip individuals with basic literacy and numeracy skills whilst discussing and planning action on issues and challenges they face on a daily basis. Family and community relationships in Ethiopia will be transformed as literate learners will be positively engaged in the local community, thus reducing poverty, gender barriers and ignorance, and improving living conditions in the home and in society as a whole. Part of this budget will also be used to introduce the idea of Awaken to the Church in Ethiopia.
DERRYLIN/SWANLINBAR-KILDALLON OUTING
Members from Derrylin, Swanlinbar/Ballyconnell and Belturbet travelled to the Flower Festival in Shankill Parish Church, Lurgan on Saturday 9th May. On arrival we enjoyed the very welcome tea/coffee, scones and traybakes in the Parish Hall. It was great to meet Rev, Geoff Wilson (former Rector of the Swanlinbar/Kildallan Group) and his wife Naomi. The theme for the floral displays in the magnificent church were stunning. From Lurgan we travelled to Lisburn and enjoyed the very interesting guided tour of the Linen Museum. There was also time for some retail therapy before departing for the Cohannon Inn for our evening meal.
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L to R: Shirley Hamilton, May Rooney, Rev. Geoff and Naomi Wilson, Jemima Wilson and Jennifer Crawford.
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QUIET DAY
The Diocesan Quiet Day was held in the Bush Hotel, Carrick on Shannon on Saturday 25th April 2015. On arrival we were served tea/coffee and freshly baked scones. Vida McCauley Unit Coordinator for Faith & Policy welcomed everyone and introduced Revd. Alastair Graham who spoke on 'The Reign of Grace'. The reflections he used were very inspiring and thought-provoking. Everyone enjoyed the delicious lunch and the 'catch-up' with friends. Diocesan President Joy Little thanked Revd. Graham; Vida McCauley who organised the event and everyone who attended. She also outlined the forthcoming' Mums in May' events and also the Festival Services and Tea Parties.
Reverend Alastair Graham
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l to r: Liz Greer; Vida McCauley; Joy Little; Rev. Alastair Graham
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Prayer Circle Intercessors: (l to R) Vida McCauley; Ann Fitzpatrick; Margaret Sides; Rev. Alasatair Graham; Cynthia Poyntz; Gillian McCord; Joy Little; Mary Geelan; Vi Breen.
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SOCIAL IN CAVAN CRYSTAL HOTEL
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Members and friends from across the diocese enjoyed the social in the Cavan Crystal Hotel in Cavan on Friday 20th March. Rev. Andrew Quill gave thanksgiving for the lovely finger food which everyone enjoyed. Joy Little Diocesan President gave a warm welcome to all present and especially to non-members and thanked them for their support.
Joy outlined some of the forthcoming Mothers' Union events in the diocese. She also thanked the organisers of the social evening Leila Beatty; Evelyn Morton and Charlotte Browne for all their work. Liz Greer looked after the MU Enterprises which were available for sale. Dancing followed with music by Nigel Livingstone and lots of Spot Prizes to be won. This social event was a great success and an opportunity to meet, chat and have fun with friends from across the diocese. |
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CHRISTMAS TREE FESTIVAL IN LISSADEL CHURCH SLIGO
The beautifully decorated MU tree
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From left: Jennifer Siggins; Gladys Barber; Pearl Henry & DP Joy Little with the MU Tree
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Members from Drumcliffe branch decorate tree
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ST. JOHN'S & CALRY
For our March meeting,
Drumcliffe branch joined us.We had a lovely evening with Sandlin Poth on
"A patchwork of Devotional Thought". Sandlin displayed her quilts and
illustrated how prayer and patchwork can "hold us together", even
when we are absent from one another.
MU enterprise was available on the evening and the ladies had a opportunity to purchase.
MU enterprise was available on the evening and the ladies had a opportunity to purchase.
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KILMORE & BALLINTEMPLE
The branch held a Family Fun Quiz on Friday 20th February in Kilmore Hall. A good night's fun was had by all.
ST. JOHN'S & CALRY
Members enjoying their Christmas dinner
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GENERAL MEETING 2014
Charlotte Browne with Diocesan Banner
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Service of Celebration on the eve of The General Meeting 2014 St Anne’s Cathedral, Belfast : Friday 20th June 2014
It was wonderful to gather together and share in prayer and praise in a beautiful cathedral in the heart of Belfast. Charlotte Browne proudly carried KEA banner at the service, thank you. The Archbishop of Armagh, the most Revd Dr Richard Clarke preached for this special service. Saturday 21st June at the Waterfront Hall, Belfast The theme of the event was ‘Believing, Behaving, Belonging’, focusing on how our programmes and work strives to build an international community of members expressing their faith through praying, enabling and campaigning. With reports from Provincial Presidents across Mothers’ Union Britain and Ireland to worship, comedian & Families First writer Andy Kind and a motivating interview with Rev Chris Bennett from the Titanic Quarter. Delegates were asked to “Have Your Say” with a voting session, and an important announcement was made regarding our ‘Wave of Prayer’... ...to develop and engage with new branches new links will be formed internationally. In September this year resources will be made available before the change takes effect on the 1st of January 2015. Our plan is to help grow the sense of Belonging worldwide through the Wave of Prayer. |
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Kilmore Teddy Bears' Picnic was held on the 7th June at Danesfort (by kind invitation of Dean Ferguson). The children had great fun playing in the sunshine. The very young enjoyed crawling around on the grass, some had to be discouraged from eating it!
Toddlers experimented with suitable equipment. Tree-climbing attracted the more adventurous. Older children enjoyed the challenges of a Treasure Hunt. Grannies kept a benignly watchful eye on the antics of the next generation. Delicious eats rounded off the proceedings. |
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The second of the Seniors' Tea Parties was held on Wednesday 11th June in Kilmore Hall. Approx. 60 members attended. The Service of HC was led by Dean Raymond Ferguson. Canon Sandra Lindsay and Rev. Stephanie Woods were also in attendance. Bishop Ferran Glenfield was unable to attend. The Epistle was read by Mrs. Joy Little Diocesan President and the organist was Mrs. Elizabeth Hislop. Dean Ferguson spoke about "The Good Shepherd". Following the service everyone enjoyed the beautiful afternoon tea and the chat with old and some new friends. Joy thanked Dean Raymond for officiating at the service and as it is his final MU event before retirement Joy presented him with a token to show our appreciation for his support to MU in the diocese. Joy also thanked Elizabeth for providing the music; the ladies from Kilmore who prepared the hall; everyone who provided food and all the ladies who provided transport. Mrs. Mavis Magee Senior Members' Contact also thanked everyone for coming and those who provided food.
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TEA PARTY IN GALILEE
The first of the Seniors Tea Parties was held on Saturday 7th June in Galilee House, Boyle. A very enjoyable afternoon over looking the lakes and gardens was had by all present. Thanks to Canon Ronnie Bourke for leading us in worship. It was wonderful to have in attendance our MU Chaplain, Bishop Ferran Glenfield and Mrs Margaret Colvin, Elphin and Ardagh Indoor representative Trustee Body. The ladies enjoyed the fellowship and catch up with their friends and especially meeting our Bishop and Margaret over afternoon tea Thanks to the drivers who brought ladies, which was appreciated by all.
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